Family & Relationships - 10 February 2007

2007-02-10 09:46:27 · 19 answers · asked by petey1jo 1 in Singles & Dating

i feel like i love him but it's been a month and a half and my friends are telling me that it would be wierd to love him already, and they say he will get freaked out if i say it too soon.
but i think i will make it special and tell him on valentine's day...
what to do?...

2007-02-10 09:45:34 · 10 answers · asked by Samantha 1 in Singles & Dating

ok.ima 19 years old femail,im dealing with bad conditions write now ,im in collage i got a very bad degrees i never felt like this befor,and im having about 20 bounds over wait ,i have a lot of friends whom i like but i think they are so fake,and lastly i have this sharmfull gie whose in love with me but i dont know why i know im bretty but is that enough .hes in collage but we never had classes together and i keep running away from him so these are my proplems and i need help

2007-02-10 09:45:27 · 5 answers · asked by sarah 1 in Friends

my mommy is mad at me for playing with her bra what shoud i dou

2007-02-10 09:45:24 · 12 answers · asked by christina y 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-10 09:45:08 · 12 answers · asked by sonyashishdell 1 in Friends

I'm recovering from an illness. It'll be a slow recovery. I'm alone all day. I asked my mom to visit with me for 2-3 days to give me some emotional support. She said she "couldn't"-- didn't want to leave due to my loser brother (age 44) living in her house- said she was afraid of what he might get up to if she left.
Ok. Fine. I told her a few days ago that I'd taken a turn for the worse and was feeling pretty bad. I asked her again to visit, but she ignored my call. Now I find out that this weekend she's gone off to stay with my 2 aunts for a fun weekend get-together- shopping, outings, dinner, spa-things.

(I used to spend one week every month at my mom's to help her after her cosmetic surgeries, redecorate her house, cook for her parties, etc.)
How would you feel?

2007-02-10 09:45:06 · 17 answers · asked by Sabine É 6 in Family

do you ever feel lonely or am i just a strange sado

2007-02-10 09:43:48 · 5 answers · asked by Dragonfly 3 in Singles & Dating

I've always wondered... If you are married, who do consider first in your life (besides God, if you are a Christian), your husband/wife or your children? Because you love your spouse, you fell in love with them, but you gave birth to your children (or men... you "made" your children.) What do you think?

2007-02-10 09:43:29 · 11 answers · asked by juliefan 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my friends are all out of town, my girlfriend is gone for two weeks, I'm in between dating guys, I've been to the gym already, washed my car, washed my clothes, cleaned my place, showered..........and here I sit reading Yahoo Answers!

the evening is quickly approaching......

what to do when you're alone?????? hmmmmmmmm..........

2007-02-10 09:43:07 · 9 answers · asked by sophia 2 in Singles & Dating

I am married w/ 2 kids ages 8 & 5 . I am no longer in love w/ my husband after years of him verbally abusing me & being controlling. Almost 10 yrs of dealing w/ being called names like retard & having to deal w/ his drug abuse is really depressing & I don't wanna end up old & unhappy w/ no love in my life. I just have no where to go & no money & nobody to stay w/ & I don't wanna end up in a shelter. If you were me what would you do? Serious answers only please as this is my life not a joke.

2007-02-10 09:42:07 · 17 answers · asked by Death Girl Am 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok if a guy who you thought was hot walked up to you and tried to ask you out and you had never met him before... what would you want to hear him say that would make you want to get to know him better?

2007-02-10 09:41:34 · 13 answers · asked by my spill canvas 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok wife and I are going thru rough times I love her and want her back she moved out a week ago, yet we are going to go to counceling weekly and have a dinner date once a week. She asked me for sex a couple nights ago she said "no love making just bend me over and f me hard" I did something i never did i turned her down. She asked again the next night after we went to counceling for first time and I could not resist so I did her good. Will continuing to give her sex weekly while we are apart make her want me back more or less? should I say no, but I am afraid she will seek it elsewheres if I don't give it to her and don't want more issues in our problems we already have. What do I do??? should just have sex with her when she wants? I really want to work out issues out and have her back with me I love her so much!

2007-02-10 09:41:32 · 14 answers · asked by Sorry 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am 18 years old. I'm a senior in high school and I am just BARLEY a 32A. Well actually it's kind-of confusing. I measured a 30A yesterday and a 32A today but BARLEY! I've been the same size since the 6th grade...could there be something wrong with my breasts? I'm only 5'3" and i only weigh 93 pounds. I eat a lot it's not like i don't eat i do but i can't seem to gain weight. I was wondering if anybody had any advice as to how to gain weight. I've been the same weight since the 9th grade and the same breast size since the 7th grade. Could there be a medical reason? all my doctors say no because i was born premature. Would you suggest implants? Any advice as to how to gain weight and breast size? I don't understand how some people can LOOSE up to 6 pounds in a week or two but yet i can't GAIN 6 pounds in a week or two my ideal weight would be around 105 - 110 pounds which means I would have to gain about 12 to 17 pounds. HELP HOW DO I DO THIS PLEASE HELP!!! I NEED TO GAIN WEIGHT

What really bothers me though is my friend is a size 36C breast she is only 15 swears she never had implants yet is the SAME EXACT SIZE PANTS AS ME! she's also a size zero but yet she isn't the same weight as me how is any of this logical?

and what can i do to gain weight?

2007-02-10 09:41:13 · 3 answers · asked by pantherkick07 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-10 09:40:32 · 9 answers · asked by stormy 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I know prom is in a couple of months, but my school is selling tickets this coming week. I already have a girl in mind, but I want to ask her in a really creative way that she will remember. I don't want to just go up to her and ask her, because that is just plain. Any suggestions? Thanks alot!

2007-02-10 09:40:11 · 3 answers · asked by brkrblanton 1 in Singles & Dating

You see, my mom let one of her old "friend" move into our house because he got kicked out of his current one.I guess he's trying to get back together with my mom or whatever.The thing is i don't like him.He lied on me and my brother in the past,he drinks alot,he even has the nerve to accuse me and my younger sibs of stealing his clothes.come he's a guy.what do i want with his clothes.these accusations usally leads to late night arguments with my mom.and everytime i think he's about get kicked out of our home he finds some way to convince my mom to let him stay because he has no place eles to go.ever heard of a hotel.Anyway he makes my home for me very uncomfortable.i don't like him around.He's a walking drama queen.he's also sneaky.i've talked to my mom about this but she says he's not leaving which bites.Now he's trying to convince my mom to move out of the home we have lived in for three years.i ain't having it.Anyway how do i deal with this living arrangement because it seems wrong?

2007-02-10 09:40:04 · 6 answers · asked by Kashmoney 1 in Family

I am seeing this guy who is such a gentleman, he never lets me pay for anything.. We have gone on 3 dates so far.. and all 3 dates he takes me to the nicest restaurants... He never gives me the chance to pay because its an insult to him. How can i invite him to dinner and pay for it without insulting him? How should i convince him?

2007-02-10 09:38:59 · 17 answers · asked by HelloHELLO 1 in Singles & Dating

His looks, How he dresses, What he drives, If he smiles and acts friendly. etc.

2007-02-10 09:37:31 · 12 answers · asked by Kevin K 1 in Singles & Dating

(hypothetically), and the poilce have to go through your things to try and connect something to your death (why and how you died).

Is there anything in your journal/email inbox, house, work drawers etc. that you are afraid that family members or friends will see? If so, what is it?

For example...if I died today, I would not want anyone to see:

-how messy my room is (dirty laundry and such everywhere)..embarassing!
-my online journal
-my paper journal (i have question in there about God and my eating disorder)
-things that I search online
-cash in my drawers


Your turn.

2007-02-10 09:37:22 · 4 answers · asked by bones_to_heaven 2 in Family

Hey im 16 and homeschooled i have NO friends my best friend for 15 years who i spent all my time with recently died **6 months the 18th of this month** and after he died i have no friends im a christian but dont really go to church my dad and bro are gone 24/7 so im home alone all the time after i do school i have a job but for only 4 hours about 5 times a week i clean the house i plan on enrolling in uni next year when im 17 to learn chinese but what are some ways to meet friends? everyone in my nieghborhood is either 5-8 years old or 50 years old lol i really have no ways to meet anyone where could i go? thanks

2007-02-10 09:36:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Can I do something about this?? When our kids are with their mom and a registered sex offender lives about 100 yds away AND it is the BROTHER of the man she's sharing a house with. It seems I, as the father, should have some input here.

2007-02-10 09:36:18 · 13 answers · asked by misterman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband will myspace,and text message woman(ex-girlfriend,another that I know of). When I first found out I thought it was funny. Then I noticed he was e-mailing and texting them 10-15 times a day. I found 64 text messages on by bill just to his ex last month. I told him I thought it was wrong and I want him to quit. He said "it's not like that",I just think they are interesting to talk to". (THANKS). He was only helping them because they asked.(the ex girfriend thing he is the one who contacted her). then I noticed he was deleteing all of his messages. and if I was in the room he would not open it, until I walked away. Yes, he did show me a few messages, and they weren't bad, but he would read throught it before letting me see how inoccent he is. My husband never would have went behind my back to do this before. within the last three months I have noticed this happening. it is hard for me to trust him anymore, I always think he is hiding something. what should I do.

2007-02-10 09:34:38 · 12 answers · asked by princess22 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I dunno if I still like my boyfriend, whenever I see him and talk to him I feel like i'm letting go a little bit every time but whenever he says he likes someone it makes me feel kinda mad becz I want him to like me..how do i get over this?

2007-02-10 09:33:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My sister is getting married and asked me to be her Matron of Honour. I gladly said yes, but when I arrived at my parents house (where she is staying) she has been acting like she was "forced" to ask me to be her MOH or even to be in her wedding. She will never discuss anything about her wedding with me, informed me the other night that her friend (one of the other bridesmaids) is throwing her a bridal shower and a bachlorette party, many other things.
So today she and I got into an argument, every time that we get into an argument she tends to bring up her wedding and how her friend (the other bridesmaid) is more of her maid of honour than I am, and I told her that I am not going to be in her wedding. Am I wrong for doing that? When I told her she seemed happy about that. Right now I am not even speaking to her. I have held my tongue since I got here in November about her not letting me know anything about the wedding until now.

2007-02-10 09:33:12 · 13 answers · asked by j_kuemmel02 4 in Family

see there's this boy that i really like him and he really likes me to but he has a girlfriend and he really likes her! So should i step up and try to get him or step back snd leave him alone?

2007-02-10 09:33:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my x husband is very wealthy and has investigators all over my boy friend and has said if i see him ever ever again he will take the kids,by the way 18yrs ago my boyfriend had a drug problem he found out about ,what do i do have not seen the love of my life for 3 weeksjust terrified i will lose my kids,i have filed for divorce!!

2007-02-10 09:32:54 · 11 answers · asked by patrick s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I met this girl at work and she totally digged me from the beginning but she had a guy. At that time they where having problems, in fact I flirted with her at a friends party openly, and someone pointed out the guy on the couch was her BF. The best friend told me their happy but the girl told me she wasn't. I told her she should decide for herself what she wants to do. Now the girl and her BF are apparently together again and work things out. When I see her I can't help but flirt with her, and the guy who's her BF seemed to only be with to kill time until something else comes along. Am I a bad person?

2007-02-10 09:32:53 · 2 answers · asked by Vesdog! 3 in Singles & Dating

What is a good and fairly cheap thing to do on a sunday??? any ideas.

2007-02-10 09:32:48 · 12 answers · asked by x--becki--x 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been divorce for 5 yrs. Both Ex and I remarried others. I retained full custity of our child. We have always worked together on raising her. Until now the New spouces have stayed out of it. He has been pretty good on paying child support. He was also court ordered to keep insurance on her. Well there is the problem!! He has changed jobs 7 times in this time frame. So there is the 60 plus days before new insurance kicks in and 2 of the jobs (including his currant one) doesn't offer insurance. For the last 3 years I have been insuring her. I wasn't court ordered. I wanted to discuss claiming her on taxes instead of being reemburced for my cost. Well new wifey & I got into it. Long story short can I take him back to court and get reemburced. Also while I'm there order me responcible for insurance and get to claim her every year on taxes?? He makes double what I make a year.
Thanks for any advice!!

2007-02-10 09:31:29 · 13 answers · asked by Di 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I think i'm pretty good looking. My description: green eyes, tan skin, dark brown thick wavy hair, dark thick eye lashes, 5' 4, and nice butt. Whenever i go to the mall, guys hit on me, but when i'm at school.... its total oppisite! Please help!

2007-02-10 09:31:06 · 13 answers · asked by Drea 2 in Singles & Dating