Family & Relationships - 15 February 2007

I have been with this one girl for a couple years now. We are engaged too. I care about her a lot but I am just not feeling right in the relationship anymore. She is prone to depression and can't seem to control her emotions. She also complains a lot and seems to care mainly about her problems than mine. But she is a sweet girl and I do care about her. But some time ago I have met another girl that is amazing, she is kind, caring, sweet, she doesn't do anything mean to me and has told me many times that she never wants to hurt me (emotionally that is). I am really falling for her more than the first girl. I tried to get her to break up with me by being less loving seeming, but she started getting suicidal saying she will kill herself if she can't have me. I thought she left me, but she now is happier again and thinks everything is fine. So anyway, I really want to be with the second girl, how can I get the first to break up with me without her killing herself?

Serious answers only!!

2007-02-15 13:24:44 · 9 answers · asked by TxzxT 1 in Singles & Dating

theres this guy i really like he acts like he likes me but he says he doesnt.my friend said i should just try and get his attention and mabey he would realize that he might have feelings.so how do i get his attion and keep it.

2007-02-15 13:24:37 · 4 answers · asked by evildukys93 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 13:24:01 · 3 answers · asked by sinajina 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my ex broke up almost a week ago we dated when we was 14 for about 2 1/2 months then we lost contacted. Well we ended up back together when we turned 18 and then we was together for 7 1/2 months then i was told that he was still messing wit his babymama and his ex. So I decide to get back at him and dated his friend well me and his broke up because my ex was trying to get back with me. I always told my ex that everything i could never lie to him or hide things so told him what went on. and know he mad. He is livin with his mom and i am livein wit my parents and his mom is moving to alabama and he is not goin. So my parents asked him if he wanted to move in with us, and he has been askin my mom for the longest even when we broke up. I still love him, he kept tellin me he still cares and loves me. but when i told him what happen he got real mad and i understand that. but i really to want to be wit him. he is everything to me.

2007-02-15 13:23:30 · 6 answers · asked by Shorty 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 13:23:28 · 26 answers · asked by Confuzed360 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have this guyf who Im kind of close to. I asked him to come with me to take my car to a repair shop. So the car is driving really crazy. Its like you have to do certain things to keep it driving or it'll cut off. So Im driving it 1st and it cuts off some but not alot. I got tired so i asked him to drive. Thinking maybe he'll figure how to make it stop stopping. When he does it starts cutting off even more. I realized it wasnt doing it as much when I drove it. He said he was fustrated with it so I offered to drive again. He just keeps sayin he can handle it, but it keeps cutting off. I knew what he was doing wrong and I tried to help. He gets really irritated just because I told him "maybe I should try again." So he's like "Here you can drive, come on," but he says it in an irritated way. He never gives the wheel back. It keeps turning off. Everytime I tried to deal with the repair man, he just kept takin the phone from me. Is he power crazy or am I too independent?

2007-02-15 13:23:23 · 10 answers · asked by ♥Truthfully♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm screwed in this situation becuase...My friend mentioned to me that she told the guy I liked that she thought was cute via myspace, I didnt think that was all the truth so I went onto her myspace and found out she actually told him I like him and thought he was cute, ever since he hasnt talked to me, but before I got the impression he liked me and he would at least make attemps* to talk to me. So guys if this happend to you why would you do it what is the truth behind it you think?

2007-02-15 13:23:21 · 5 answers · asked by jilllilliannak 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 13:23:07 · 8 answers · asked by ? 5 in Singles & Dating

There is this hella cute guy at my school but I don't know if he likes me! He looks at me A LOT!!!! But we never talk! I need help! Does he like me?

2007-02-15 13:22:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like a boy.We were talking me and his friend and his friend started to talk mean to me.Well the boy i like had his hands in his pockets and took them out and started to crack them and looked at his friend angrily.what does it mean i mean were friends but does it mean he likes me or is he a really good friend he knows i like him.

2007-02-15 13:21:43 · 4 answers · asked by LilMissPriss 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 13:21:40 · 17 answers · asked by Confuzed360 1 in Marriage & Divorce

hi im 19yr old girl and im way to shy to have sex
im a confident girl! dont think im ugly but paranoid of my body underneath clothes!
no one that knows me would think this of me as im one of the loudest you see in the pub. will dance away in the club and find it so easy to talk 2/ flirt with guys but when it comes down to it i dont even dare go on top! ashamed of me body. im size 12 34b but hate it! what can i do! i made me last ex wait 3 months and i still didnt go on top!

2007-02-15 13:21:08 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 13:20:54 · 8 answers · asked by ? 5 in Singles & Dating

there is this thing at school where on v-day we all exchange carnations to friends and bfs or gfs. All my friends handed out flowers to eachother EXCEPT ME!!

seems really babyish but it really hurt my feelings what should i say or do to stay friends with them but to tell them im hurt??? PLZ ANSWER!!!



thanx

2007-02-15 13:20:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

well i dont have a girlfriend and im in the 6th grade can any1 tell me how to get a girlfriend.

2007-02-15 13:20:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I found out she had a secret myspace wich i stumbled upon and then she rushed home to try and delete it, but to late i already saw it. it was a really emotional time but she kept on talkin to me, and still does. She has been with this other guy for almost 3 months now, yet she cheated on him with me during my winter break and tell me she loves me not him. She also says she just needs time and a break and shell be back, but still wants to reamin as friends in that time. I have no idea what to do, im so distraught and i just want her back. Should i wait? should i let go? i feel like she is the one, and there isnt anyone else for me. she said she is doing this for us, but why would you do that? has anyone been in this situation or done this and gotten back together with that person and everything was okay? Im so confused, any advice would help grately.

2007-02-15 13:20:07 · 10 answers · asked by Trice 1 in Singles & Dating

how many times a week is the average for a married couple only married for 1 year. my husband wants it every night and i hate it.

2007-02-15 13:18:55 · 26 answers · asked by drenessa2104 2 in Marriage & Divorce

there was this guy i was with. and i liked him alot and he just ups and leaves me for someone else. saying we are only friends, when we were more. he won't even answer any of my questions, about why he lied to me or anything about what we had.

2007-02-15 13:18:23 · 17 answers · asked by sweetie1341 1 in Singles & Dating

well he always talks to me and then he stepped on my foot then in pe he talked to me and we instant messenge for like 2 hours and i asked him if he liked me and he said as a friend

2007-02-15 13:17:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but 6 months and its his?? or do you think its a lie and he knew the whole time?

2007-02-15 13:17:22 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

why did you do it? did it occure to you that all the wanted was a card and some candy or just for you to show him or her some attention?

2007-02-15 13:16:30 · 4 answers · asked by MiaDiva28 6 in Singles & Dating

well my bf had not been wanting to tell me his real age he told me he was 18 and well he looks it and acts it and so yesterday we were arguing and i askes him again and he told me he was 15 i'm 20 i was like what so that was a total turn off

2007-02-15 13:16:30 · 17 answers · asked by lola 1 in Singles & Dating

i was 15 and we remaned friends

2007-02-15 13:15:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 13:15:30 · 24 answers · asked by Ilene M 2 in Weddings

2007-02-15 13:15:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ive known this guy for about 3 weeks now. anyways the other day we decided to "hang out" at his place. i honestly just wanted to get to know him better and jus watch tv or something. but girls know that when a guy says he wants to "hang out", he means sex. i should have known. anyways, so he said he wanted to have sex wit me and i said i didnt want to because we dont know eachother that well(and i didnt like him in that way, jus friends). well he kept begging me for it and i kept saying no. then he started to put the moves on me and i thought he jus wanted to kiss, but then he got really physical. so i said no and he kept doing it (leading to sex) so i kicked him in the crotch and told him it was time for me to leave. and he said "i cant believe u did that, i thought u liked me" n then i jus left. after i felt kind of bad cuz that must have hurt a lot lol. did i handle the situation right? and girls wat would u have done.

2007-02-15 13:14:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 13:14:37 · 6 answers · asked by Peace 2 in Singles & Dating

I feel so bad for having hurt feelings over this. My boyfriend spent the weekend before Valentine's Day with me. He bought me a necklace and ring that weekend. He didn't mention anything about spending Valentine's Day with me. Since he lives about 50 miles from me I wasn't expecting that. On Valentine's Day I received a dozen roses. He later called me and told me that he decided to pick his 6 yr old daughter up and spend Valentine's Day with her. He said that Valentine's Day is special for her and he has always treated her like a princess on that day. He bought her a necklace, a stuffed bear, and a bouquet of flowers. I can understand this since he only sees her once a week, but my feelings were still hurt. This would have been our first Valentine's Day together. He told me he had planned to come see me, but she called and really wanted to see him. He told me that ever since he and his ex started having problems, he projected the love and attention he had had for her, onto his daughter

2007-02-15 13:13:36 · 18 answers · asked by zandra 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

1. how old
2. were was it
3. how was it
4. did you love the person

2007-02-15 13:12:39 · 26 answers · asked by Daft Punker 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-15 13:12:22 · 9 answers · asked by bahhumbug07 1 in Singles & Dating