My gf and I have been together for 2 years we were high school sweethearts and first love. Rectenly she lied to me about where she was. She said she was at a friend but later on I found out she was at a bar. She didnt tell me because I always give her crap where she was going with or whom she is out with. The only reason I do that is beacuse I am insecure. In the past she have cheated on me and I just dont feel safe. Now we are on a break alsmost 2 days now and I feel very sad and scared. Im scared that she might hurt me again but she said I have to learn to trust her. How am i suppoes to do that? I really want to be with her too but I am afaird that I might change for a little time to have her back and then dont trust her again. What do I do?
2007-02-21 10:23:15 · 2 answers · asked by Khanh V 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To me, it sounds like this break is going to lead to a break-up. You both have issues, you with trust, she will being faithful. Why not take the time to really figure out what you want?
2007-02-21 10:39:24 · answer #1 · answered by DEENIE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look let's be honest here if you can't trust her now your not gonna.You can't act like you've forgiven someone,either you do or you don't and I don't think you have.
So what your insecure that has nothing to do with her deceit,just cause you love her and you want her don't mean you are her.Don't start taking on responsibilities that aren't yours just to secure your relationship.Do you really think love is this hard to hold?You can lead a horse to water,but you can't make him drink it.Let her go and then let yourself be free to find someone who will love you with all the trust you can muster.
2007-02-21 10:46:49 · answer #2 · answered by Sidetracked0260 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋