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My former fiance and I got back together after a 3 week breakup because we were unable to get along. We got back together and I found out she slept with her ex husband when he was in town seeing children, then she slept with some misc guy she met, and then she tried to sleep with another ex but he said no. Now she says she made some mistakes when we were apart that she regrets and that she just needed to someone to fill the void because she was hurt that I split up with her. However, I know we were apart but it makes me question her feelings for me and this relationship.

She says she stillwants to be together and get married one day but I don't know how I feel if she is serious or I'm just Mr. Right Now until something better comes along.

HELP!!!

2007-02-10 10:45:37 · 9 answers · asked by kws504 2 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

9 answers

Move on...

2007-02-10 10:49:47 · answer #1 · answered by just browsin 6 · 0 0

I don't think that getting rid of any pet is a good option, especially if you're moving voluntarily and not being forced out of your current home. If you've already given up one companion animal (horse) because he told you to, I'd step back and take a long look at the relationship. It's all a matter of opinion, but a person who loves you should accept you (and whatever comes with you), not simply chip off the parts s/he doesn't like. Has he given you any good reasons to rehome your dog? Ask him to write down a list of his thoughts on why it would be better to have two dogs for six months, then (possibly) bring the third dog back into the picture. In my mind, it doesn't make sense. He doesn't have allergies, the dogs aren't fighting with one another, there isn't a pet limit in your new home, he isn't being saddled with any of the chores for the pets, and he hasn't made any personal sacrifices to justify all these demands. If you're moving to an entirely new town, and his relationships with old friends make you uncomfortable, you'll be relying on your dogs more than ever for emotional support and companionship. When I'm feeling alone in a situation, my dog becomes a non-human friend that I can rely on; does your fiancee understand how important your dogs are to you? Keep a calm mind and try writing him a letter to explain everything you feel. Present your viewpoint in a logical manner, and ask him to reconsider his request. His selfishness might have permanent consequences for your relationship.

2016-05-25 05:33:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It could be either way really, but I want to lean toward mr. right now. I think it depends on who broke up with who and how you two got back together as well. Did you have to beg her back? If the answer is yes, then you are mr. right now until something better comes along. If she broke up with you and did all this, then I don't think she cares very much.
At any rate, I can't see that she cared much anyway and I'll tell you why, if you care about someone you broke up with you don't hop in bed with the next 5 people.

2007-02-10 10:53:43 · answer #3 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 0 0

I'm definitely not the best advisor when it comes to relationships, but I suggest you find someone else. If you are questioning the relationship, that pretty much means you don't trust her. Relationships almost never hold when two people are dishonest with each other. If you really don't want to let go, why don't you give her another chance and let her know that you were hurt to hear about what she did? Take it slow. Don't do something you'd likely regret. :)

2007-02-10 10:53:46 · answer #4 · answered by Nightwolf 4 · 0 0

you might put your relationship on hold until she decides to focus on your relationship. what are the two of you fighting about?
why does run to someone else's arms? why? find out the answers because it doesnt seem you know your fiance at all.
things like that shouldnt happen if your relationship when youre together if fulfilling and caring. there is something desperately lacking in your relationship!! peace

2007-02-10 10:53:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Look at what you have written in your details. Do you want to continue hearing these same excuses. we all make mistakes but if we continue to make the same mistake you have to question is it really a mistake. Listen to your gut feelings. dont get in it if you are having doubts. You can find someone to treat you the way you deserve to be treated.

2007-02-10 10:52:21 · answer #6 · answered by nobody 1 · 0 0

this girl /woman will only give you pain ...forever just get rid of her and sleep with someone else asap.

2007-02-10 10:53:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

move on

2007-02-10 10:54:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

you should dump the whore, she obviously doesnt care for your feelings

2007-02-10 10:49:57 · answer #9 · answered by mascot336 2 · 0 0

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