i am a virgin but today i got out of school early and this fine boi was over my way and my mother was at work and i invited him in and we talked and since i didnt want to have sex i jacked him off is that bad do u think that was good enough of me to do?
2007-01-23 06:32:11 · 18 answers · asked by sheniqua c 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So you will "jack a boy off"....and what do you get out of it? He will go to school the next day and tell EVERYONE of what you did and then he will add more to the story...so really, what do you get out of it? Ask him for some money!
2007-01-23 06:37:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
Some will argue but I can't see much wrong with jacking a boy off. If I had a daughter, I would much rather she be doing that than having sexual intercourse in this day and age...ANY day and age actually since pregnancy has always been a worry. I don't see much wrong with mutual masturbation (masturbating each other) either. You are wise not to want to go any further until you are ready and I think you have a lucky boyfriend. Yeah that was good enough of you to do it!
2007-01-24 07:44:55 · answer #2 · answered by doctor feelgood 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chances are that he is going to go to school tomorrow and blab to all his friends and tell them what you did.
DON'T DO IT AGAIN - unless you are in a caring, committed relationship with the young man.
You will end up with a really bad reputation if you continue.
Just because you "didn't want to have sex" does not mean that you have to do something else instead. You should have said something like "I'm not interested in having sex with you at all until you and I get to know each other much better and that includes sexual activity of any kind, other than kissing"
At least, if he was interested in your personality he would still be interested in you, as it is now you will never know if he is actually interested in you and likes you or, he just likes what you will do for him sexual.
Learn from this experience.
2007-01-23 06:56:25 · answer #3 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its the best next thing and a good alternative if you don't want to have sex, you shouldn't have sex that young cause it messes your mind up if you are not trully ready. you guys had your fun, i mean, it is fun to watch a guy come, you know, but if you feel guilty or bad in any way then you weren't even ready for that. so it all depends on how you feel, if you feel good about it, then just take it as a fun experience, and that was that. but if you are doubting or anything like that, then maybe you should take it easy, take your time, and don't hurry to anything that you are not ready for.
2007-01-23 06:37:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did fine. Good job!
2007-01-23 07:28:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it makes sence. not ready for sex but u did that, it is ok. one step at a time.
2007-01-23 06:38:27 · answer #6 · answered by some_guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's better than having sex, you can't get pregnant doing that, and I'm sure he was completely satisfied, just don't get caught.
2007-01-23 06:37:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
God yes its ok. Thats one lucky fella.
2007-01-23 06:50:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what your needs are?
if you/he are above 18, then its fine.
2007-01-23 06:38:00 · answer #9 · answered by sanjay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with it as long as u arent at skool like i was cuz i got suspeneded!!!
2007-01-23 06:36:22 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋