ive known this guy for about 3 weeks now. anyways the other day we decided to "hang out" at his place. i honestly just wanted to get to know him better and jus watch tv or something. but girls know that when a guy says he wants to "hang out", he means sex. i should have known. anyways, so he said he wanted to have sex wit me and i said i didnt want to because we dont know eachother that well(and i didnt like him in that way, jus friends). well he kept begging me for it and i kept saying no. then he started to put the moves on me and i thought he jus wanted to kiss, but then he got really physical. so i said no and he kept doing it (leading to sex) so i kicked him in the crotch and told him it was time for me to leave. and he said "i cant believe u did that, i thought u liked me" n then i jus left. after i felt kind of bad cuz that must have hurt a lot lol. did i handle the situation right? and girls wat would u have done.
2007-02-15 13:14:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
NO means NO, and you did awesome, way to go, this could have ended up as a rape situation. Good for you, Way to go, well done, do not feel sorry about what you did, you did the correct thing, I'm so proud of you, and you should be as well.
2007-02-15 13:20:08 · answer #1 · answered by Cindybear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did exactly the right thing and you have nothing to feel bad about. I have done the exact same thing in that situation. Nobody has the right to do to you what he did. The fact that what you did hurt him right where it counts is exactly what he deserved. In legal terms he commited attempted rape. Under no cercumstances should you ever have any contact with him again. Your next step should be to tell your parents so you can alert authorities and keep him from doing this or worse to someone else.
2007-02-15 21:32:14 · answer #2 · answered by PasoBrio13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he kept pawing at me when I told him enough was enough and got aggressive I totally would have done the same thing.
And I'm sure it hurt like hell, but I bet he;ll listen the next time a girl says 'stop.'
2007-02-15 21:26:12 · answer #3 · answered by LX V 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u definitely did the right thing...why should you feel bad? Cuz he's an asshole pervert??? I DON'T THINK SO! but you should have known better...but at least this is like a reminder for you if you're ever in a similar situation...don't go to his house! unless you're ready....
2007-02-15 21:24:45 · answer #4 · answered by shapooky l 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
am a God fearing guy, u handled it rit although putting his fertility at stake it was better than callin 911. call him and ask him if hes okay, then tell him u forgive him (that way u define ur being in the rit)
2007-02-15 21:23:41 · answer #5 · answered by uncrowned ruler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YEAH- at least you didn't become a victim of rape! And
I'm sure that he'll thank you someday because you prevented him from being a rapist- unless he had a past record.
2007-02-15 21:21:04 · answer #6 · answered by Aurelia KMNO4 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You handled it right. No means NO.
2007-02-15 21:17:51 · answer #7 · answered by singleagain062005 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good job girl!!!!! thats all guys think about!!!! i swear!!!! he must be REAL desperate if he begged for it!!!!!
2007-02-15 21:21:04 · answer #8 · answered by Bolly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋