umm well first im 14 and my g/f well we got together and been goign out for a week but my friends and some people talk **** to me becuase im with her should i listen or ingore becuase they say shes with me to get me jealous but my g/f tells me their lyring and satrts to cry and wants me to trust her should i???? pleaze i need advice plzz help
2007-02-21 10:21:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
trust your girlfriend.. and follow your heart.. if you think you should be with her be with her... don't EVER let someone else tell you whether or not you should be in a relationship...YOu are your own person and you deserve to be with however you want .... be happy, live freely, and love greatly
2007-02-21 10:25:52 · answer #1 · answered by sweetheart 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, you cannot let your friends dictate who you date. If every single person is telling you this is a bad idea, then YOU need to step back and look at the relationship from the outside. There has to be a reason if everyone is saying something. Also, how much do you trust your girlfriend? Why would she be with you to get you jealous? That doesn't even make sense to me. You're 14, I think you just need to play the field right now. You'll have the rest of your life to deal with relationship problems. Trust me.
2007-02-21 18:27:47 · answer #2 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not break up with the girl just cos ur friends are being difficult - I think you need to trust in her after all that is exactly what she is currently giving you - also she needs your reassurance, if she means loads to you - you wouldnt even think of breaking up, maybe you are still not sure of your feelings of her and are influenced by others - I would not let your friends talk crap about her - no1 deserves that - she deserves respect from them and they are wrong to stick their noses into your relation - so tell them to lump off and let you get on with it..she sounds nice - why would a girl go with u to get u jealous..its balls..she wants you for you after all she wouldnt agree to be with you if that was the case! remember that - anyway stay with her is what I say and good luck - ignore the friends and defend her - sounds like she is getting heartbroken by their influence over you which means she loves you
2007-02-21 18:28:42 · answer #3 · answered by Babs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Son without being smart, I'm gonna give you some tough love advice! stay in school learn all you can about spelling, then wait till your 16 befor even getting serious about a girl,you;ll have the rest of your Life to date and things.
2007-02-21 18:26:27 · answer #4 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fortino -
You are 14......chances are you aren't going to marry this girl.
Keep it light. Do you like her?? If so, then tell your friends to mind there own business. Tell them that IF they turn out to be right they can tell you "I told you so". Why would she want
you to be jealous?? jealous of what?? If she is messin' with other boys then I say dump her; othewise, just go with the flow
and remember you are young.......there will be MANY MORE girls in your life.
2007-02-21 18:26:38 · answer #5 · answered by Trish 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A week and you're already suspicious of her? Maybe you're the one she should be asking about. Listen to your friends and dump her or get to know her, then see what you think.
2007-02-21 18:26:14 · answer #6 · answered by beez 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friends probably like her and that's why they are talking crap about her. if your girlfriend tells you that she really does like you and that your friends are lying and she's crying about it you should trust her. not saying that she's being real with you for one hundred percent. but you obviously like her and your dating her, so for goodness sake trust her. if your friends keep talking about her tell them to shut up and that what you do is your decision not theirs.
2007-02-21 18:25:54 · answer #7 · answered by Stacey Michelle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you only 14, take it easy. sometimes friends aren't always what they seem to be but neither are gf's & bf's. your friends could be looking out for you & your gf could be conning you or vice versa. jus do your research
2007-02-21 18:30:21 · answer #8 · answered by serendipity 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen to them but after all they r ur friends and if she says to trust her do so
2007-02-21 18:25:43 · answer #9 · answered by pinkkpradaxoxo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you restate the question? that is one of the most confusing paragraphs i've ever tried to read!
2007-02-21 18:30:32 · answer #10 · answered by beautyful2god 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋