I've been trying out one of these online dating sites. During this time i tried contacting a female member through e-mail messaging but she never opened any of the messages i sent to her. This led me to feel like giving up as i thought she wasn;t interested by ignoring me. Recently,i sent her a last email message on valentines day as follows:
"Hi there...wishing you a happy valentines day
I noticed you didn't open any of my messages i sent you T_T.
Just wished i had the chance to chat with you online. Anyways, i will make this my last message. Good luck on your search."
She actually replied to this message as follows:
"aww...that's so sweet. will you be my valentine? this year on valentine's day i just stayed at home and watched tv...hopefully in the near future i'll be watching tv with someone beside me :)
xoxo "
What does she mean in her message? Does she want me to not give up pursuing?
2007-02-16 16:38:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well She may have been just being nice. Don't read too much into it. If she wants to be involved she knows your email. Move on.
2007-02-16 16:43:52 · answer #1 · answered by momof3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, she doesnt take this online dating thing seriously. She feels sorry for not replying to your e-mails, because she doesnt care, so she wanted to make you feel better be responding. You probably wont hear from here again, and if you do, dont expect much more.
Second of all, never, I'll say again NEVER, e-mail a girl you dont know, more than once. She will think you are obsessed and totally be creeped out by it. In return, she wont reply to you, and you'll be judged by her, in an incorrect way.
Hope this helps. Good luck
2007-02-16 16:45:16 · answer #2 · answered by The Date Doctor 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It seems as though she's playng games. Maybe she wasn't opening up your messages before because she was opening up someone elses. Who knows, but you don't even know her so why should you chase her? You have made all the attempts, if you really want to deal with her, make her pursue you!
2007-02-16 16:43:16 · answer #3 · answered by Pumpkin love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a few possibilities. She doesn't understand how her mailbox works, or there's a glitch in the server showing the messages as unread, when they have been read... or....she's a marketing bot. Been getting alot of spam recently? send another message. sounds odd, but try to ask specific questions, as the answer she gave you, though cute, may still be a generic bulk mail. good luck.
2007-02-16 16:45:55 · answer #4 · answered by I'm probably wrong. 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
she asked you to be her valentine, isnt it? so maybe she do like you. So if you really like that girl then pursue her some more. Maybe she s just busy with something that she wasnt able to open your email. Goodluck!
2007-02-16 16:43:07 · answer #5 · answered by konfuzed_baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she just asked you to be her valentine! and she also was hinting she wished next valentine's she would be spending it with someone (maybe you) instead of by herself like she did this year
2007-02-16 16:45:18 · answer #6 · answered by Dke 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to get on a personnal evel with this girl, not too personnal a good personal level, a comfortable one. as to answer your question, don't give up just yet on this girl.
2007-02-16 16:44:19 · answer #7 · answered by Zig 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she means next year she will have someone elso sitting next to her on valentines day but this year you wont be sitting next.
2007-02-16 16:45:14 · answer #8 · answered by PROUD TO BE A LIBERAL TEEN! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
uhhh... that means she wants you to be that guy sitting beside her watching TV!!!!!! She obviously likes you!!! Make your move!!!!!
2007-02-16 16:42:26 · answer #9 · answered by Katiee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋