Family & Relationships - 10 February 2007

We have been married 23 yrs this weekend, I have a little something for him, but I want to get him a little more.
We rarely have time alone, we have 2 young daughters and we work opposite shifts.
Any ideas appreciated!

2007-02-10 10:50:08 · 11 answers · asked by thechinamom 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i have this girl friend who im pretty close with we talk often and lately a couple of times when she has called me i,ve been out running erands.anyway my brother answers the phone sometimes and naturally they are both flirtaious so they,ve been talking and being flirty with each other.i know its innocent on my brothers part cuz he flirts with every women but its bothering me because im starting to think she is taking it a bit serious,i mean whenever we speak shes making comments about how sexy he sounds and how cute he is which i dont care to hear because i know he would never be interested in her.honestly i think shes desperate cuz she has a real dry spell in her love life and i want her to stop making silly comments what should i do?

2007-02-10 10:49:16 · 3 answers · asked by jelisa3120 4 in Friends

2007-02-10 10:49:06 · 16 answers · asked by amylthree 1 in Singles & Dating

In my 40 years of dating experience I have never held such a high profile job so it's never been an issue.

Help! I am very gullible and don't want to get taken for a ride or have my heart broken by a 'hoochie'.

2007-02-10 10:48:46 · 16 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

hey girls im having second thoughts i had a boyfriend that cheated on me and i told him i was breaking up with him now i want him back help me please before i make a bad decision

2007-02-10 10:48:28 · 16 answers · asked by malligirl99 2 in Singles & Dating

I would like to start a new relationship some day but for sum reason its hard for me. Im too scared of rejection.. im a black , 21 year old (lightskin)male, 5'9, 175lb, muscle tone, average looks( 7-8ish).. back in highschool there were tons of girls who liked me but now that im in the real world its like no girls want to talk to me.. what is wrong? I am a shy and i dont know why what should i do to over come this?

2007-02-10 10:47:40 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My former fiance and I got back together after a 3 week breakup because we were unable to get along. We got back together and I found out she slept with her ex husband when he was in town seeing children, then she slept with some misc guy she met, and then she tried to sleep with another ex but he said no. Now she says she made some mistakes when we were apart that she regrets and that she just needed to someone to fill the void because she was hurt that I split up with her. However, I know we were apart but it makes me question her feelings for me and this relationship.

She says she stillwants to be together and get married one day but I don't know how I feel if she is serious or I'm just Mr. Right Now until something better comes along.

HELP!!!

2007-02-10 10:45:37 · 9 answers · asked by kws504 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay, I have known this guy for 2 years now, and we have been real good friends. He asked me to be his gf on Friday and I said yes. Now the night before my mom got to see what he looks like at a school function. So she has no clue who he is or what he's like. She says I can't go on a date until she gets to know him. Now I can understand what she's saying to me. I just think she doesn't trust me. I think she thinks I'm gonna do drugs if he offered, or have sex with him. And I'm not a person that does that. I mean come on I'm only 13 years old and in the 8th grade. She could at least let us walk around in the mall together or go see a movie. Right? Please give me your opinion about this situation!!!

2007-02-10 10:45:37 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-10 10:44:42 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Ive been with my on again off again b/f for 5 years and i want to get married but he doesnt see a need to. Right now were off again because off course he wont marry me. Says he will be with me but doesnt ever want to get married. I want to leave him alone but cant because he has a father like relationship with my daughter. Been in her life since birth. So should I be satisfied with out marriage?

2007-02-10 10:44:16 · 18 answers · asked by lovelyladycd 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im only in high school and i cant stand stupid people.

2007-02-10 10:43:30 · 16 answers · asked by alsimpson1234 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-10 10:41:42 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well Thanx 4 all ur advice, Im afraid he only likes me as a best friend, Guess I gt to involved lol so thanx u guys and wish me luck 4 the future :P ..xxx Much love to all..xxx

2007-02-10 10:40:37 · 3 answers · asked by madblonde91 1 in Singles & Dating

By the way, this would be my first date with a girl I met through the internet and I'm excited to meet her in person for the first time. I have only been on one other date with a girl and that was more of a fling (because she didn't want anything serious). Anyway, I'm not very experienced at dating chics and I have never had a relationship with one - but it would be great if it worked out with this girl.

Any good ideas will be greatly appreciated! Thanks!

2007-02-10 10:39:01 · 12 answers · asked by lotsachicas 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-10 10:39:01 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-10 10:38:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We moved back to his mothers basement 3 years ago because we needed to save up for the wedding. I had an opportunity to go to school and it was great because we were in a position where if rent was late, our landlord was his mother. But now that school is done, I am feeling like I'm suffocating. Don't get me wrong she has helped us out alot, but I feel that when I find a permanent job it is time to get out. How can we do this and not hurt her feelings?
I don't want my husband to feel guilty about it either. HELP!! I need some input on how we should handle this delicate situation.

2007-02-10 10:38:37 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi, my boyfriend just got the privilage to change his hair color and style to whatever he pleases, so he is. It's been bleech, blue, and lavender (but it turned his hair blue again, oddly enough) in the past two months. I don't like him changing all the time, I know he's the same guy, just different hair, but it's so extravagant and constantly-changing that it's driving me crazy!!! When I told him last time (he was asking me how a mohawk would look on him (OMG)), i said "plz don't do that, I like yer hair as it is now =)." and he's like "you sound like my mom, Akii."
ACK!!! him changing all the time is a little too much for me (I'm not good with sudden change). I love him still, I'm happy that he's happy with his looks, and I can ignore his obnoxious styles. The colors even begin to grow on me after a while... but a lavender mohawk?!?
How can I ask him to be more stable with his hair without sounding like his mom?

2007-02-10 10:38:29 · 6 answers · asked by ♥ Cute T ♥ 5 in Singles & Dating

Can love be proven? If yes, how?

2007-02-10 10:38:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My Boyfriend asked me out Friday by texting me. What is your most ridiculous way of being asked or have asked out???

2007-02-10 10:37:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we went out last night everything was fine, we drank and had fun. we get hoome he decides he wants to go to the club but i didnt. right before i passed out he said we wasnt going. i wake up to find him not in the house. i go down stairs, hhis car was their but he was no where to be found. no anwer on his cell phone either. i go up stair for 5 mins. come back out and the car is gone. i call him and he said he has been up and he slept in his car and was getting his hair cut. Why is he lying? i think he cheated on me. but its so hard letting him go. i kicked him out but i still want him, help!!!!

2007-02-10 10:36:19 · 5 answers · asked by laura g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what catches your eye and makes you attracted to a girl!

2007-02-10 10:36:15 · 4 answers · asked by hockeylova#1 3 in Singles & Dating

well i asked her out and she said i'll think about it and then after a week her friends told me she said no. But after that whole thing she began to be really shy around me and we don't really talk anymore. she looks at me alot during class and turns away when i look. did she say no to hide that she liked me? she also trys to get my attention alot. i'm just not sure what to think anymore. does she like me?what should i do?

2007-02-10 10:36:12 · 5 answers · asked by mugiwara luffy 2 in Singles & Dating

I live in Cincinnati. A Christian support group would be great.

2007-02-10 10:34:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend and I have been together about 2 years and I love him very much. He's my best friend and we do every thing together and we have so many things in common but theres one thing......I wonder sometimes if he is using me. I clean the house, wash his clothes, cook and not to mention i re-decorated his whole rec-room, grocerys too. Ohh did I mention.....i live with him to!!!! He does some of these things "sometime" but i need him to meet me half way. can i get some advice, should i drop him?? :>/ Ps..im still wating for him to pop the question.

2007-02-10 10:34:22 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

That is the basic question..how do u know when it is over? We have been on an on/off relationship, and it has always been considered like a marraige. But now I think I'm not wanting this level of commentment and I'm not sure what to do from here.. I have expressed my feelings to him, and he says we have been through so much and that he loves me more than anything in the world. So many times I have tryed to leave him, but he guilts me back and tells me I am making a mistake. I'm soo confused....

2007-02-10 10:34:01 · 8 answers · asked by ? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

That is the basic question..how do u know when it is over? We have been on an on/off relationship, and it has always been considered like a marraige. But now I think I'm not wanting this level of commentment and I'm not sure what to do from here.. I have expressed my feelings to him, and he says we have been through so much and that he loves me more than anything in the world. So many times I have tryed to leave him, but he guilts me back and tells me I am making a mistake. I'm soo confused....

2007-02-10 10:33:04 · 11 answers · asked by ? 4 in Marriage & Divorce

what are the signs?

2007-02-10 10:33:00 · 4 answers · asked by Jay J 2 in Friends

i was engaged 2 years ago , im not in love with him , and i dont feel his love at all . i agreed on him cuz he seemed financialy and socialy as my family ( at the same level ), " I DISCOVERED THAT WAS NOT TRUE . the problem is that i need loyality in my future life , so i told him about my past relation ( i dont know if im virgin or not ) and i told him , i cant do that again and im not ready to leave him , also i dont know what would happen if we stay together . the greatest problem is that he lied bafore alot , and i was really good with his family , till i discover that when they promise , they dont keep their word . i really dont know what to do , my family also ............. im really worried about them , specially my sisters , they like him alot . i know i was a bad person in the past and im trying to b better i, im trying to follow relgion in everything now .

2007-02-10 10:32:43 · 3 answers · asked by despirate 1 in Singles & Dating

i cant seem to get over my ex. i still love her. even though i caused the divorced i want her back, problem is she is dating someone else now. what do i do.

2007-02-10 10:32:10 · 4 answers · asked by cman628 1 in Marriage & Divorce