My daughter lives with me and rarely sees her dad , she loves him so much and i understand that,and i want her to but he always hurts her so bad , 2 yrs ago at xmas he promised her he had sent her gifts and they would come at the same time her bday present came cause they are so close together (2 weeks dif) she watched the mail for 2 months and nothing came , i asked him about it in private and he told me he couldnt afford it,i told him i understood, but she doesnt so i asked him not to do that
the problem is , this past xmas 1 month ago he done it to her again and she is once again looking for gifts in the mail , he doesnt pay child support and i know how much money he makes , I dont want to hurt her and it bothers her so much if i hurt her dads feelings , and he tells her if i do and then she cries . and i dont know what i should do ,i really dont think he is sending anything this time either . its like hes just trying to appease her and not realizing what its doing to her .
2007-02-01
16:01:35
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chelle
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Marriage & Divorce