Family & Relationships - 10 February 2007

i've never been kissed
never been in love
i have a problem.
whenever i know i guy likes me i try to play hard to get (withoput even thinking) and then i push them far away when i'm trying to pull them closer.


i'm not afraid of relationships and i would love to love

the closest thing i've had to one was a summer fling, which was nice but i want more.

there's this guy i really like and we can connect on so many levels. i don't know what to do to tell him i like him.

every time i try to flirt i wind up pushing guys further away.

is something wrong? how can i fix it?

2007-02-10 11:58:08 · 24 answers · asked by thatonegirl 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-10 11:57:09 · 24 answers · asked by katie 1 in Singles & Dating

I overheard a girlfriend saying that a man barked at her as he drove by and she didn't seem to mind. Im wondering if men bark at women because they're being perverted like 'wow hot moma' or because they think she's unnattractive like 'man thats a dog.'

Women what would u think if a man barked at you or have they barked at u?

Men if u do bark at a woman what does it mean?

I don't know why but this has been on my mind since she mentioned it! what does a barking man mean?!

2007-02-10 11:56:35 · 6 answers · asked by LN 2 in Singles & Dating

hey, i'm now a proud father of a baby girl, but i don't have custody. This is going to sound crazy but i want to file child support on myself. I have my reasons but i need to know the process for me filing on myself. I just want to show the judge that i'm willing to take care of my child if custody talk will ever come up.

2007-02-10 11:55:33 · 19 answers · asked by drew46759 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My gf and I broke up a week ago and i've talked to her about getting back together, but she said that she liked us better as friends. I still want to get back with her and she knows it too. So should i just give up on her or keep trying?

2007-02-10 11:55:02 · 25 answers · asked by unknown 2 in Singles & Dating

???

2007-02-10 11:54:33 · 7 answers · asked by jdcool278 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-10 11:53:46 · 13 answers · asked by Benjamin Sow 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I have had major problems int he past couple of months and years. Most recently we are together b/c he was running around with another woman and he let her talk **** to me on the phone and she lied about being pregnant but I guess he likes liars b/c he stayed with her.
I don't want him back to let you know. I know he is a loser and if you see my other ?s you know why he is a loser.
Anyway, we just settled on the fact that he can't have my son visit him in VA b/c I do not want to travel there and he must come to my state to see our son and he agreed. He also agreed to child support and I will have this signed and notarized. But I also told him that my son will not be around this woman. and he agred.
Now why when he called to talk to him 2nite, he let that woman get on the phone and didn't ask me if he could? I hung the phone up on her. Now should a woman who wrecked a home be talking to my son? I don't think so!
That's not a part of the agreement never will.

2007-02-10 11:53:02 · 2 answers · asked by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I work with my best friend's boyfriend, and he didn't have his car today, so I drove him to and from work today, and when we got to his house, he told me to come in for a snack, and next thing I know, my phone rings in the middle of us going at it and it was her, thats when he got off me and I put my clothes on and called her back...I couldn't tell her what happend, but I know I do. But right now me and him decided not to tell her quite yet...when I do tell her, what do I say...P.S....I'm 16 and me and the guy are ex's from freshmen year. I know it was wrong, but everythinh brought back the memories from when me and him used to do it together and it just all came back to us before my phone rang.

2007-02-10 11:52:59 · 32 answers · asked by Angela 1 in Singles & Dating

He has an insteady job that doesn't pay and no health benefits. What little he did make he gave to his ex- wife for child support. I had to "buy" if I wanted to go out or do anything. His ex- called ALL the time!
He was really nice and treated me good.
I got frustrated and broke it off. I miss him though.
Would you keep dating this guy?

2007-02-10 11:52:26 · 5 answers · asked by Mustang Sally 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, first of all thanks to all that answered to the "how to give her it" post about how to give my GF her gift. Though, some said "You'll look so cute standing outside her door with the gift!" I'm in the middle school though, and I have to give it to her at school. It's a lot of stuff too. I got her a Box of chocolates, a dozen roses, and her birthstone on a necklace. Now, I don't know what to say... Like I know to say happy valentines day, I'm not that retarted, though like how? Also, should I stand their with the gifts and give her them as soon as she walks out, or before school???And should I wrap them??? I'm not nervous, as our relationships very strong and perfect at the time... I'm just confused. Any help???
Nick

2007-02-10 11:52:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 13 years old and im a pretty cool kid n a lot of girls like me but i havent found that group of true friends yet like who you can go hang out with on friday nights and most other people have. what can i do about it?

2007-02-10 11:52:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-10 11:52:03 · 17 answers · asked by non active 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-10 11:51:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

mine and my bf personal life to everyone. she claims she only told two people because they were worried about me but thats a buch of bull cause i keep having people coming up to me and asking if it was true and that she told them. plus one of the peple she addmitted to telling is one of the biggest gossiper in school. what should i do???? help please?!?!?!

2007-02-10 11:50:29 · 16 answers · asked by Amanda 2 in Friends

My neice took the camera from me when my sister in law turned around. She was trying to take pictures of the dog, fell with the camera in her hand. My sister in law took the camera away from her. This happened two weeks ago. But my brother calls me today and blames me and expects me to pay fro his camera when I didn't break it.What should I do?

2007-02-10 11:49:46 · 2 answers · asked by primamaria04 5 in Family

My friend Shiann doesn't call, hang at school with me or anything.I tell my Boyfriend but he says ummmmm....gotta go every time
Do u think he's cheating on me with my friend
Shiann???

2007-02-10 11:49:41 · 4 answers · asked by shay 1 in Friends

Most the men who have dated Asian women say the same thing, that Asian women are beautiful, cute, sweet, caring, easy going, funny, classy, feminine, non-bitchey, non-materialistic, ect. Why is that? Is it in their genetics?

2007-02-10 11:49:18 · 26 answers · asked by Last Dragon 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Like hair type, clothing type (where to buy them n how to wear them) n stuff like that

2007-02-10 11:49:04 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Most the men who have dated Asian women say the same thing, that Asian women are beautiful, cute, sweet, caring, easy going, funny, classy, feminine, non-bitchey, non-materialistic, ect. Why is that? Is it in their genetics?

2007-02-10 11:48:39 · 10 answers · asked by Last Dragon 1 in Singles & Dating

I love and need my exboyfriend Rick McGrade and I need to know how to get him back. Please--if anyone knows how to do this please let me know. Thank you!!!!!!

2007-02-10 11:48:23 · 2 answers · asked by sunsetgirl64 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've been friends with a wonderful man for nearly 12 months, recently though I have been having more than friend type feelings for him.

The man in question has been married for 4 years and has two kids 6 and 3, he's admitted that the marriage is in trouble.

He has confessed that he has feelings for me but doesn't know what to do about them, he says he doesnt love his wife anymore but has his kids to consider.

Should we give into our feelings and start having an affair or should I back away from this wonderful man.

2007-02-10 11:48:13 · 77 answers · asked by laura_r 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My mom just told me that my "dad" well the guy i've been calling dad this whole time is not my dad. And that my real dad is my "dad's " brother. the one I call "uncle". What should I do I don't know if my "dad" or "uncle" know this.

2007-02-10 11:47:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

How have/do you cope with big problems in your life?
Etc. financially, marital, kids etc... or all at the same time :S

2007-02-10 11:47:31 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if given the choice for your engagement ring would you rather have a family ring from his family or a new sparkly ring he picked out?
i myself have his mom's rings and i thought the guesture was sentmental.(does this mean his mom likes me? lol)

2007-02-10 11:45:26 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

So right now my mom hates me because I moved in with my dad because I couldn't stand her rules anymore and I moved in with my mom. Well the rule was that I couldnt date so I was sneaking around behind her back and got caught. So I have to make a choice.
a) move back in with my mom
*not be allowed to see my bf
*be completely and totally under house arrest
*stay at my school
*not allowed to be 100feet from my bfs house
b) stay with my dad
*be allowed to date as much as I want
*be stuck in a different city
*switch schools :'(
*allowed at my bfs house almost always
c) move in with my sister
*be allowed to date.... but barely
*help pay bills, get a job, etc.
*stay at my school
*not allowed at my bfs house ever again (almost)

2007-02-10 11:43:46 · 7 answers · asked by Choconilla♥ 2 in Family

So I have this guy friend who I've known for about 3 years now. He's also my neighbor. We talk on Aim and the phone a lot. We hang out together (but usually with a group of friends). We walk our dogs together at LEAST once a week, sometimes more. He also "beats me up" a lot. Like he'll play fight with me and tease me. I've liked him for forever, do you think he likes me?

2007-02-10 11:42:01 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This boy said he would ask me out but I am too much to handle cause I am smart. My mom said "boys reach for they apples on the bottom" but who reaches for apples on the top?

2007-02-10 11:41:50 · 14 answers · asked by *UnIqUe*`````*Tammy Int'l* 1 in Singles & Dating

I feel like i just didn't count,why did my own parents not want me

2007-02-10 11:40:56 · 10 answers · asked by oompalah 1 in Family

I was told that I can no longer concieve by specialists about 6 years ago , as I was not in a relationship at the time it was not that important and as I already have 1 child I sort of decided that I would just be satisfyed. Since then I have met and fallen in love with a wonderful guy. We have arrived at the stage where he wants to discuss OUR future children . He has a child from a previous relationship and wants to have more with ME ! I have been putting him off saying that we should concentrate on settling down properly (getting married) before we think about children. If he commits then I will discuss this with him, but he does not think marriage is that important. He has even gone as far as telling his friends that we will be parents again soon and to watch this space! Its becoming embarrassing now ,but if we end up parting company then he will know my secret, I am dammed if I tell him and dammed if I don't. He desparately wants more children. What shall I do?

2007-02-10 11:40:31 · 53 answers · asked by sho nuff 1 in Marriage & Divorce