Whats with the mind games?
a couple months ago my ex called me and said he still thinks about me and even asked if i have met anyone new then we ended up having phone sex after a while of that he said he kinda felt guilty because he has another gf,...if hes truly happy with her why is he calling me up and talking to me about this...but now i have heard they are getting married they have been dating about 6 months hes 27 shes 19 obviously he lies to her especially about me.i called him to confirm his marriage and all he told me was he had to move on from me and that he was really sorry...why did he say this why didnt he say he loved her...is this how guys usually are even at his age? and can their relationship with the age difference,the lies and did i mention he has changed everything about himself to make her happy how does that work? oh and then he tried telling me he was just trying to make the break up easier for me but im pretty sure i didnt ask him to say those things to me
2007-02-07 01:36:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do you think he is wanting to marry her out of guilt
2007-02-07 01:36:53 · update #1
This guy sounds like a real piece of work! You can say he is playing mind games with you. I wouldn't even speak to him and give him the satisfaction. You deserve way better than an idiot like that. He has a lot of growing up to do IF EVER! In the meantime, he will use people to see how far he will get. Down the road I can probably guarantee that he will break this girl's heart sometime after they are married. The truth will get out about him.
2007-02-07 01:43:49 · answer #1 · answered by ********* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are dwelling to much in the past.. Let It GO! No matter what he says his actions speak volumes. The man has another woman in his life and has moved on yet you allow him to continue to manipulate you. What difference does it make if his relationship will work or if he's doing it out of guilt you are no longer with him so LET IT GO! and get on with your life.
Take time to work on your self esteem and confidence the first step is not having anything to do with this unhealthy relationship with your ex. Good Luck!
2007-02-07 01:43:38 · answer #2 · answered by Playfull 3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know that he's playing mind games, so you just need to let him go. some men try to come back to their ex to see how far they can go. I do feel that he probably have some kind of feels for you just not enough to be with you. he might find it hard to tell you that he loves someone younger than you, and that he's ready to take the next step with her rather than with you. if a man is willing to change for the person that he is with, chances are he is in love with her, then he's probably not different at all, he's probably just not the same with you which he can't be.
2007-02-07 01:45:53 · answer #3 · answered by T 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He rang you up to find out if you were ok. I think if you think about it he could have told you the truth about him getting married then but it turned into phone sex so how could he? You clearly have feelings for him and if they are not returned then you are going to make yourself look desparate. Let him get one with his life and if he "changed everything about himself" then that is up to him, maybe he wanted to feel young and sexy for his new gf? I don't think it is him with the problem but you.
2007-02-07 01:42:05 · answer #4 · answered by Bagpuss 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sounds like a loser. Bid him farewell
2007-02-07 01:39:53 · answer #5 · answered by Java Queen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously ..it sounds like the dude was horny and that was the extent of the phone call...
2007-02-07 01:42:52 · answer #6 · answered by roy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about him and move on!
2007-02-07 01:39:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋