I guess its my appearence...or just my eye make up. Dark eyeliner. SO what?
Also, i had an awesome guy friend last year, and he just doesnt want to talk to me ne more. Weve seperated. Alot of my friends last year look at me and just past by me. I have friends and all but im finding myself to be ignored easily, and NO im not quiet. What can I do to make people want to talk to me?
Or a guy to like me for a change? I don't even dress/act/look like a nerd.
2007-02-21 10:29:15 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Listen more, soften up and try to avoid trying to be the center of attention for a while
2007-02-21 10:47:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know sometimes people come accross as hard nosed, Like maybe you have a "don't come near me" look about you, even though you may not notice it. I had this problem and people thought I had an attitude problem and when they got to know me they new I so wasn't. ButI hope you know what I mean sometimes even if you don't feel like it's just a good idea to smile every now and again, just say Hi when yo walk past people you know or you people who look friendly, that may help. I don't think people should change for others but sometimes as I have learned as I"v gotten older is act friendly even if it's just not you. sometimes we have to blend in with our surroundings to be accepted. Keep your chin up and things will work out fine.
2007-02-21 18:49:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're trying too hard. Tone down the makeup, restyle your hair, speak in a softer voice, study more, get interested in something you really like to do. If you cried on others' shoulders or badmouthed the guy, they might be avoiding you. It'll change.
2007-02-21 18:33:55 · answer #3 · answered by beez 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're ugly?
I'm just kidding I'm only eleven so I don't really know about this stuff
Besides I hate makeup and stuff and i act more of a boy than a girl
2007-02-21 18:40:07 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's the way you look or dress. It might have something to do with your attitude. Try acting differently towards people and see how they react to you.
2007-02-21 18:32:19 · answer #5 · answered by unicarel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a makeover, learn some new tips on how to get a new look, like yourself, and find someone that will stick with you no matter what. Good luck!
2007-02-21 18:34:22 · answer #6 · answered by beautyful2god 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if people are not interested in knowing the real you --- forget them --- be yourself (and so what if you wear dark eyeliner --- i like it) ---- there is a guy who will appreciate you for who you are and you will find each other --- generally when you least expect it ---- hugs and best wishes
2007-02-21 18:33:55 · answer #7 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
theyre probably just closed minded preppy ppl, who u shouldnt want to be friends anyway get over them. they probably just think ur a goth/ emo person which u probably are not. thats preppies for u always pink, and stupid!!!!!!
2007-02-21 18:36:08 · answer #8 · answered by Gloom and Doom™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trying to identify with the problem is the first step once you do this and try to fix it things should get better for you.
2007-02-21 18:55:17 · answer #9 · answered by bubba 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself and try to talk to people often about different stuff. to those friends that ignore you, they arent true friends.
2007-02-21 18:47:09 · answer #10 · answered by milagros g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋