Family & Relationships - 1 February 2007

we went out for a while. then we both were mad and we acted without thinking. 2 weeks later, he asks me out again. sum of my friends say that i should say no because of the way he treated me (which wasn't really bad) but others say that i should say yes because i still luv him.

2007-02-01 11:20:59 · 17 answers · asked by travelsized29 2 in Singles & Dating

Do You Still Have Time For Sex?

2007-02-01 11:20:07 · 11 answers · asked by step b 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

im lesbian and there is this girl i was dating for like a year and a half and we have been having alot of problems i dont think i trust her anymore and she doesnt trust me.
she says she isnt on drugs any more but i doubt thats true i love her and she loves me but we are both pretty young still so ya our most recent problem she is telling my friend she is gonna beat her up and she is like twice as big as her and im scared i told her not to but she tells me if i loved her i wouldnt take my friends side over hers and my friend is scared also plus me and her never see eachother except late at night and we have sex then go to sleep lately it has just been going to sleep but ya we broke yesterday she said she has another girlfriend now but then she asked me out and i think im going to say yes would that be stupid of me if so how do i say no?

2007-02-01 11:20:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i've dated this girl...and i loved her. but at the end it didn't work...it didnt work only because this guy, dean. i tryed to be his friend for along time now only because someone made me promised to be. but he cheated me out of everything, lied to me everytime we talked. he steals from me...and then he broke me and that girl up i never forgave him....well then i went out with another girl....and then i thougth maybe i should forgive him...well when i did.....hes trying to take her to...she said that she likes him more then a friend..and that he said that i was luckly to have her ( i am). she saids that she only likes him....but she loves me...and she would never do that...but idk i mean thats what my ex said to me.....i trust her but...idk. should i worry bout it? should i get mad? what the hell should i do?

2007-02-01 11:19:46 · 16 answers · asked by countryman 3 in Singles & Dating

How can I hurt him back? I want him to feel as bad as I do....?

I finally opened my eyes after six months of being totally played by someone I really cared about. I have spent so much time listening to this man talk about how he wants to change his life, how much he cares about me, wants to be with me etc... only to find out it's all a load of sh*t....
I have just been the latest in a pattern of people he has taken advantage of.
I am so hurt!! I mean, I slept with this guy, (at least it was good!)
and he's turned out to be a lying jerk.
I know it is immature, and probably not the healthiest--- but I want to make him feel as bad as I do....
Even if that's not possible, how do I not look stupid? How can I get a little dignity back?
Right now I feel dumb for believing his sh*t, caring so much, and giving him awesome love when he was only using me.
How do I look like the stronger/smarter one?

2007-02-01 11:19:43 · 2 answers · asked by smarty 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiance and I are having a very small wedding, just immediate family and a few friends. I'd like to mail an announcements to other family and friends telling them we're getting married, but how do I word it? I need to tell them what's going on but get the message across ( with tact and in a nice way) that they aren't invited. I don't want to hurt anyones feelings or have it come across like I'm fishing for a gift. Any suggestions? Thanks!!!!!!!

2007-02-01 11:19:40 · 21 answers · asked by K 3 in Weddings

Me & my fought about the booksI like to read Horror books for fun.Because people die
in them.My mom thinks its not healthy to read horror books .Because she thinks that I might plot to kill my
classmates and because of the killings and hurtings human in the book.By way the I don't have any friends. I like it that way because I hate society and humanity in general.So how can I conviced her horror books are good?
Also she saids that the devil using them to make me evil and making me violent.I told her that if she doesn't let read horror books that I wont' read at all.and also she thats the reason my dog won't come to is because she sense evil in my heart.

2007-02-01 11:19:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Here's my situation. Married 8yrs. Not in love, but have a great wife. She's a great person, great morals, selfless, loving, etc. However, I married her for the wrong reasons. I thought I would learn to love her. We were both in a bad place when we met. A year or so later, married. We have no kids, but she REALLY wants them. I don't. We've been fighting and I have gotten to the point where I have already left her (in my mind). I don't love her, but I do care for her very much and hate to see her hurt in any way.

I want a divorce, but not sure if I have the guts because I feel it's selfish. What do you think? Thanks.

2007-02-01 11:19:19 · 36 answers · asked by Crazed 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The only thing I know is that it needs to be a pricess cut, 1 to 2 carrat diamond on a platinum ring. Where's the best place to look and how much should I be spending.

2007-02-01 11:18:38 · 22 answers · asked by Herb 1 in Weddings

I think that I might be gay because everytime i see a hot dude taking off his shirt on tv or in magazine i get an erection. I don't think i'm gay because I have had sex with many girls and I love women but sometimes i have dreams about having anal sex with men, and even more disturbingly my family members. I've never had sex with a man (that I can recall) but I have gotten really drunk and I black out a lot. So tell me what you think. Am I gay?

2007-02-01 11:18:07 · 18 answers · asked by pheco 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-01 11:18:02 · 5 answers · asked by m* 1 in Singles & Dating

This boy thats my bestest friend likes me and i like him but he needs a few days to wind down from the last gf before he goes out with somone else. now i think he's starting to miss his last gf. WHAT SHOULD I DO!?!?

2007-02-01 11:17:40 · 2 answers · asked by 'Foxii Grandpa!~' 1 in Friends

I want to know what will be the best option for my one year old daughter and I. I'm living in Washington right now because he is in the Army, but I've decided to get out while I can and move back home to my family in Iowa. I plan to contact a lawyer soon after I get home to discuss these things, but I'm just looking for some advice to calm my mind in the meantime. As far as finances and stuff like that, which is better? Will he be required to pay child support right away if we get a legal separation? How long does it take to get child support when you file for divorce? I'm only asking questions about money because I don't have any of my own (thanks to him) and I know he will do anything he can to keep me down. Help?

2007-02-01 11:17:24 · 17 answers · asked by .*AnNa*. 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I met my g/f about a year ago, and she is the most beautiful woman I have ever met inside and out...but...she is somewhat inhibited. My life to date (sexually) is similar to an adult novel, and I have been a swinger for 17 years...until her and I started dating. I want to introduce her into male-female-male threesomes, not due to homosexual tendancies, but because seeing my g/f with another guy has always been stimulating for me, and I truly don't want another woman. She never seems to respond when I bring the idea up, and it gets swept under the rug. I also have heard her say "it is just sex", but when I bring swinging up, then it turns into something "gross". Just hoping more "reserved" people who have hidden wild sides might be able to help a guy who cares nothing about societal moral standards, and just wants to have adult fun with his conservative girl. What to do, what to do???

2007-02-01 11:16:38 · 13 answers · asked by Anderson J 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend whant to get a yahoo email but is not complete ley sure....iwant her to have one but i dont want to push her to have one either.......what should i do???

2007-02-01 11:15:37 · 3 answers · asked by Crazy Cas 2 in Friends

Why or why not ???



and oh ya my b/fs Mexican and i love him more than ive ever loved anyone !!!! ~lol~....... and im white

2007-02-01 11:15:13 · 13 answers · asked by Sweet_angel 3 in Singles & Dating

ive fallen in love 2 well i guess 3 times. when i was very young we dated for about 5 years then he moved away and we lost touch. the second guy is my resent ex boy friend. which is now dating my best friend...and the third one is another one of my ex bfs .....he is younger than me. and hes a preachers child. he doesnt know i love him i cant go without thinking about him and when he talks about other girls i get so jealous.....and he knows i do.....its not a good thing but i think he does it on purpose so yea i dont get to see him that often but why do i always get hurt by the ones ive fallen in love with it makes no sense to me do i deserve all this? am i the kind of person people think they can walk all over?im about ready to give up....why was there ever a thing called love gosh

2007-02-01 11:14:06 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I thought that relationships were built on trust and honesty. If a man tells you that he loves you should he also trust you. A man I loved told me that he loved me but didn't trust me at all. He constantly thought I was cheating on him and even got his friends involved. What do you think?

2007-02-01 11:13:29 · 12 answers · asked by Robyn K 2 in Singles & Dating

my girls birthday is coming up this month and valintines day is also coming up soon. i don't know what to get my girl for her birthday and valintine day

2007-02-01 11:13:28 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

K, my fiance & I got in2 a fight & he broke my phone. I'm using his old phone, while I was looking through the phone I found clips of his ex giving him oral! She has been a complete *** throughout me & my fiances relationship. My friend said that I should show everyone but it just don't seem right, but I do want her to leave us alone.

2007-02-01 11:13:06 · 1 answers · asked by T 3 in Singles & Dating

certain persons questions to answer or do you always go random??

2007-02-01 11:12:50 · 11 answers · asked by Basket-santa 6 in Singles & Dating

they want me to do something on the same day. My one friend wants to go to the mall and my other friend wants me to go cross country skiing. They both want me to do stuff at the same time and same day. I cant do stuff with both of them since they don't know who each other is. so now I'm confused. help me... don't answer with "who's the better friend"

2007-02-01 11:12:42 · 11 answers · asked by ??? 2 in Friends

I really hate seeing questions like this on here, so I'm a little hesistant to ask. But I'm really stumped on this one. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 9 months. The whole time we've been together, he has not trusted me. He thinks I'm going to cheat on him, and if I show up at his house late or if I'm talking on the phone, or if I'm on the internet (yahoo messenger) and he's not, he thinks I'm talking to guys. The only guys I talk to are him, and his brother...but his brother is gay, so there shouldn't be a problem there. I go over to his house every single day. Today will be the first day in about 6 months that I haven't seen him. But usually when I go over there, it's after 5:00 p.m. So he thinks I'm talking or seeing other guys before I go over there. I don't know what to do to make him trust me. My word to him doesn't make a difference. I've never cheated on anybody in my life, and I'm not going to start. How do I make him realize that?

2007-02-01 11:11:53 · 10 answers · asked by manders030405 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-01 11:11:38 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am planning my wedding and my fiance want;s to know what two good colors may be? I was thinking more along the lines of John Deere Colors which are green and yellow. Any Ideas?????

2007-02-01 11:11:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-02-01 11:11:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-01 11:10:53 · 10 answers · asked by cutiepie_xoxo_2010 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 53 I find I answer many questions here. Today I joined Yahoo personals. I've dated women from under 5 ft to 6 ft 6 in and she usually wore heels. I'm 5 ft 7 in. Also dated women of pretty much all weight ranges. Today I went through all 285 woman in the age and distance suggested. I think I only found 8 who would consider dating a man my height. I know we men are said to be caught up in apperances but I didn't expect this. Some won't date men less then 8 inches taller then they are. Emotionally it really hurt, I guess this explains why i'd get turned down at high school dances.

I'd appreciate it if only the ladies answered this

2007-02-01 11:10:39 · 20 answers · asked by Sid B 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-01 11:10:01 · 1 answers · asked by m* 1 in Friends

I have this crush and i dont know how to talk to him in class i just cant im sooo scared I dont want to talk one on one and say hey i just want to chat I cant do it I need help he always looks at me what does that mean HELP

2007-02-01 11:09:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating