Family & Relationships - 16 February 2007

Why do girls always expect the guys to ask them out??? I wanna ask out this guy, and all my friends and everyone on this site keep telling me to wait for him to ask me out! Why should I??? I already know he likes me!!!! He is really shy, though!!! I think people who say that are stupid and probably never have any good relationships!!! Seriously, what is up with you guys?????

2007-02-16 16:52:03 · 18 answers · asked by Katiee 2 in Singles & Dating

So I went into my work yesterday on my day off for the schedule. I was talking to some of the people working there, and I started talking to this older guy, Larry, who has a quite a big gut. Anyway, I was trying to get him to buy me a hot dog because he gets it for a $1 because he's on the job. He was like, "Yeah I gotta start working out again...loose some weight. I lost four lbs. last time." I said, jokingly. "Yeah you gotta get that six pack man." So then he replies with, "Nah. I stay away from the kegs."

LOL! No JOKE!!

2007-02-16 16:50:21 · 6 answers · asked by Timothy 1 in Singles & Dating

i hear that guys are sometimes too scared of shy to tell a girl that u DONT like her more than a friend..what if u meet a girl that is really nice...but u dont like her..how do u show her ur not interested..without her thinking ur "just shy"???

plzzz tell me..truthfully
show me a sign...good time to let me know

2007-02-16 16:49:47 · 9 answers · asked by A Girl 2 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my ex a month ago.I loved him and thought he me but I caught him cheating.When,I caught him he started to cry.Now,he is avoiding me but when he ended up being at the party and saw me dancing with another guy he elbowed him and went to jump him.He gotten into a fight with everyone who seemed interested in me.His friends keep asking me if I would go back or not.I now find out he is tring to get me jumped.I was going to go out on a date today and find out it was a set-up he sat right next to my date.Basicly,I would like to know what is his deal?I still have feeling for him but I know maybe I shouldnt.

2007-02-16 16:48:52 · 15 answers · asked by kat 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-16 16:47:34 · 5 answers · asked by mrlilshi 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Last week, I gave a girl a rose at the Valentine's Day Dance. She said "Thank you!" and walked away. I didn't get a chance to dance with her because the DJ sucked. Anyways, the following week, this past week, she hasn't spoken a word to me, maybe 1 or 2 hi's. I thought maybe it was because she liked me back and was shy. However, today and yesterday, it seems like she likes this other boy. I can't really tell. This other boy happens to be my friend and he doesn't even like her. I am just confused why she wont talk to me or anything. I didn't do anything, is giving a rose actually a bad thing? Is it too akward? I haven't done anything to offend her or anyone. Replies would be REALLY appreciated!!!!!

2007-02-16 16:47:32 · 6 answers · asked by Spaghetti Marseille 1 in Singles & Dating

ok at school when hes with his friends he completly ignores me but u kno how boys can be around there friends but then when i call him he dosnt even lisen to me and never talks and then at school he ignores me no matter what but he is sooooooo... cute and i like him alot what should i do???

2007-02-16 16:46:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-16 16:44:25 · 6 answers · asked by SexyChick! 1 in Singles & Dating

seeing guys doing things to themselves on there cams

2007-02-16 16:44:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So me and my good good friend of 3 years recently discovered that we're starting to fall and have a thing for each other. We've always got along really well and now that the feelings are out, i always want to be alone with him. I want to hold him, for him to hold me, i want to kiss him all the time and for him to kiss me, hugs, cuddle, all the good stuff but NOT in a sexual play. It's not like in high school, where you make out and get those hormonal feelings. It's more of a playful, sophisticated, attitude. It's "i want to kiss you because i love you and a little more..." Why am i like this? what is this? It's like all these years, i've finally got him...lust, love, or somthing else?

2007-02-16 16:43:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I do not know what he thinks about me..whether he has any feelings towards me or not...so how will i know it??

2007-02-16 16:42:55 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hey everyone thank you for the answers to my last question http://sg.answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20070216003058AAyRVyY&pa=FYd1D2bwHTHwI7tgFe49R3csKN2yd2S9ehxt5fXLKZPS0A--&paid=asked&msgr_status=

in relation to my situation there, my friend now wants to tell this guy that i like him once the weekend is over on monday as soon as she sees him at school.

should i stop her or not?
thanks so much for all your answers i really appreciate them :)

2007-02-16 16:42:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Here is my situation. I have a very active 17-month old son who likes to be very mobile and is teething right now.

My grand-mother in-law and sister-in-law want me to go on a trip with them. Getting to where we are going is gonna take a 9-hour train ride...not in a sleeping car. I know for a fact my son will more than likely not sleep at all on the train and be a bear for at least part of the trip.

My husband is unable to go due to work. My first instinct is to surpass this trip just because my son has so much going on right now with is new found mobility.

My inlaw's say they will help me and I appreciate the offer but the simple fact is that when my son is crabby or is just not feeling right he will want nothing but me.

So like I said I think it is best to wait at least until he is a little older my problem is my grandmother in law is pulling this pity thing...."this may be the only trip he gets to take with us ever?'...tears etc and I feel really guilty.

Help?

2007-02-16 16:42:21 · 4 answers · asked by jaded_illusions78 3 in Family

I've had a wet clothes fetish since I was 4 or 5 years old. When I first met my wife, she would always get wet in my hottub, shower, bath, hose, sprinkler, whatever. Now we've been married for 6 years and the wet fun has dwindled greatly. She still partakes once a month or once every other month, but sometimes she'll go for 3 or 4 months and I'll have to hint and hint just to get that. It doesn't seem like much to ask, and I try to be as polite as possible about it and not push her, but I have my needs just like she has hers. What can I do?

2007-02-16 16:42:16 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It's 6 O'clock at night. You have just finished dinner and are trying to relax and spend some time with your family. All of a sudden there is a knock on the door. You peek out and see two guys in suits riding bikes. You already know.... damn, it those Jehova's Witness'. Do you open the door and talk with them nicely, do you curse them? They can see the light on and hear noise so they know someone is home, but do you try and be very quiet and slowly walk away giggling. Do you feel guilty not opening the door? I brought this up because I live in an apartment complex were soliciting is not allowed. And I overheard a neighbor of mine open his door shouting curse words and telling them "no soliciting." I felt bad for the kids, and at least gave them a chance to speak, I told them "no thank you" and I already have a religion I believe in." What do you do?

2007-02-16 16:41:10 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

She did once and since then she has not. I was 14 than now I am 18. I've never done anything for her to mistrust me. I don't understand why? She is in a very serious relationship for the past 2 years and have not introduced me to him. Even when he came to her house when I was sleeping over, she send him away without me ever seeing him. Weird? And she said "I don't want to introduce you to 'his'(her boyfriend's) best friend because he'll definitely fall in love with me." His friend is dating my cousins' best friend.

2007-02-16 16:40:49 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-16 16:39:54 · 14 answers · asked by sunshinedawn65 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been trying out one of these online dating sites. During this time i tried contacting a female member through e-mail messaging but she never opened any of the messages i sent to her. This led me to feel like giving up as i thought she wasn;t interested by ignoring me. Recently,i sent her a last email message on valentines day as follows:

"Hi there...wishing you a happy valentines day
I noticed you didn't open any of my messages i sent you T_T.
Just wished i had the chance to chat with you online. Anyways, i will make this my last message. Good luck on your search."

She actually replied to this message as follows:

"aww...that's so sweet. will you be my valentine? this year on valentine's day i just stayed at home and watched tv...hopefully in the near future i'll be watching tv with someone beside me :)
xoxo "

What does she mean in her message? Does she want me to not give up pursuing?

2007-02-16 16:38:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He said something that really hurt me yesterday. I let him know it hurt me. It's been over a day and he still hasn't apologized, or even called or emailed me. Am I being too sensitive? Am I expecting too much from someone who supposedly loves me? I wouldn't hurt his feelings then just ignore it. Should I do something about it - or is this just his true character, and I should walk away?

2007-02-16 16:37:11 · 9 answers · asked by alice k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-16 16:35:40 · 7 answers · asked by riya malhotra 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi, I'm a college aged guy who is terrible at relationships. Anyone interested in marriage? I prefer someone with a big bank acount. Sorry, ladies only.

2007-02-16 16:34:26 · 12 answers · asked by WangDangSweetPoontang 4 in Marriage & Divorce

when me and my hubby have sex he almost has to beg me to even get it. I like to do it it's just not exciting to me because I can find better things to do with my time. is that weird? I don't know but it's hurting my relationship and well I feel it's me or that it's him begging me all the time, that is hurting my sex drive. what's wrong with me???

do I need to go to the doc to get pills like the guys do?

2007-02-16 16:34:13 · 14 answers · asked by Artangel85 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I like a guy @wrk,but he always just looks at me-even his friend..Its been going on for mnths now,he gets upset when i chat with other guys &flirt on the phne-but he just doesnt make a move on me..Seems like he wants me to stay single for him 2look @t,but now lately im really trying to ignore him,and so does he...I like him but why is he getting to me?Coz he's ignoring me and i cant stand it?

2007-02-16 16:34:01 · 10 answers · asked by Cassý 1 in Singles & Dating

When you go to bed, after you finish your "business", do you cuddle up and sleep all night with full body contact, or you turn over and assume your own sleep positions ?

2007-02-16 16:33:56 · 4 answers · asked by ken88dorset 2 in Singles & Dating

It seems all too good to be true!!! Me and my boyfriend have been dating for 4 months now and other for the occasion fights over other girls everything is fine no great!!!!! He tells me how much he loves me and how perfect i am for him.But i can't help but ask will it last and if it does for how much longer will it last???? some1 help me with this plz. all my friends tell me it won't last that it;s al just this buzz of the moment thing and that we're both just caught up in this relationship thing. please help somebody

2007-02-16 16:32:18 · 9 answers · asked by *Guitar_playing_girl* 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i recently started getting into the physical/sexual aspect of our relationship. we have been together for a year and a half and are completly comfortable with it but we arent trying to rush into anything to quicky. recently hes been sending me dirty text messages..like "were definitely hanging out when i get back. i wana get you naked so bad lol". should i be concerned or in reality are all guys really this horny?

2007-02-16 16:32:08 · 1 answers · asked by ashley 2 in Singles & Dating

take me though step by step on the day (preparations, formalities, what's expected etc.) would love to see examples too, eg. wedding pics, videos. where's the best place to go on a honeymoon in Egypt?

2007-02-16 16:31:37 · 6 answers · asked by Nurmala 1 in Weddings

i dated a guy and now all he does is spy on me and now is my cusions best friends my friends say he is only doing that to get closer to me again

2007-02-16 16:30:56 · 12 answers · asked by starchild20051983 1 in Singles & Dating

to be honest, im an attractive looking guy..nothing stuning or anything..but why is it so hard for me to find a girlfriend..i dont want a slut i want a nice and fairly decent girl..what can i do?

2007-02-16 16:30:31 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

personal regrets,
how often do you think about it,&
has it changed you in any way?

2007-02-16 16:29:26 · 4 answers · asked by Art 4 in Marriage & Divorce