there is this thing at school where on v-day we all exchange carnations to friends and bfs or gfs. All my friends handed out flowers to eachother EXCEPT ME!!
seems really babyish but it really hurt my feelings what should i say or do to stay friends with them but to tell them im hurt??? PLZ ANSWER!!!
thanx
2007-02-15 13:20:46 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Awwww, hun I am sorry. I know that hurt. Your feelings are real and validated. Don't be too down on yourself. How long have you known these friends? I don't think you should stop being their friend because of that. I really think you should tell your "friends' how you felt. To continue to be their friend and hide your inner feelings will only cause problems with your friendship later. You will always think about what they did. You need to release it and move on. Just be honest and tell them you felt hurt becuase you expected a flower because you considered them friends. Did you give them flowers? Take care hun.
2007-02-15 13:51:32 · answer #1 · answered by ~Secretrose~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think they meant to forget you.
Did you get any carnations for anyone ??
If I were you, I would jokingly say "Hey, where's my carnation" ???
Just to see what they will answer.
Or you can pull one of them aside and ask them why you didn't get a flower ?? Maybe you upset them in some way that you are unaware of.
Find out... ask.
P.S. I'll send you a carnation if it'll make you feel better.
2007-02-15 13:49:23 · answer #2 · answered by M.O. 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally understand what you are going through. For V-Day I bought all of my friends carnations but didn't get a thing in return. Now I absolutely think that they (your friends) should have a reason for buying eachother flowers but not you. Ask them but don't get all in thier face about it. They would probally see you as someone trying to interrogate them or something.
2007-02-15 13:37:21 · answer #3 · answered by King James 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sure they didint mean it intentionaly to hurt you. it might be a mistake or a misunderstanding, or they couldof simply run out of flowers. dont take things so personaly. just bring it up in casual conversation just be like im mad u didint exchange one with me, say that in a playing around attitude and see what they say
2007-02-15 13:32:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask yourself if you did anything to bother them.
do you expect to much from them?
or are you mean?
2007-02-15 17:15:54 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋