I broke up with my ex a month ago.I loved him and thought he me but I caught him cheating.When,I caught him he started to cry.Now,he is avoiding me but when he ended up being at the party and saw me dancing with another guy he elbowed him and went to jump him.He gotten into a fight with everyone who seemed interested in me.His friends keep asking me if I would go back or not.I now find out he is tring to get me jumped.I was going to go out on a date today and find out it was a set-up he sat right next to my date.Basicly,I would like to know what is his deal?I still have feeling for him but I know maybe I shouldnt.
2007-02-16 16:48:52 · 15 answers · asked by kat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You need to call the police...
2007-02-16 18:14:52 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My dear sweet Kat,
You probably already know that you should keep your distance from him and he's bad news. Maybe that's part of what you find so appealing about him. The way I see it is you probably feel cared for when he fights for you, and especially cries for you, as that's a rare thing to see a man cry. However, I'm concerned for your safety. If he's cheating and violent with other people, there is probably a good chance that he would continue to cheat and could get violent with you in the future. A controlling, posessive boyfriend is no good and he will continue to have power over you as long as you let him. My advice would be to stay as far away from him as possible and let the wound "heal" even if it means being lonely for a while if you share some of the same friends. I'm sorry you've had to go through this. Being cheated on is a lousy feeling, but there are guys out there that really are great who deserve a faithful girlfriend like yourself. Good luck hun!
2007-02-17 01:03:03 · answer #2 · answered by dee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You discover alot of things being single, and maybe even a new love will come from waiting to be with someone. He knows that he gave up something special in you thats why he is doing things like that.
2007-02-17 00:56:00 · answer #3 · answered by NekoTeme 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
better think about if you want to get back to a man whose always
getting into a fight, if he truly loves you he should set you free and let you decide if you want him back or not and not end up into a fight to every guy that is interested in you! For me, you should find a better man that will respect your decision and not interfere with your life.
2007-02-17 00:58:15 · answer #4 · answered by konfuzed_baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Allow me to clear up any confusion you may have.
He's an immature, abusive, violent, dangerous, manipulative CHEATER!
He sounds like the kind of guy only a mother could love. In other words his a big loser, & a jerk.
I suggest that you move on & find a guy that is more worthy of your affection. ;-)
2007-02-17 00:59:05 · answer #5 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Uhhhhh...restraining order? Run away from this loser as fast as you can. He was the one that ruined your relationship. He has no right to say or do anything to keep you from finding true love. I hope that he never hit you or abused you during your relationship. You deserve (and will find) much better. Best wishes. =)
2007-02-17 00:56:24 · answer #6 · answered by Molly Doll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi... hey gal..u made a very excellent decision... guys r all like dat... they always want gals but won't take very good care of them... this is the truth... trust mi.... they are all drama kings la gal.... past is past... broke up is broken up... we gals must b steady n cute... ill always pray for you... U r gonna hv a great future ahead... All the Best... Take cre....
2007-02-17 00:58:59 · answer #7 · answered by pLaYgAl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a controlling punk that would conspire to have a woman beat up.--And you are that woman!
Why would you even consider getting back together with him?
2007-02-17 00:57:46 · answer #8 · answered by negrito con sabor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah..u guys need a break from each other...
maybe u guys are not ready forthis yet..take a break...u might discover things..being single
2007-02-17 00:51:46 · answer #9 · answered by A Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a loser. . he cheated on you now wants to get back? dont fall for him again, and tell him that you dont want him getting into your personal life
2007-02-17 00:54:45 · answer #10 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋