My friend really believes in pleasing me sexually. And I know this is suppose to be a good thing. He always tells me during intercourse that he wants to make sure im satisfied. But sometimes i have to just tell him to cumm and even then thats another 30 minutes. Last night we went at it for 2hours with no breaks and im sore and tired as h***. And that was just the middle of the night intercouse. We also had intercourse before we went to bed. He really cares about me & I the same but he is wearing me out. The only good thing about this is hes 3 hours away from where I stay. So I don't have to deal with this everynight. But it may be a problem in the long run. The last time I mentioned it he said well thats what ya'll want is for the man to go a little longer & I just shut up after that. And I know for a fact that hes not taking anything to go longer. What should I do or say to make him calm down? He has energy that is out of this world & im actully at that age where Im suppose to luv it
2007-01-23 06:31:29 · 11 answers · asked by Diamondbch 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What you need to do is find out what really does it for him, be it oral or somehting else. Sometimes all it takes is to talk dirty to him. Try to get him off as soon as you can. This will make it easier for you.
Every guy has a switch. You just need to find that switch!
2007-01-23 06:36:46 · answer #1 · answered by K B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mr. Knowitall really does know it all; start getting all hot and bothered and loud--like a pornstar (you know-FAKE IT) if you want him off that bad-then that's what you have to do damn it---make it NOT take that long for you after all.....and maybe it will take less time for him----practically guaranteed...
2007-01-23 14:39:24 · answer #2 · answered by Virgo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girllll... thats like a really good problem... haha... but anyway... try talking to him again... who knows... maybe he's feeling obliged to satisfy you... tell him.. it is not the amount of time that is worth... but the quality... i mean after a while of playing around if you feel oblige to keep going... thats sorta like pity sex.. you know what i mean... sooo just talk to him... and make sure to compliment him... i mean... since hes all worried about your satisfaction..
2007-01-23 14:39:33 · answer #3 · answered by Aundrea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like someone got the milk and you getting the bone and one may want to check it out.
2007-01-23 14:40:05 · answer #4 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woman up and be real. Just tell the dude that his way isn't working for you.
2007-01-23 14:38:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk dirty to him and find out what puts him over the top. Then while he is working it talk him over the edge.
2007-01-23 14:35:56 · answer #6 · answered by Mr. Knowitall 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
And this is a problem? Consider yourself fortunate.
2007-01-23 14:36:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well i think yall should stop because yall are not married butthat is not my bussines but if it really bother you then you should tell him that he is going to long and that you are getting tired
2007-01-23 14:37:23 · answer #8 · answered by Brandi S 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just say no! tell him to stop when you sart hurting, and jerk him off or something.
2007-01-23 14:35:36 · answer #9 · answered by kinky toes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
send him my way!
2007-01-23 14:36:31 · answer #10 · answered by Kutekymmee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋