my parents told me tonight that i am not allowed to see this boy that i really like. he dropped out of high school and went to juvy, but he has changed, but they dont know that bcuz they refuse to even meet him. they changed my cell phone number so he wouldnt know it. i really dont want to stop talking to him, but they are going to be watching over me like a hawk. i am getting a prepaid cell phone so i can talk to him still, but i dont know how ill be able to see him. any advice???
2007-02-01 15:59:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah, visit him, if you say he really changed the way you said, tell him the story and he will give you the answer inside, people change in one way or the other
2007-02-01 16:06:28 · answer #1 · answered by electricbluerocker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please listen to your parents... PLEASE.
This is a crucial time in your life. If you make a wrong choice now you will pay for a long time, possibly forever.. the slightest wrong move into the wrong crowd can be the first step to really bad things.
Your parents just want whats best for you. if you stop seeing him for a few months, even if just to satisfy your parents, you will see if he has really changed for yourself and also you will know if you were even starting to forget about him... I know it seems hard to think you may forget and move on but trust me you will.
Biggest think to remember is never compensate by using I love him so much as an excuse just coz you feel sorry for him. Does he have family etc... if he does he will be fine, he has support if he doesnt the worst thing you could do is enable him. Dont feel sorry for him, love and sympathy are two different things, You sound like a great girl, tell your mum you taking a break to see if he can prove to you he has changed, if after a few months he has, then GREAT! Everyone wins, if not at least you will know the truth and be happy you didnt make the wrong choice. Step back and look atthis from all angles. If you want a thousand reasons and real life senarios as to why you should listen to your parents, just email me.
Dont go behind ur parents back if they catch you it wil be so much worse. Prove to them you can take their advice onboard and agree with them a lot! But make sure you dont pretend you must actually try things their way and give it time to work out and dont give up at the first sign of trouble. Do as your mum says and see what happens, he will wait if its meant to be.
Good luck
Peace x
2007-02-02 00:13:31 · answer #2 · answered by Kira 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents have your best interested in mind, listen to them! You say he has changed, but has he started going to adult school to get his education? Or has he enrolled in a junior college where he can take classes to finish school, and earn a degree? Is he working? There are so many guys out there who have a goal in life, and are getting their educations so they can have a good future. Find one of those, and let this guy be. Your parents are more experienced in this, and want you to be happy.
2007-02-02 00:07:14 · answer #3 · answered by Proud to be 59 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As much as I regret to say it I agree with The Don above me. Sorry!
2007-02-02 00:05:09 · answer #4 · answered by angleyez_18 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you try to reason with your parents? talk to them and tell them how u feel about this guy. but be sure to listen to your parents and to see it from their point of view also, dont be stubon. one last advice is dont let love blind u, know what i mean?
2007-02-02 00:07:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry. Eventually they will stop being so pretective and it will be easier to sneak talking to him. You can both go to one of your friends house..
2007-02-02 00:04:33 · answer #6 · answered by Je vous aime. ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yea, stop being a dumb little broad and find a dude who got something going for himself.
2007-02-02 00:03:12 · answer #7 · answered by The Don 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋