Family & Relationships - 23 January 2007

I'm currently beginning a very promising and enjoyable career as a legislative assistant and legal attaché in the Institute for Legislative Action [ILA], the legal and political wing of the NRA. I believe that the actions of the NRA/ILA, and to a small degree my personal actions, help to ensure the protection of the Second Amendment Civil Rights of all Americans.

However, I have found that if a girl I am attempting to ask on a date inquires into what I do for a living, and I answer her honestly, she will usually loose interest.

I was wondering if should either continue to be honest and hope to find someone is not bothered by the fact that I fight for the civil rights of all Americans, a strategy which has yet to work, or if I should be less then perfectly honest about my career, possibly mentioning only that I work for a lobbying/legal defense firm, and then reveal the truth after a girl has gotten to know me???

Thank you in advance for any advice.

2007-01-23 06:39:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am turning 30 this year and I am struggling with all the decisions it brings... should I buy a flat, should I travel a bit more...? I have a good job, good family, great boyfriend.... I could get a mortgage and buy a nice flat and become independent for the first time... or I could do a bit of travelling see some of the world before I do it.... Everyone has these life decisions... I just dont know how to approach them?!!!!

2007-01-23 06:39:30 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

theres this guy...lol there is always a guy! hee hee
noo sooo neways basically i have just been reli reli horrible to him and deep down inside i reli like him!! :s he thinks i am evil n sed that he doesnt HATE me but dislikes my "attitude" 2wards him! :s i felt super baaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaad (this was wen i asked him if he hates me in a jokey way!!)
shud i apologise 2him how? and in the process shud i tel him i like him ? :s AAAAAAGggggggggghhhhhhhhhhh!

2007-01-23 06:39:16 · 9 answers · asked by YabbaJabba 3 in Singles & Dating

yes, this is a serious question. i really need some friends, good people to talk to, and if you live close enough, maybe we can hang out. i am a 23 year old black female, and i occassionally sleep with other females, but i wont rule out males

2007-01-23 06:38:59 · 6 answers · asked by psychologistnovelist 2 in Friends

if the girl was on top and her pusssy stanked.........does that mean she was riding dirty lol

2007-01-23 06:38:37 · 8 answers · asked by sexsired 4 in Singles & Dating

And she want to get married. Any advice would help!! I DO love her but I don't know if I can trust her now.

2007-01-23 06:37:03 · 17 answers · asked by mnguy 1 in Singles & Dating

its my 1st valenties day with my boyfriend & i wnt 2 make it really special 4 the both of us. any ideas on what i can do? pls help...thank you x

2007-01-23 06:36:26 · 10 answers · asked by Kerry W 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-23 06:36:19 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband have been arguing about this for about 3 days now .

We are stuck in a bad situation with a choice to make. We are tring to buy a fixer upper. We have already moved in and we are paying rent untill we close. However our loan officer is now telling us that our monthly payment will be $400.00 more than we discussed. We have invested about $4000.00 into the property thus far that we will get back at closing. However we don't think the house is worth the addition money. Here are our choices we can either move say goodbye to our four grand and rent a bigger house in better shape for less or we can stay and pay the extra $400.00 a month. Which would you do?????

2007-01-23 06:36:00 · 11 answers · asked by DEBBY'S BABY 4 in Marriage & Divorce

would you stay married to your second husband (a fruitcake) who is financially stable (married 5 years) so as not to change the standard of living for your children? I ask this because my mom left my dad (financially stable) FOR a bum when i was a kid

2007-01-23 06:35:55 · 7 answers · asked by wonder woman 4 in Marriage & Divorce

i know you are going to say, if they don't like you their not your friends, but please don't say that.
they are so nice to me somedays but then other times its like they never invite me to go anywhere with them and it bugs me. grrrrrrrr

2007-01-23 06:35:26 · 36 answers · asked by kk~jones 2 in Friends

2007-01-23 06:35:16 · 9 answers · asked by hcgirl88 2 in Singles & Dating

YOU HAVE..!!!!!!!!!
OMG you perv...........what did it feel like?

2007-01-23 06:35:00 · 4 answers · asked by qwerty 3 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend cheated on me and now she is pregnant by the guy she cheated with. Thank God she told me she didn't believe in pre-martial sex. Now her baby daddy keeps trying to start **** with me. He says things about my ex to make me feel jelous but I really don't care. I just want him to leave me alone. I'm through with her. I never did anything to him and don't know why he is doing this. I have found somebody else that I really like, but I'm afraid that all this drama will have an affect on are relationship. I want to fight him, but I'm just trying to be the bigger man and walk away. But I'm starting to loose my cool. What should I do?

2007-01-23 06:34:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anthony T 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm being alienated because everyone i know drinks, and i dont really feel like being the dd every weekend. do you know what i can do to hang out with people who dont drink or do drugs or possibly some cool activities to do that dont involve getting hammered that arent expensive.

2007-01-23 06:34:14 · 17 answers · asked by Phil Magroin 2 in Friends

and the hand is heald side ways

2007-01-23 06:32:47 · 5 answers · asked by scholaryoshi 4 in Friends

i am a virgin but today i got out of school early and this fine boi was over my way and my mother was at work and i invited him in and we talked and since i didnt want to have sex i jacked him off is that bad do u think that was good enough of me to do?

2007-01-23 06:32:11 · 18 answers · asked by sheniqua c 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi,
Im new here but i have a big problem. Last night, I committed the biggest mistake of my life. Me and my brother-in-law were on a trekking trip, and we ended up having sex. He came onto me, and i also have always been attracted to him. Well, i got up today and felt really awful and decided i wanted to come back home. I walked up to the main road and took a bus home alone. Im sitting here right now, I dont know what to do. He Keeps calling me on my cell but im not picking up. Help!!!!!

2007-01-23 06:31:38 · 41 answers · asked by Ryan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My friend really believes in pleasing me sexually. And I know this is suppose to be a good thing. He always tells me during intercourse that he wants to make sure im satisfied. But sometimes i have to just tell him to cumm and even then thats another 30 minutes. Last night we went at it for 2hours with no breaks and im sore and tired as h***. And that was just the middle of the night intercouse. We also had intercourse before we went to bed. He really cares about me & I the same but he is wearing me out. The only good thing about this is hes 3 hours away from where I stay. So I don't have to deal with this everynight. But it may be a problem in the long run. The last time I mentioned it he said well thats what ya'll want is for the man to go a little longer & I just shut up after that. And I know for a fact that hes not taking anything to go longer. What should I do or say to make him calm down? He has energy that is out of this world & im actully at that age where Im suppose to luv it

2007-01-23 06:31:29 · 11 answers · asked by Diamondbch 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm 27 years old. I have been in a wonderful relationship for 5 years & my boyfriend and I have been good friends since we were 12. We have two children ages 3 & 2. We have a nice home, financial security, an education, etc. But my question is this ... Why is it so important that we get married? We are very happy with how our relationship is. Why are we experiencing so much pressure from our families to get married? A piece of paper isn't going to change our relationship. My sister was married & a year later it didn't work, so now there is a nasty "costly" divorce on her hands. Why bother? This is a modern world, & we are a progressive open-minded family. Many kids are raised by single parents because of divorce, or whatever ... I don't believe those individuals are constantly scrutinized like we are. We're good parents & we're committed to one another. Our kids our insured, they have a college fund, we have a will ... why are we dealing with so much pressure?

2007-01-23 06:31:24 · 11 answers · asked by Kelli McCoy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

ok like when a guy's standing really close to the girl on purpose like leaning and hovering on her like his knee is touching her butt what's he thinking?and if the girl likes it what would be her reaction?if she doesn't what will her reaction be????

2007-01-23 06:31:00 · 15 answers · asked by djat20 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-23 06:30:25 · 4 answers · asked by jake s 1 in Singles & Dating

Of course i am speaking from experience!

2007-01-23 06:30:22 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me just asking cause I'm bored.

Use to work in Target tho.

Do you like ur job and what do you don't like about ur job. Add more if u like.

2007-01-23 06:30:15 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

who will you be mad at

2007-01-23 06:29:39 · 21 answers · asked by creamy k 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok this might seem a little wierd but, I'm looking for somebody who might know this person or have some sort of idea of how to find him, and get back in touch. The deal is he's my husband, we we're only together 5wks when we got married ( CRAZY) I know, but thats what I'm dealing with now. We seperated approx 6mo ago, and now he is no where to be found, he's no longer in the home we lived in, his mother and him don't have that great of a realtionship, so she's saying she has no idea, none of his friends know where he is, in fact he burned alot of bridges when we split and is no longer friends with anybody that was around when we were together. SOOOOOOOOOOOO if anybody knows anything about, or how to reach Robert I Fink 36yrs old from the Stockton, Modesto, Manteca, California areas will you PLEASE get back to me ASAP.
Robert I Fink 36yrs Or his 1st exwife Tina Fink, of Chowchilla Ca

2007-01-23 06:29:00 · 9 answers · asked by D lux 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ive know this girl since the start of this year 12 at sixth form (im 16) and its she is the perfect woman shes so kind and easy to talk to (not that we talk much) Anyway shes got a boyfriend in the year above and i feel like i can't live without her.

What should i do?

2007-01-23 06:28:53 · 7 answers · asked by Topgear is my life! TG 2 in Friends

i was married before and i have a 4 year old girl.since we started he is been so nice with me and the baby, my family loves him but some of the menbers of his family(dad and 2 brothers) dont want him to be with me some of them like me (mom 2 brothers).which does not bother him at all.i love him very much.

2007-01-23 06:28:41 · 7 answers · asked by sara 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

why are there so many Unfaithful spouses? This is really bugging me. why can't the two parties sit down and TRY to work it out with each other? How can the cheater find it easier to tell their problems to the "the person" and not their spouses. I just don't understand.

2007-01-23 06:28:23 · 15 answers · asked by Harmony 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-23 06:27:58 · 17 answers · asked by Janice M 2 in Other - Family & Relationships