This is somewhat confusing to explain. A girl liked me and I liked her.
At first I started to flirt back at her, but then I got scared.
I know her name is Nina, but I asked her if that was her name. I know this is pretty dumb, but I made sure she saw that I was blowing her off by the look on my face. She seemed so upset with me, that I felt really bad for doing that. I tried to get her attention by handing her things and saying nice things to make up for it. We didn't see each other around much afterwards, but the one time we bumped into each other we both found it hard to speak, but neither one of us could keep our eyes off one another. I am finding that I do like her, but I am afraid I have ruined my chances. Do you think she hates me now, and how can I make it up to her enough to convince her that I want to ask her out? Thank you for your thoughtful answers.
2007-02-01 15:54:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I encourage you to go for it!! If she can't keep her eyes off of you then that says it all. She wants you. You have to take chances in life otherwise you'll always be thinking of what could have been instead of what is. You have nothing to loose by pursuing what you want and probably alot to gain. If she's not receptive then move on but at least you gave it a shot. Good luck on your conquest!
2007-02-01 16:12:48 · answer #1 · answered by julianna662001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you probably did blow it, BUT redemption may not be far off. since you did say that both of you could not keep your eyes off of each other. if you know how to get into to contact with her, you may send little tokens of affection like flowers or a medium size teddy bear(it doesn't have to be pricey, just simple and pure)- but send them as a secret admirer, once you have her attention (don't stalk or do to much to freak her out) then send her a nice note along with another token of affection, explaining that she's met you before and that you screwed-up because you were scared (being honest goes a long way) and tell why you were scared, it just may be the sweetest thing she's ever seen or heard and give that second chance your looking for. GOOD LUCK
2007-02-02 00:12:40 · answer #2 · answered by cher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way you can truly find out is if you take a risk. I am taking a risk by going on a date with someone who is known as a "man wh*re", but I am willing to take the risk. I don't want to go through life wondering, "What if?". Do you?
2007-02-01 23:58:33 · answer #3 · answered by bridgetrocks86 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't think that you wrecked ALL of your chances, but i would have to think that you did because you didn't really trust her and asking if her name is really Nina.......yeah, you are gonna have to work REALLY hard if you want her to trust you again and try to go with your heart and gut instinct, not your mind, that will get you in a heap of trouble if you use that a lot.
take care and good luck
2007-02-02 00:03:24 · answer #4 · answered by blaquepanther88 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, clarify and giver her your number...she'll really appreciate that, because most of our interactions with the opposite sex is plain confusing.
From my question that you answered to get him to like me again, do you mean that you'd still like her even if you didn't have a chance to get to know her? It would not have gone away? Or you would not have let her get away....Please respond!
2007-02-02 00:03:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please tell her the truth! Tell her you are very sorry for what you did and let her know that you were scared! If she were me, i would find that charming and i would appreciate your honesty. You have not wrecked your chances, but you will need to apologize for your behavior. Best wishes!
2007-02-02 00:03:49 · answer #6 · answered by fair blue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U didnt wreck ur chances yet! Give her ur number. Tell her to call you. Its easier to talk to ppl when ur not directly in front of them, or just get her e mail address, trust me, It works!
2007-02-01 23:59:40 · answer #7 · answered by G-BOY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a risk and find out.. thats about all you can do in any situation.
2007-02-02 00:03:55 · answer #8 · answered by emtb9 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would sugest you to give her you msn id (if you have one) and then talk to hher
well i fould out the it is easy in cases like this to talk to someone.
and if you dont hesitate, give her a proposal
2007-02-02 00:47:08 · answer #9 · answered by HULK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask and ye shall recieve buddy, take a chance
2007-02-02 00:24:41 · answer #10 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋