My girlfriend cheated on me and now she is pregnant by the guy she cheated with. Thank God she told me she didn't believe in pre-martial sex. Now her baby daddy keeps trying to start **** with me. He says things about my ex to make me feel jelous but I really don't care. I just want him to leave me alone. I'm through with her. I never did anything to him and don't know why he is doing this. I have found somebody else that I really like, but I'm afraid that all this drama will have an affect on are relationship. I want to fight him, but I'm just trying to be the bigger man and walk away. But I'm starting to loose my cool. What should I do?
2007-01-23 06:34:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anthony T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Tell him he can have sloppy seconds, and ask him how your d.i.c.k. smells. Because you know they have kissed and she has sucked you.....
2007-01-23 06:39:42 · answer #1 · answered by remailer000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like maybe he is starting on you because something she has said to her new boyfriend. Its a tough situation to be in but if the baby's not yours and she is with the guy then I cannnot understand the need to start on you. She has a new life and so do you. Stay real to yourself don't fight and continue to walk away as this makes you the bigger man and your new girlfriend will see and recognise that it is not you causing the problems. If you continue to walk away her boyfriend will get bored as he is getting no reaction and leave you be. The more you react the more he'll cause problems. At the end of the day your ex and her boyfriend should be concentrating on the baby and their life rather than trying to interfer with yours. If it continues and he is abusive or violent to you then get an injunction against them, this will avoid those situation where your likely to hit him and allow space for this all to calm down. Its not worth fighting doesn't resolve anything other than a criminal record, both parties getting hurt and you could lose your girl, not really worth it. Hope all gets sorted.
2007-01-23 06:56:00 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him... Obviously this pratt of a guy is crazy jealous! He has so many anxieties because he knows everything your ex did behind your back and all he lies she told and he's worried that she could be doing or will do exactly the same again to him! He's a fool, and because she's pregnant he's finding that he's now stuck for life with someone he doesn't trust and was only probably meant to be a fling! Think about it, and don't let it ruin what you may have with someone else xx
2007-01-23 06:53:15 · answer #3 · answered by lou lou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sound like you make him feel insecure and that is why he is doing it. Carry on being the bigger man it's getting to him more than having a fight with him will. If it didn't get to him he would just leave you alone. You are already winning you need do nothing.
2007-01-23 07:33:25 · answer #4 · answered by itgirl23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You really don't want to pick a fight with this guy. If you want to be the bigger man then just continue what you're doing. If you're really tired of this guy making cracks at you tell him that he really shouldn't be fussing over him and remind him that he's the one who's got the girlfriend that expecting a baby in a few months. If he's got any sense at all he'll drop it. Good luck.
2007-01-23 06:41:18 · answer #5 · answered by Cyborg Farmer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like you said, be the bigger man and walk away. Stay out of their drama. Yea, it's frustrating, but it'll be more frustrating if you do fight him, and he ends up pressing charges, yadda yadda yadda. Neither of them are worth it. Be up front with your new girl, she needs and deserves to know what's going on.
2007-01-23 06:41:05 · answer #6 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with kevin, but I find a good crack square on the jaw puts them out for the count, sod being the bigger man, he needs sorting out.
2007-01-23 07:19:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He obviously feels threatened by you and inadequate in himself. Punch the idiot HARD on the nose and then walk away. I guarantee you he will leave you alone then.
2007-01-23 06:56:46 · answer #8 · answered by Kevin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus keep your kool i know it is hard they are just jelous of you and what you have with this new girl.
If he does try it on and he starts it first hit him i know it aint the answer but sometimes it works.
2007-01-23 06:51:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Walk away & try to avoid him.He sounds like a nutter.
2007-01-23 06:46:14 · answer #10 · answered by Ollie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply smile say I hope your both happy, if he carries on say "that's very nice, I hope you both happy". and carry on "I don't care, but it must be very nice for you, I hope you both happy."
You must say cool, while saying these thing think how you've dodged a bullet and how he has tied himself down to her forever. Now laugh, laugh like you have a life and he won't!! HAHAHAHA
2007-01-23 06:56:30 · answer #11 · answered by Char Black 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋