I found out she had a secret myspace wich i stumbled upon and then she rushed home to try and delete it, but to late i already saw it. it was a really emotional time but she kept on talkin to me, and still does. She has been with this other guy for almost 3 months now, yet she cheated on him with me during my winter break and tell me she loves me not him. She also says she just needs time and a break and shell be back, but still wants to reamin as friends in that time. I have no idea what to do, im so distraught and i just want her back. Should i wait? should i let go? i feel like she is the one, and there isnt anyone else for me. she said she is doing this for us, but why would you do that? has anyone been in this situation or done this and gotten back together with that person and everything was okay? Im so confused, any advice would help grately.
2007-02-15 13:20:07 · 10 answers · asked by Trice 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sorry hun but you are being used. If she is bisexual she will always want and go off with men as well as other women. If she was happy with you she would not of cheated in the first place. She is not doing this for the both of you she is doing it for herself. Break it off and find another woman that loves and cares for you. A person who is not bi and someone who loves you for who you are not what kind of crap you will take because you are distraught. Take care Heather
2007-02-15 13:25:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow you're talking big! if she's cheating on you she's not for you. I admit i would have been heart broken too, but i have too much pride to go talk to her, or even look at her face. Make feel ashamed. That's what i woould do. If she doesn't learn from you then it's most likely that she will do the same thing to other guys.
2007-02-15 13:27:58 · answer #2 · answered by Euro Boy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do no longer factor the reason for the wear up...yet, My first marriage ended after her affair in 1989. I nonetheless omit her "feeling of being around" provided that we've been very soft feely to a minimum of one yet another and that i nonetheless love her ...i'd truthfully have an argument if she confirmed up and had to purpose back, inspite of no longer seeing her provided that 1990 and the dishonest. 2nd spouse would get door slammed in her face so .... perchance it's time to provide up chatting with him or asked approximately getting back mutually..
2016-10-02 05:26:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might be difficult but tell her that you love her and you cannot be friends why you know she is with someone else. Explain that you are moving on with your life and that you are not waiting around for her.
2007-02-15 13:24:30 · answer #4 · answered by smilingtalker_au 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like this girl is using you, because she just doesnt know if she wants to stay with the guy she is with right now.
She might still have feelings for you, and you may have feelings for her, but you need to move on, she will see that you are serious about all of it. she doesnt seem like she is.
2007-02-15 13:24:43 · answer #5 · answered by DarkReaper 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo G write me and ill explain what happened to me, i was in that VERY SAME SITUATION, and we did get back together and now we aint, but it messes with your head, i say let go from personal experiance but the last choice is yours, choose your path carefully
2007-02-15 13:25:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u dont FEEL like someone is to marry u but u KNOW they r.i think u should move on and then when she comes back break up with whoever u r with and go back to her
2007-02-15 13:24:04 · answer #7 · answered by anarchist 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this only women or could you find another that could be trusted? Without trust there is no relationship/love move on!!
2007-02-15 13:25:07 · answer #8 · answered by S.O.S. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
onCe a Cheater alwayz a Cheater...throw her away n get another girl...good luCC n hope everything works out ok
2007-02-15 13:22:37 · answer #9 · answered by itz_rasaq_boy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's banging some other guy, I suggest you do the same...but with a girl.
2007-02-15 13:22:30 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋