ive been divorced 7 months.?

Question

i cant seem to get over my ex. i still love her. even though i caused the divorced i want her back, problem is she is dating someone else now. what do i do.

Answer 1

I would suggest this: call her and ask her if you can see her. Let her know you will be there regardless of what time and what day she says..don't be late and don't reschedule. When you are in front of her tell her the truth about everything. Tell her your mistakes and how you feel now about them. Tell her how your life has been since you have been without her and how you see the future without her. Do not bring up her boyfriend. Remind her of the good times that you shared. Leave her with all of this and let her know you will do anything to change the way things are now..do not push her to make a decision right then. She will be confused more then likely and want to think about things. Ask if you can see her soon but do not push for a date or even seeing her tomorrow. Tell her that you will wait on her because of what you put her through...if she says no right there do not argue. If she comes back later and says no then tell her that you will still be there is she ever changes her mind. I wish you the best.

Answer 2

when someone doesn't want us anymore for what ever the reason there isn't much we can do until they break up with the other person they are with. just distance yourself from her for now, let her know u still love her and want her back so she will know how u feel, but accept what ever she tells u and let it go. and pray about it. but don't give up on it if it is really what u want.

Answer 3

Call or see her and tell her how you feel and that you would like to date again or at least be friends for now. Be honest with her about how you are feeling and see what she has to say in response to you.

Answer 4

trying going out yourself, see how you feel....