Family & Relationships - 7 February 2007

A coworker sent me an email that I was too weird for him to be friends with because I was sending him mixed signals. We had been close for awhile and I told him it was best that we ignore each other so I can get over my crush on him since he already has a gf. Anyway during all of this, he suggested that the best way to get over him was to sleep with him. I thought he really wanted me because he kept asking if I wanted to do it. Then he told me that I should do it with someone else since he already has a gf. Of course, I felt hurt ,angry, and embarrassed since I told him things that I wanted him to do to me. A few days later I called him a dog via text since he jerked my feelings around, then I felt bad about it and wrote a letter apologizing to him. This is what provoked him to ignore me for the past month. A few days ago, he looked at me like he wanted to say hello and I emailed him asking him if we could just treat each other like coworkers and say hi. He told me I was too werd.

2007-02-07 00:42:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Things just arent how they used to be. We don't talk like we used to, we dont kiss like we used to BUT I still ove being with him. It just seems like it's different, does that mean I am falling out of love with him?

2007-02-07 00:41:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-07 00:40:29 · 7 answers · asked by lama n 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend and i used to hang out all the time back in the day. I started seeing some one else and moved away 300 miles away.during that time we lost contact for 5 years. During that time she was in a bad accident and now in a wheelchair which dosent bother me at the least. Anyway I got out of my disaster relationship and started looking for my old friend. I finally found her after about a month and now we talk everyday. I dont know if i could ever talk her into coming to live with me. But there is no good jobs where she lives or i would go in a heartbeat. I send her cards and little packages with just stuff that is kinda silly but it makes her laugh and i love that! We tell each other when we get off the phone that I LOVE YOU AND I LOVE YOU TO. I just cant tell her that i really love her more than life its self. I dont want to take the chance of messing up our relationship that we have now because it is very good. I love her with all my heart.

2007-02-07 00:40:12 · 9 answers · asked by danbar2 dig 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm doing a survey so please help...=) just tell me what you think..no need to be accurate..just wanna know ur opinion

2007-02-07 00:40:04 · 8 answers · asked by ~bakavin~ 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 00:40:00 · 4 answers · asked by tinky 2 in Family

2007-02-07 00:39:04 · 10 answers · asked by Soundguy 2 in Singles & Dating

He said that I can pick three things for Valentines day. I want some rings, necklaces, and earrings. I don't know what to choose. Which of these colors would look good on my skin?
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2007-02-07 00:38:50 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am really mad about her..we happened to be the best of freinds b4 i proposed her....she then told me i was a really gr8 guy...but she wanted to exlore her options...i eventually turned a bit jealous of her "other" friends and commited mistakes...since then i caused her a serious of "unintentional harms" while i was trying my best to get her.....plz help me out...this has been happening for almost more than year...if i try to forget her..cicumstances bring us close again...you know professional closeness...even if i try to get another frnd or close to someone else...they too seem to be either pretty close to her..or some one who already has someone and is not interested....i really shattered plz help me out.. plz help me out i have tried everything...things are fatally wrong for me...cause really need some one whom i can trust, love and give my affection...and also get some back.........and remember i have tried everything to woo her...i really didnt wanted this to happen

2007-02-07 00:38:45 · 2 answers · asked by Aayush S 2 in Singles & Dating

I am in a long distance relationship that has become very serious, and is leaning heavily toward marriage. My sweetie has a teenager daughter who lost her Mom in a car accident 2 years ago. I adore the two of them, but can see a few differences of opinion in the dynamics of our relationships together. I am leery about where I stand and how to go about discussing things, and knowing if I should even talk about certain things. Any pointers?

2007-02-07 00:38:28 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I think that is really nice of him don't you?..... but i'm so going to miss my baby.....it is not for long but i will miss him even more at night time.....any suggestions?

2007-02-07 00:37:45 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Before men marry the girl of their dreams, they beg,cry and do everything. but what happens after they get married ?
my brother(30)is married for 6 years now(before he got married,he loved his wife sooo much,he did everything to her)but a month ago his relationship with his wife started to get worse(really worse).now he sleeps in my dad's home and all he talks about is how much he hates her.

2007-02-07 00:36:55 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-07 00:36:42 · 16 answers · asked by sridher K 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 00:36:28 · 12 answers · asked by Toad 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 00:35:53 · 3 answers · asked by Coolcat Celebrity 1 in Singles & Dating

i am in love with a girl and she says she loves me too,everything was fine until her arrogant exboyfriend showed up telling her he loves her and wants her back.this guy used to be very harsh to her and used to molest her but he claims he has changed.now the girl is confused on what to do.i want to show her that i am far more better than this guy.what do i do o proof to her.i want to spend the rest of my life wtih her.

2007-02-07 00:34:58 · 5 answers · asked by Mengot J 1 in Singles & Dating

they say they dont like to have sex... but i think they do... so whats up?

2007-02-07 00:34:21 · 3 answers · asked by alltheladies009 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 00:34:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 00:33:24 · 36 answers · asked by Danny D 2 in Singles & Dating

Should i just stop talking to them?

2007-02-07 00:31:49 · 3 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

But are super polite and friendly if asked a question or spoken to? Otherwise ignored? Is this a sign of love or hatred? TIA

2007-02-07 00:31:39 · 9 answers · asked by mario 1 in Singles & Dating

Should i just stop talking to them?

2007-02-07 00:31:08 · 15 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-07 00:29:29 · 9 answers · asked by Tia R 1 in Friends

I am curious if I should get her anything for Valentines day. I dunno what I should get her though. I dont even know if I should get her anything at all. What do you all think. Im 18 and a senior in highschool. Her and I have been talking for like a week now.

2007-02-07 00:28:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My best friend is in a fight with me, i did something i regret and the whole school knows, and year 12 is very hard.
I hate my life so much right now can u cheer me up:(

2007-02-07 00:27:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My ex g/f contacted me yest', by I M, asking why i was not in contact with her....! still..
I replied and told her isn't obvious your my ex....!

we talked for a bit, and she is desperate to be friends with me for some reason...!
I dont get it, we were together for 4 years, and split up about 5 months ago....

We are both now seeing new people....

What does she want...?

Is she genuinely wanting to be friends..?

Or has she and her new fella split up or what...?

She says she missis me and still cares for me...

i told her to go make a new life, and leave the past in the past...!

sorry for re-posting

2007-02-07 00:27:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I found out and pushed us to end. She told me too my face that she dont love me anymore (with watering eyes), She flirted with this guy off and on behind my back, i tried to stop it. So basicly yesterday we ended, but yesterday morning she begged me to stay home from work, all i do is blame myself now, she run into him at the mall and i guess she liked how he looked. I know all the rules of the game, but i let that go, i gave her all my heart and soul, i treated her like gold. I bought her a car a dog a diamond ring, i gave her everything and the sex was amazing, 2 to 3 times a day. Shes sixteen and im 21, yeah i acted overprotective, but i was givin her more and more freedom, i guess i showed too much emotion, we would argue and i would cry, she used too but stopped about 2 months ago. What can i do? I hurt so bad and have no one, i have no one to talk to. I cant go to her for comfort or talk to her, she left me for someone else. Please i need immediate help. This is day one

2007-02-07 00:27:26 · 20 answers · asked by importracer_6969 1 in Singles & Dating

He is a great guy and he hasn't done this thing before. He ahs been going through a lot of emotional things and his parents have been trying to help him, but they don't know about the drug and alcohol. He is my best friend and his parents love me. Should I tell them? The boy is 18 and could leave if he wanted to.

2007-02-07 00:25:23 · 6 answers · asked by pretty 1 in Friends

i am best friends with John [or so lets call him that.] and then Rex is our friend too, but rex ix closer to john than me. weve all known each other for three years. john and i have gone out before...but nothing really big. people still ask if we do, and complain that we are always flirting. cause we are reallly best friends. john whispered to me yesterday that rex liked me. he said he was serious. over and over. and rex is just a manwhore, he loves girls, and hes just always wanting one. do you think its true, or that john was trrying to get a reaction out of me?

2007-02-07 00:25:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We're both trumpet players, I'm on 1st, he's on 2nd. He keeps looking over my shoulder and playing my part....badly. If it is a part I'm struggling with myself, I find it hard to cover his mistakes as he has one main volume..loud! Sometimes, when there's a solo or easier passage, he jumps to my part and plays it badly, but when it is a loud or difficult part (a part that I could do with a hand) he's straight back to 2nd. I've offered to swap seats, which he doesn't want. He's becoming a pain and I don't know how to tactfully tell him that when I need his help, I'll ask ,but until then, stick to 2nd

2007-02-07 00:24:34 · 9 answers · asked by kittycat123 2 in Other - Family & Relationships