I met her online we ve been chatting for six months and the next thing i knew she was at my doorstep with her parents.After about a week the parents asked me to marry her but i said we need time.She got upset and started to be even physically abusive towards me.We had fights by that time anyway as she kept talking and texting to her ex. I loved her true enough but the relationship was just not strong for us to marry as you can understand.She stayed with me for a year and suddenly she decided to leave, saying this is not working.I said bye to her but she kept texting ,calling me , the reason she said she cant forget the good things I have done even though i said to her we should call it off.Even upto today she would do anything for me and I asked her to come back to me,as i still have feelings towards her, may be we can work things out, she said no, but keeps talking and texting to me.She even met my family and they think she is my girlfriend.
I called her today and called it a day.
2007-02-07 01:36:18 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't know how old you are but to me it sounds that you should call it quit's and ask her not to contact you anymore. It is hard enough today to make a relationship work when it is a good one from the beginning. You two have way to much game playing going on (especially her), she's using you like a Yo,Yo, letting go of you a little then pulling back a little..Sounds like she wants more control of you than she has. It doesn't sound like a healthy relationship at all. Cut the string completely, as you said, she's still doing the same with her ex......Go on with you're Life, sounds like you do have a good head on you're shoulders, USE IT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-07 01:51:01 · answer #1 · answered by SwissAK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont feel bad! ya gave it ya best shot!
She sounds really clingie and has some serious emotional issues that she must deal with before throwing her self on the next unsurspecting guy!
You know it will never work out between you and the phsyco hose beast!
Come on you know the answer. You should have not asked and been another 5 points closer to the next level.
2007-02-07 01:46:34 · answer #2 · answered by Chris W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you should not feel bad that its over because if she loved you she would under stand that you cant rush into things like that .that it takes time to reach marriage because when you get married you want something that you know is true and will last a lifetime ever body has problems but playing little child games is not the way to go and if she cant seem to under stand that then its best you leave and tell either you fix your ways or your leaving because your tired of playing games or just try to sit down and talk to her how you feel
2007-02-07 01:57:47 · answer #3 · answered by spongebobchick212 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To answer ur question the answer is yes u should feel bad IF u was in love with her. And if i was u i would have just left the conversation yall had on the net and not brought it out 2 public.
2007-02-07 01:45:21 · answer #4 · answered by candylicker_2010 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have a very interesting story but i think you both love your mate very much.She left you because she's afraid, you know i think that as soon as you said no she had doupts about having another affair somewhere else or maybe she had one!!! so she got scared and decided just to leave you, but she's just texting you and phoning you because she's still having emotions for you she's assuming you as a friend.you should convince her about your true love and if you do love her why don't just accept marriage before it's too late and you'll heart broken!!!for your good i'm just advising you to accept her proposition if you really love her and also try to ghet info about her life if she has any problems and that's why she just left, just help you and her out.
2007-02-07 01:48:52 · answer #5 · answered by avril 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
::sighs:: this is the sucky thing about love.. It seems to me this girl wants love from many people.. not just you. all guys.. or all people.. I have a friend like that. Its not good.. she has been in and out of alot of relationships because she will be with someone and she goes and cheats on him because she wants to feel love from anyone who will give it to her.. I say please dont put yourself through that. its ok to feel bad.. But let her go
2007-02-07 01:44:27 · answer #6 · answered by Nastassia P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you should feel bad, for a time, but this too shall pass. Be glad you got out of that, and I would be leary of anyone's parents asking me to marry someone.
2007-02-07 01:40:59 · answer #7 · answered by Kbear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think you should just leave it and find some one else, as if you fights then you have to ask yourself is it really worth it.
but also your the only one who can answer your own question.
but you also should not feel bad...better to let her know, or you will both end up sad and moody... life is just to sort.
2007-02-07 01:44:58 · answer #8 · answered by sam h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your best out of it, she sounds like a real 1st Class Bunny Boiler.
You can't marry someone like that she is a obsessive stalker. She likes control.
2007-02-07 01:45:59 · answer #9 · answered by kate d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lose that nutter man. this may be your last chance to get rid of her for good. marriage after 6 months of talking? you must be joking.
you ever seen the film fatal attraction? if not watch it asap.
2007-02-07 01:40:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋