My gf and I broke up a week ago and i've talked to her about getting back together, but she said that she liked us better as friends. I still want to get back with her and she knows it too. So should i just give up on her or keep trying?
2007-02-10 11:55:02 · 25 answers · asked by unknown 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hi there, Yes you should give up on her. and find someone else that will not give you pain. and that will be cooler and be sweeter and kinder and way more careing. and that will make everyday brighter for you. God loves you. and God bless you. Good luck on it and have fun. also be brave.
2007-02-10 12:09:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'd keep trying until you are a 100% sure that she has cooled down and is only interested in you as a friend. Then, after than you're better off just moving on.
Here's what you try. Go out of your way to do something super special. Like, go to her doorstop and sing for her and stuff. If she rejects you then, move on... a woman whose heart does not melt over that is someone that has cooled down for you. Show her that she's special. Do it soon, because eventually she will eventually forget and it will be too late.
2007-02-10 19:59:36 · answer #2 · answered by s_p_u_d_n_i_k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time, maybe you need to go ahead with hanging with your buds, keeping busy, do not give yourself time to dwell on her. Maybe a couple of weeks, call her and feel her out. If she still seems the same on the issue, MOVE ON, Talk to her first, get her to talk to you but a relationship should not ever be one-sided, there is someone for everyone You can have someone that WANTS to be in the relationship
2007-02-10 20:09:10 · answer #3 · answered by 122HOWARD54 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You won't be MORE appealing if you "want" her back you will be less appealing. I suggest you start spending a lot of time with your guy friends and act as if you are completely uninterested in hanging out with her. This will make you look self confident and show her that you can be happy with or without her in your life. If you can start casually dating other girls that would be even better. When she does come back around (and she most likely will) you need to make her less of a priority...only give her a little bit of your time, continue to hang out with your friends and she will be all over you..trust me, it's how girls operate!
2007-02-10 19:58:37 · answer #4 · answered by katiebug 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give up the asking, but chill for a moment. She might just want to take a break. You have to give her space and allow her to live her life. There is an old saying that rings true:
If you love someone, set them free.
If they come back, then they is yours
If not, they never was yours to begin with.
2007-02-10 20:02:10 · answer #5 · answered by Michael b 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen- I am 20 and I dated the same guy since I was 16 and we broke up almost a year ago... it was hard and I kept tryin to get him back, I thought it was the end of the world for me because I loved him so much, but after a few months of tryin, it pushed him away more, to the point where he didnt even want to be friends anymore and moved on to another girl just to spite me. it hurt more! now its 9 months later and I am in love with my bf, I woudnt give up but i wouldnt be persistent. if its supposed to happen it will. i promise. if not,.. move on to bigger and better things
2007-02-10 19:59:57 · answer #6 · answered by I Love my boys 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's about respect. if you beg or force a situation to get what you want, you won't be respected.....the only way you might win her back in a healthy way is to show your strong enough to get on with your life. Become involved and enjoy activitys or sport. She may come looking and find you attractive, in that you're mentally healthy and capable of independence. let her realise she made a mistake and chase you !
2007-02-10 20:07:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you should. It's not really giving up, you've broken up. It's over. you've got to love yourself enough to know you can do better. Better as in someone who actually wants to be with you. I've just broken up with my boyfriend because he didn't spend any time with me. We both still want to be together, but he can't spare the time, so i'm doing what's best for me. you should do the same
2007-02-10 20:00:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont think u should give up just yet.. mayeb start doing things really nice 4 her. heres my story. me and my current bf were going out from september 05 to july 06. then we broke up until january we got back together.....
during that time we broke up i knew he liked me but he kinda didnt want to get back together but then he changed but he always liked me and i always liked him. soo just start doing nice things for her.. and valentines day is coming up!
2007-02-10 20:02:05 · answer #9 · answered by Archie ♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. If she's not interested, then it's not going to work, because she's going to be looking to move on.
I'm sorry.
At least she is still willing to be friends and talk to you- if you keep asking her, you might lose that too.
2007-02-10 19:59:23 · answer #10 · answered by Chrys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋