i have this girl friend who im pretty close with we talk often and lately a couple of times when she has called me i,ve been out running erands.anyway my brother answers the phone sometimes and naturally they are both flirtaious so they,ve been talking and being flirty with each other.i know its innocent on my brothers part cuz he flirts with every women but its bothering me because im starting to think she is taking it a bit serious,i mean whenever we speak shes making comments about how sexy he sounds and how cute he is which i dont care to hear because i know he would never be interested in her.honestly i think shes desperate cuz she has a real dry spell in her love life and i want her to stop making silly comments what should i do?
2007-02-10 10:49:16 · 3 answers · asked by jelisa3120 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
don't hang out with her - let her see your brother enough so she knows he's not for her. Or don't let it bother you
2007-02-10 10:53:26 · answer #1 · answered by beautyful2god 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps there's a little bit of jealousy there? Maybe you like this girl as a little bit more of a friend, and hearing those comments makes you a bit green?
If not, then maybe you and she need a little bit of space. Tell her you're not feeling well (not a lie, you AREN'T feeling well about her right now), that you don't feel like talking, and keep your distance for a few days.
2007-02-10 11:34:22 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't let the situation get on your nerves. Remember, you are dealing with your brother and your friend. If it's just innocent flirting, what's the harm in that? The situation will play itself out.
2007-02-10 11:37:45 · answer #3 · answered by mcpouches 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋