Family & Relationships - 7 February 2007

my husband and I have been together for about 6 years & we have a daughter together.
sometimes he will have the job for us to get by, pay bills, etc. when I don't have a job or any money.
he gets enough to get us by. paycheck to paycheck (for now).
but anyway my problem is that I have a hard time "spending" his money.
For example, I feel that I do not have the right to use it because I am not the one that is working for that money.
I think I feel that it is his money to do with whatever he pleases and if he intends to spend it on us than so be it. I mean he does buy the things we need but when he tries to give me money for other stuff I have a hard time saying yes.
Is there something wrong with this? or is there a way to get over it?
When I was the one with the job and he didnt have a job I would surely let him use money if he needed it to do with whatever he wanted. and it is the same way now that he is the one with a job but I think there is something wrong here, do you?

2007-02-07 01:46:55 · 6 answers · asked by lady_luv 2 in Family

My son is 16yrs. His father and I have been divorced for 7 yrs. Son has a computer at dad's house, bought by grandma, that dad won't give up. Son also has a truck, left to him by his grandfather, that he won't license or insure so that my son can bring it home. My son is so afraid of angering him that he won't even talk to him about it. His dad will not talk to me about it. Does anyone know how I can find out my son's rights?

2007-02-07 01:46:27 · 4 answers · asked by lsloner 1 in Family

2007-02-07 01:45:55 · 19 answers · asked by Angela N 2 in Weddings

Can this happen??? my friend took a loan out for a fourwheeler and he stopped paying the payments the?
fourwheeler was about 8k and he still has about 6k to pay it off and i want to take over the payments on it he hasnt payed a cent on it for atleast a year and a half then he moves to a new state....i think i know the bank he took the loan out from and i just got off the phone with them and the loan lady was not in but she will call me when she gets in ..... what should i ask her? im ony 17 but i work i make about $300 a week... can this be done me taking the payments over the owner of the fourwheeler says its ok but he is not making any effort to call anyone..also when he moved he left the fourwheeler at his house it probably hasnt been ridin in a year its just sitting at his old house...=( so pretty much what i need to know is what should i say to the loan lady when she calls me and if this is possible since im 17 and alll.....any info will help! thanks.

2007-02-07 01:45:45 · 9 answers · asked by straight pimpin 1 in Singles & Dating

16 of april is his birthday and i want to choose anice piece of gift for him,plz give me some INNOVATIVE ideas.
******plz dont tell me to give SHIRT,PERFUME,WATCH,KISS

2007-02-07 01:45:43 · 8 answers · asked by stylish 1 in Singles & Dating

k he rides my bus and i sit in the seat in front of him sometimes he sits in a diffrent seat(only when these other tow girls take hi sseat) but always kinda close to the back(we all sit in the back)and i do catch him staring at me and my chest and once even my butt and we laugh at the same things and sometimes we stand next to each other in line but normally i am talking to my friend and sometimes i think hes listening in but not in a bad way cause we never talk bout like girly stuff we r both kinda tom boyish we mostly talk bout how we think that the school sevres road kill instead of food and he agrees and laughs so anyway on halloween we wore our costumes to school and mine was kinda hot(sweaty hot) so on the bus i took it off and stuffed it in my backpack and i caught him staring at me again not that i really minded he does have really pretty eyes but and im babbling on and on and i proly could till my characters ran out soooo DOES HE LIKE ME OR NOT!!!! im clueless!!!! HELP!! thanx

2007-02-07 01:45:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am a 18 boy .my friends speak bout musterbate but i dont know how can i do it pls explain it for how can i do it.

2007-02-07 01:45:04 · 6 answers · asked by behrooz k 1 in Singles & Dating

if i am a little chunky

2007-02-07 01:45:02 · 2 answers · asked by Kimmy 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 01:44:24 · 13 answers · asked by lopeznumbers 2 in Singles & Dating

?!

2007-02-07 01:44:10 · 10 answers · asked by me 2 in Singles & Dating

After I had an argument with her mom, my (ex) girlfriend took our 11 mo. old son while I was at work. Her and her mom took EVERYTHING of his, including ALL of his clothes. They've admitted to calling legal council! We talked just hours ago and my girlfriend still loves me and wants to work it out. But, her mother is downright evil. I think she's up to something, but what is it?

2007-02-07 01:43:39 · 16 answers · asked by goodfather 1 in Family

2007-02-07 01:43:16 · 23 answers · asked by portivo 1 in Singles & Dating

Some cultures believe the men should always be the bread winner, but what if wife earns more.

2007-02-07 01:42:24 · 19 answers · asked by kate d 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What is the bird of freedom??

What is the bird of peace??

What is the bird of LOVE??

2007-02-07 01:42:01 · 24 answers · asked by K-E-G 3 in Singles & Dating

Everywhere I go I have women chasing after me. I always have women asking me out in the pub. Why am I so popular with women? That said I can't keep them for long

2007-02-07 01:42:00 · 14 answers · asked by Sean D 2 in Singles & Dating

Is there anything called a groomswoman? And does she have to hold flowers ?

2007-02-07 01:41:52 · 18 answers · asked by ? 3 in Weddings

I have 2 boys (13 &8) and a long time boyfriend. I don't feel respected and I'm sick or repeating myself. I work full time and when I come home I'm picking up everyone elses stuff. Even though I have told or asked them to pick up after themselves. Has any moms out there gone on strike and has it worked?

2007-02-07 01:41:19 · 4 answers · asked by frogs525 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

my friend did.... and i dont know what to think about her. she told me that she wouldnt had take care of a child that wouldnt be fair for the baby.

SHould i belive her???? I supported her while she told me she was pregnant but now its like .......HARD!!!! im not agree with abortion but she told me it was the best it could happened. her parents, they both agreed she wasnt responsible enough to have a child but also said they respected wtv decision she made...

what you think about this?

2007-02-07 01:40:56 · 32 answers · asked by *live,laugh,love* 2 in Singles & Dating

Just need some ideas as to what guys want for valentines day...I mean let's be honest here, I need real answers, don't worry about being girly just be honest.

2007-02-07 01:39:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok now me and my boyfriend have been together for 1 year and 3 months and we love eachother alot.. Well people always try to ruin or relationship. I hate that and I dont know what to do.They always talk smack and run their months to one of us about eachother... wat do I do?

2007-02-07 01:38:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this guy. I knew him before we started dating. I have seen him almost everyday for two weeks. I sent him a text from my cell phone which he doesn't have the number for. He responded that he didn't know who it was or what they wanted but he had a gf to leave him alone. I told him it was me, he laughed and apologized. Later that night, he came over, we were talking about it, he said yeah I know we are not official but that's what I tell everyone, (That he has a gf not to talk to him). After he dropped me off last night we were still talking, He asked if he could keep me...I told him yeah, and I asked if I could keep him, he said only if it was him and no one else. (As in making sure I don't cheat). What going on? Does he want to be with me or what?

2007-02-07 01:38:30 · 13 answers · asked by angel2005_2001 5 in Singles & Dating

And have you successfully achieved that?

2007-02-07 01:37:56 · 12 answers · asked by kumiko2420 4 in Family

Whats with the mind games?
a couple months ago my ex called me and said he still thinks about me and even asked if i have met anyone new then we ended up having phone sex after a while of that he said he kinda felt guilty because he has another gf,...if hes truly happy with her why is he calling me up and talking to me about this...but now i have heard they are getting married they have been dating about 6 months hes 27 shes 19 obviously he lies to her especially about me.i called him to confirm his marriage and all he told me was he had to move on from me and that he was really sorry...why did he say this why didnt he say he loved her...is this how guys usually are even at his age? and can their relationship with the age difference,the lies and did i mention he has changed everything about himself to make her happy how does that work? oh and then he tried telling me he was just trying to make the break up easier for me but im pretty sure i didnt ask him to say those things to me

2007-02-07 01:36:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met her online we ve been chatting for six months and the next thing i knew she was at my doorstep with her parents.After about a week the parents asked me to marry her but i said we need time.She got upset and started to be even physically abusive towards me.We had fights by that time anyway as she kept talking and texting to her ex. I loved her true enough but the relationship was just not strong for us to marry as you can understand.She stayed with me for a year and suddenly she decided to leave, saying this is not working.I said bye to her but she kept texting ,calling me , the reason she said she cant forget the good things I have done even though i said to her we should call it off.Even upto today she would do anything for me and I asked her to come back to me,as i still have feelings towards her, may be we can work things out, she said no, but keeps talking and texting to me.She even met my family and they think she is my girlfriend.
I called her today and called it a day.

2007-02-07 01:36:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating/living with my boyfriend for years now. His mother never liked me from the moment we meet. The scary thing is that he is 30 (I am 22) and everyone around me tells me that he isn't going to "grow up at this point" and that I should find someone else. I finally couldn't take it anymore (constantly fighting about his mother) so I moved back in with my parents a month ago. Its hard because we get along in all other aspects, but when it comes to his mother/family everything all goes to h*ll. Help, I don't know what else to do.

2007-02-07 01:35:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i like this boy who is Pakistani and Muslim, and I am white but i dont think my parents would approve of that because they tell me to stick to my own race but love shouldn't matter when it comes to race, right ? that's what upsets me and this has happened to me before, i tend to like guys that are a different race knowing my parents arent too thrilled with it ( they are very traditional since we are romanian) So i listen to them or just believe in what my heart tells me ? have u ever had the same problem

2007-02-07 01:35:07 · 13 answers · asked by Dia 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been dating a guy for 4 years i have known him for 10 years and now he asked me to marry him and i am only 20? he's even talking about kids and i love him very much. what should i do?

2007-02-07 01:35:07 · 28 answers · asked by Rose 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm just saying cause ther's one guy i work wit and he's pretty cool and i kind of slept with him and people at work come and ask me about it but i just tell them i didn't but yeah if i'm not flirting with him i can kind of tell that he's flirting with me but yeah i guess i shouldn't worry about it too much.........

2007-02-07 01:34:29 · 23 answers · asked by Sexy_brown_eyes08 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 01:34:00 · 29 answers · asked by Fraggle Rocker 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 01:33:59 · 8 answers · asked by Laralyn 2 in Singles & Dating