i dated a guy and now all he does is spy on me and now is my cusions best friends my friends say he is only doing that to get closer to me again
2007-02-16 16:30:56 · 12 answers · asked by starchild20051983 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him if he doesn't quit you will call the police and report him as a stalker!!!
2007-02-16 16:34:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Generally, there are two types of stalkers: ones that stalk you because they miss you but when they find someone new they will leave you alone and ones that stalk for the thrill of stalking. The problem is that you never know which is which until it is too late! My suggestion is for you to try to avoid him at all costs. As suggested earlier, tell everyone you know that you think he is a danger to you! The more people know, the better. Make it known to your friends that you are no longer interested in him. The word will eventually spread to him and hopefully he will leave you alone. If need be, you may have to distance yourself from certain people, especially mutual friends you and he may have had. If all else fails and he is still stalking you, file a restraining order with your local police department and ask them for more tips on how you can feel safer. Good luck!
2007-02-16 16:42:03 · answer #2 · answered by CurlyLocks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun, if the guy is spying on you or stalking you, he doesnt wanna get closer to you in a way that youd like to be close to someone, if he still continues and you start to feel REALLY uncomfortable or afraid he might hurt you, go to the police and they can set you up with a restraining order.
2007-02-16 16:38:29 · answer #3 · answered by artchic1984 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't play games with that "stalker" crap. If you go to school with him, then you tell campus security or whatever passes for that at your school (principal, whatever). Let them know that you feel uncomfortable. Make sure you tell your parents also. People need to know that this is happening before something bad happens. I don't believe in Santa Clause, God, the devil, the easter bunny, UFO's, or little green men, but I do believe in women's intuition. I believe it's primitive and rarely wrong. If your brain is telling you to be worried, then listen and react.
Tell someone! Good Luck and be careful.
2007-02-16 16:36:51 · answer #4 · answered by ExperienceD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell that guy straight to his face that you dont want him back and stop spying on you!
2007-02-16 16:36:26 · answer #5 · answered by konfuzed_baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stalkers are creepy and if u have one contact your local police department and get a peace bond against him..they r insecure and usually unstable..don`t take any chances..some girls have died for less
2007-02-16 16:39:08 · answer #6 · answered by heather h 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try your hardest to stay away from him and if you find it hard get a restraining order.
2007-02-16 16:37:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start stalking him. It will probably scare the crap out of him or at least annoy him as much as he is annoying you.
2007-02-16 16:37:38 · answer #8 · answered by babysnake2007 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If friendly conversation doesn't work then your gonna have to get legal on his crazy ***!!
2007-02-16 16:36:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a loco and he will make you miserable let him know its a turn off
2007-02-16 16:37:14 · answer #10 · answered by Geo55 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋