Ok now me and my boyfriend have been together for 1 year and 3 months and we love eachother alot.. Well people always try to ruin or relationship. I hate that and I dont know what to do.They always talk smack and run their months to one of us about eachother... wat do I do?
2007-02-07 01:38:47 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You might want to find out why they are doing it. Is there a good reason? If not, they may just be troublemakers. If this is the case, what you do is tell them to mind their own business. Tell them your capable of making your own decisions without their input. Ask them how they would feel if you did the same thing to them, make them think about what they are doing.
2007-02-07 01:45:13 · answer #1 · answered by Wendy C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the thing that caught me was you said PEOPLE....so its good that you dont consdier these folks your friends because friends are there regardless, however people are going to talk and if your relationship is good then its going to be really funny in another year and 3 mos when yall are still together and they are looking stupid....i have found poeple who talk smack are actually jealous, they may want YOU, they may want your DUDE or they just may be plain miserable that you 2 are so happy....everytime someone laughs at me and mine, he is black and from the streets, i am white and grew up in highland park dallas, we laugh loud, very loud when we pass someone who is talking about or has talked about us but then we stop suddenly and start whispering and boy that sure sets the modd to a different tune......good louck and if you like him to heck with others that dont!
2007-02-07 01:46:36 · answer #2 · answered by Sandie L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if these people are close to you they should be happy for you and they should understand thet you are happy and if they dont see that you should just let them go. if they were real friends they would be happy to see you happy
2007-02-07 01:49:30 · answer #3 · answered by sweti2284 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell those people mind their own business.Remember its you and him not people interfering
2007-02-07 01:42:48 · answer #4 · answered by peg42857 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eliminate them from your life.
2007-02-07 01:41:59 · answer #5 · answered by Java Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they are just jealous, ignore them
2007-02-07 01:42:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋