mine and my bf personal life to everyone. she claims she only told two people because they were worried about me but thats a buch of bull cause i keep having people coming up to me and asking if it was true and that she told them. plus one of the peple she addmitted to telling is one of the biggest gossiper in school. what should i do???? help please?!?!?!
2007-02-10 11:50:29 · 16 answers · asked by Amanda 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i wish i could just ignore her but thats hard considering i han=ve 2 classes with her 1 world religion 2 nutrion and welless ( we are in a cookin group)
its just thats she is telling people about my personal life with my boyfriend/fiance/future husband.
2007-02-10 11:57:48 · update #1
if you know what i mean by personal life between me and my bf.
2007-02-10 12:01:03 · update #2
I'm in high school too, and I know a girl who is doing the exact same thing as your "bestfriend". My girlfriend told one of her friends stuff, and that girl went all around school telling everyone about our relationship. If you have a really personal secret, NEVER tell anyone in high school ... it's high school, and you can't trust anyone! What you should do, is talk to the girl about what she did and tell her you did not appreciate it and you want her to stop. Be really nice to her, because if your not she will be worst and talk more sh!t about you and start more rumors. As for the biggest gossiper in school, well there isn't much you can do about that if you don't know her personally.
I think the best thing you can do is talk to your "bestfriend" like I said, and once you have done that you should fine a new bestfriend and NEVER tell anyone anything personal again!!
"i wish i could just ignore her but thats hard considering i han=ve 2 classes with her 1 world religion 2 nutrion and welless ( we are in a cookin group)"
Ok well, if your in two classes with her try to avoid her as much as possible. If your teacher will let you, change cooking groups. If not, than just give her the cold shoulder.
2007-02-10 11:56:42 · answer #1 · answered by Joseph 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, just ignore everyone.
If someone actually asks you, you know that that person is not worth considering as someone who you should care about.
Secondly, you'll be out of there soon, so don't fret too much.
Thirdly, you should NOT HAVE a personal life that people can gossip about.
If you are acting like a tart or whatever then how can you complain? If you're not, not even flirting with guys, there is nothing to worry about, right?
2007-02-10 11:55:17 · answer #2 · answered by joe m 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st, shut your mouth. I mean that seriously. The more you tell people, the more your business gets in the streets, and it is always twisted.
2nd. If this is a good friend of yours, then you don't have to stop being friends with her, but now you know that she cannot be trusted so keep her at arms bay.
3rd. Don't worry. Your gossip will past. There is always something new and improve to catch people interest. Just ride the wave. People will always talk about you. It is the law of the land!
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2016-12-04 00:35:35 · answer #4 · answered by schiavone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not a real friend.
As for the person who gossips a lot about others.. Just ignore them and tell them to worry about their own life
2007-02-10 11:52:59 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have learned in life that you cant tell everyone your business. No, not even your best freind. They are the worst at keeping secrets. The only thing to do is let it die down. Eventually other people will get tired of talking about it.
2007-02-10 11:53:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow
I guess this is probably what alot of people would say but drop her or stop telling her stuff. Simple as that
Shes not a good friend if shes telling people your personal troubles.
Do what you think is right.
Thats all I can say and good luck to you!!
2007-02-10 11:54:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a sophomore and the same thing happened to me =[
it sucks but i got over it sooner or later and the rumors faded away.
i also told my (now ex-)best friend to never talk to me again.
that wasnt the first time it had happened though, i had forgiven her a number of times before.
if you need support or someone to talk to, you can IM me on AIM- my sn is 'hothotheatUWL'
i know it sucks
2007-02-10 11:54:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax in a couple of months you may never see her again.
2007-02-10 11:52:55 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like she isn't a best friend if she can't hold a secret.
Move on and let go of her
2007-02-10 11:52:45 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋