How can I get my wife to partake in my fetish more often?

Question

I've had a wet clothes fetish since I was 4 or 5 years old. When I first met my wife, she would always get wet in my hottub, shower, bath, hose, sprinkler, whatever. Now we've been married for 6 years and the wet fun has dwindled greatly. She still partakes once a month or once every other month, but sometimes she'll go for 3 or 4 months and I'll have to hint and hint just to get that. It doesn't seem like much to ask, and I try to be as polite as possible about it and not push her, but I have my needs just like she has hers. What can I do?

Answer 1

OK.. when it comes to a fetish there are a couple of things to keep in mind.

1. Don't let it be a burden- do not make her pick up the sopping wet clothes, do not make her do the wash afterward.

2. Make sure she knows that it is HER you want and not the clothing- many guys get too lost in their fetish, the obsession is solely about this one thing and they forget that there is an actual second person involved in the sexual act that is waiting for their own gratification. You must make sure she knows that you think SHE looks great.. don't comment on the clothes, just on HER.

3. Don't be demanding- sounds like you are doing a good job of this. Some men ONLY want their fetish and aren't interested in other fun.



Do you have children? Do you have plenty of time to make this happen? Try running a bath FOR her after her hard day at work, making her dinner and asking her to get in with her clothes on at first? Then... TAKE THEM OFF OF HER and give her a nice bath!