im deepressed ithink ineed your help can you?

Question

ok.ima 19 years old femail,im dealing with bad conditions write now ,im in collage i got a very bad degrees i never felt like this befor,and im having about 20 bounds over wait ,i have a lot of friends whom i like but i think they are so fake,and lastly i have this sharmfull gie whose in love with me but i dont know why i know im bretty but is that enough .hes in collage but we never had classes together and i keep running away from him so these are my proplems and i need help

Answer 1

i'm sure your a beautiful person it just sounds like you need some new friends because you depressed with what going on now

Answer 2

Pull up your socks and get interested in your college because this will reflect upon you the rest of your life because it is the career you have chosen to do the rest of your life. When you concentrate on what really matters like your career you will be too busy to worry about the little stuff. Give yourslef a check , ask yourslef what is the most important thing you can do for yourslef, if you can do that and have a goal in mind the weight problem will take care of itself because you will be too busy to think about eating. you will be preoccupied by your goals and the weight will drop. Don't run away from this guy, stay nutral and enjoy his company, he is not going to bite you he wants to be friends and if it goes further that is your decision. Concentrate on your goals for a career, consentrate on getting to know this guy and if its what you want in you life and everything will be fine. Try not to get depressed you have the whole world by the tail and only your future will suffer if you choose to let these things bother you at such a young age. Make a goal and go for it, you weight will go away when you feel better about yourslef. Take care Heather

Answer 3

firstly, at the age of 19 its typical for a woman to have gained weight...a changing hormonal system. youve probably stopped growin in height so much and now have to really watch what you eat and dont forget to continue excercise if youre not taking at least one sport class in college.
secondly, try not to be so serious about your friends and try to enjoy the time you spend with them.
thirdly, having someone be attracted to you is nice and usually is the first thing to getting to know you better.
chill....your life sounds quite the norm actually
get some extra excercise to increase good endorphines to be released and keep depression and stress at bay. It'll help you feel good about going thru your daily activities and more of an open mind about all things including yourself.
concentrate on your grades by doing your studying at a most peaceful time during the day/night that you know you concentrate the best. peace

Answer 4

have you tried asking your family for help. seeking a school guidance counselor, teachers? stop feeling depressed and think positive. set yourself for what lies ahead. if boys are a problem, keep concentrated on your college studies. also if you have friend problems, get someone you can trust to talk it out.. talking about the situation makes you feel better. trust this will work. one of my worst enemies went through this. now we're best of friends

Answer 5

I think you need to go back to an ordinary school and learn to spell properly which would help you tremendously.