there was this guy i was with. and i liked him alot and he just ups and leaves me for someone else. saying we are only friends, when we were more. he won't even answer any of my questions, about why he lied to me or anything about what we had.
2007-02-15 13:18:23 · 17 answers · asked by sweetie1341 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well..act casual so you wont look needy (even if you feel like it) and ask him why.and if he refuses to tell you then he wasnt good enough in the first place,no offense.Just find someone better,stronger and definitely more kind.I know how it feels its hurts.
2007-02-15 13:23:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes having all the answers wont make the break up any easier, in most cases it tends to make things worse. He lied probably to make himself feel better about finding somebody else(I'm sure he feels guilty about it). The point is that he doesn't want to be with you now, and dwelling on the 'why' will only make things worse. Trust me time heals all wounds, just keep yourself busy with friends!
2007-02-15 21:31:10 · answer #2 · answered by Erin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
once a heart is broken there will always
be a crack, my broken heart is filled with the
kindness of other caring people who keep
me smiling, someday my broken heart may
heal all the way, yet, if it did, would my memory
of such a grand experience also fade, i hope not ~
Just keep your broken heart open and let in the
people who can squeeze in and make you happy ~
You are still very young, what may seem as a
broken heart may just be some sadness from
missing the early experiences of caring closeness,
it will return, truly ~
(smile)
2007-02-16 13:32:41 · answer #3 · answered by ♪σρսϟ яэχ♪ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably early teens and he is more than likely late teens or early 20s, if that's the case, then he was playing you and he isn't worth your tears. If he says he's seeing someone else, then he's been seeing her for awhile. For now, enjoy life and enjoy your friends, they're the ones that count and the ones that will be there for you.
2007-02-15 21:41:11 · answer #4 · answered by Dan ( 2 ) 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Watch a good movie and eat popcorn! Go on a shopping spree...go to an amusement park with friends! Just ignore him, it's his fault for leaving a girl like you! He will regret it but you shouldn't worry...there are plently of other fish in the sea!
2007-02-15 21:23:57 · answer #5 · answered by 1tuffcookie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cry it out and move on. Do things that make you happy, try things that have interested you and maybe you'll find a friend in the process, but definitely take a few days cry it out, talk to your girl friends, and or family.
2007-02-15 21:24:17 · answer #6 · answered by mslilbit24 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is hard to deal with. u get over it with time or find another guy. you'll need some cheering up so maybe u should be around your friends. try not to think about it so much you'll end up crying a lot.
2007-02-15 21:24:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like you didn't make it clear what each one thought of the relationship..sometimes its more for one than the other...
You don't get over broken hearts but take it as a life lesson.
2007-02-15 21:23:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are good guys and bad.He sounds like a cheating type .The best way is to get over him is do your self over (new hair ,Sexy cloths and start dating new guys don't get serious in til you know the guy heart)Have fun!
2007-02-15 21:33:16 · answer #9 · answered by -bls 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
souds to me you need someone to talk to.? well you can email me at crazzyfoals@yahoo.com if you want and i will try to help you as much as posiple. i have had the same thing happen to me and girl.. it feels good to get it off your chest.
2007-02-15 21:27:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋