hey girls im having second thoughts i had a boyfriend that cheated on me and i told him i was breaking up with him now i want him back help me please before i make a bad decision
2007-02-10 10:48:28 · 16 answers · asked by malligirl99 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't take him back. I would never take someone back who cheated on me. I couldn't trust them ever again. Even if they had changed, they lost you and made a mistake. That is their fault, NOT yours. You shouldn't have to deal with that. Plus the relationship will just get worse because you'll always suspect him. If you take him back, he'll just realize that you aren't serious about anything. Good luck!
-Candice-
2007-02-10 10:53:28 · answer #1 · answered by Sheila 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ive had this problem with my b/f before. Depending on what type of cheating it is. If he just kissed the girl then let it slide. If he had sex with her but you really want to forgive him just say you want to take some time to think. Make him sweat for like a couple of days.
2007-02-10 18:55:04 · answer #2 · answered by lovelyladycd 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I totally understand your regret, but chances are that will send your ex-boyfriend a message that he can cheat but then just say sorry, which you don't want him to have. Don't give your heart to someone who will break it, and remember, there are plenty of faithful fish in the sea.
2007-02-10 18:55:59 · answer #3 · answered by TatumPiddlePeepeepants 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long have you been broken up?
you may need to give it time--depending on the circumstance 90% of the time when a guy cheats hes not dependable--the best thing to do is break up. im not in your situation but i dont know, but if you stay with him because of the comfort zone boyfriend thing he'll never learn from it.
it may haunt your realtinoship for as long as it kept going
its gonna hurt--breaking up always does. give it more time, DONT give in, and keep yourself occupied. your not alone
feel better!
2007-02-10 18:52:42 · answer #4 · answered by carly m 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I am sorry hon, but if he is a cheater he will always be a cheater, move on and find someone who really cares about you and take care of yourslef. Ask yourslef what you really need and want in a realationship, if he broke your trust how will he earn it back? Take care with your decision Heather
2007-02-10 18:52:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well you have two choices here....let him back in your life and trust him not to cheat on you again understanding that he might do it again....or tell him and his cheating self bye.
Myself wouldnt let him back in. there are plenty more fish in the sea and who says if you let him back in your life he wont turn around again and hurt you.
guys suck sometimes. but you have to give them trust just like they have to give you trust. what you do with your trust is your own decision..but i guess it depends how strong these old feelings are for him. maybe give him another chance? you deside I wish I could for you but I cant...
i hope things work out!! :)
2007-02-10 18:53:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey I wouldn't take him back. You dumped him for a reason and that reason hasn't gone away. If you take him back then you will just be telling him that it is OK to cheat cause you will always be around. Players will always be players
2007-02-10 18:53:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
girl if he cheated with you ,you should leave him alone he is not worth it because if he want you he wouldn't cheat on you girl just kick him to the curve and forget about him
2007-02-10 18:56:09 · answer #8 · answered by sweetcandy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get back with him, He will always have that instinct to cheat again. If he did it once, He'll do it again
2007-02-10 19:07:40 · answer #9 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi ya. have more recpeted for your self. no matter how much you love him and depends on the situation on how he cheated on u. once a cheat always a cheat. trust me.
2007-02-10 19:12:28 · answer #10 · answered by emma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋