Family & Relationships - 14 January 2007

I work sometimes 16 -18 hrs daily in order to pay off for a major investment . this may last only for another yr. My wife who does not work, claims that I do not take her out,shehas 3 children ages 13,10 & 6 , she threw my personal belongings. out side and refused me entry into the house. I called the Police and removed.
She now sue for divorce. How much do I have to give her and do I have to maintain her. I will maintain my children.She is never satisfied with whatever I do for her. She quarrels non stop when I am home, does so more when her relatives are around,some times I feel helpless. i m highly qualified in my field and have alot of mental pressure from my work. I work hard because I want my self and family to live happy and independent as a result of my efforts that i make now. Please help I am confused. Sometimes I feel like surrendering the project and go work for a salary. I give her every single cent I work for. She demands the little drawbacks iget sometimes.

2007-01-14 10:42:13 · 4 answers · asked by tiger 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have been seeing this guy for the past 2 months. We get along so well. Everything about him is wonderful! However, i just moved away and don't plan on returning back to the city for another 7 months or so. I am really concerned these feelings are going to dwindle and what we had will be forgotten. We have already met up for a night since I have moved and plan on meeting again in two weeks. Am i crazy to think that he will wait for me? I feel like I am going nuts constantly wondering/ hoping this will work out when I move back. (The reason we aren't committed is because he has a serious family illness to deal with and of course the obvious distance factor. ) Ahhh any advice? What are the chances we will work, honestly? He's such a great guy and I'm really scared this might be it. Am I thinking the worst? Do you think things will really change???

2007-01-14 10:41:58 · 12 answers · asked by mambo209 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been seperated 14yrs and have two grown up children from my marrage. A girl i was seeing decided to get pregnant and had the child over a year ago. I'm paying maintenance to both houses since. Not much left for socialising. I'm not involved with the woman who had the baby and don't want to be though i do see the child. Have i too much baggage for a new woman

2007-01-14 10:41:55 · 23 answers · asked by justinoc1 1 in Singles & Dating

how would you ask a girl dat you like to do something without showin that you want a relationship with her but to get to know her better, and dat you already asked out but said she isnt ready for a boyfriend, and likes you

2007-01-14 10:41:50 · 4 answers · asked by drzstuntman_2 2 in Singles & Dating

Does that mean that abusive, unfaithful, lazy men are exciting?

2007-01-14 10:41:04 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-14 10:41:00 · 6 answers · asked by jamie p 1 in Family

i did.it hurt so bad i cried.

2007-01-14 10:40:56 · 13 answers · asked by Super K.O. 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-14 10:40:22 · 11 answers · asked by Miss Data 2 in Singles & Dating

I used to date this one guy and he was really into me but i broke up with him and he wants to go back out with me and i still kinda love him...what should i say?

2007-01-14 10:38:36 · 28 answers · asked by 1 confused chick 2 in Singles & Dating

I am looking for an old friend. We lost touch a few years ago and I would like to get in touch with her. The info that I know of her is that she lived in Litchfield MI and moved to Ft Polk LA with her army husband. When they left there they moved to the Seattle area. The last I heard, she left her husband and moved back to the Litchfield area again. This was in the spring of 2003. Any info would be greatly appreciated.

2007-01-14 10:38:19 · 3 answers · asked by storm_mitch 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well this boy that i have known for a while just recently told me that he likes me..but he has a girlfriend..and we hung out over summer everyday until his girlfriend came along..and last week was when he told me he liked me and he regrets asking his girlfriend out! What should i do?? I am 16 and he is 20...BoYs CaN'T LiVe WiTh ThEm CaNt LiVe WiThOuT tHeM =]

2007-01-14 10:38:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like 3 years apart

2007-01-14 10:38:11 · 7 answers · asked by lover 2 in Singles & Dating

I think I'm going to leave my boyfriend. I have a feeling that he is cheating on me and I promised myself that if things started to get bad in a relationship, I'd break it off before things got any worse (like my last one). I've already tried talking about the situation with him, but it's not working because we have a huge language barrier, so when he doesn't wanna talk about something he pretends like he doesn't understand. I'm not going to be treated like this again, I'd rather just end it.

Now how should I go about doing so? I don't want there to be a huge scene and fight. Should I be honest and tell him the real reason I'm breaking up with him, or should I just tell him that it's too difficult to carry on a relationship at this point in my life?

2007-01-14 10:38:05 · 9 answers · asked by Me 5 in Singles & Dating

Me and my fiance are wanting to get married on the beach I am wearing my wedding dress and going barefoot. Our children are wearing little dresses and going barefoot as well. The problem is I don't know what to get my fiance to wear. I am wanting professional looking pics so I want him to look nice. Any suggestions? We will be getting married in June

2007-01-14 10:37:43 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

A friend of mine (she's female and I am a man) wants to leave her abusive husband, but she keeps crying that she doesn't think another man will ever want her again and she will die lonely...she's mid-40's and a little overweight, but nothing serious!
How do I make her feel confident and pretty enough so that she can make her decision honestly....without actually me hitting on a married woman?

2007-01-14 10:37:10 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Question is it ok if the bride changes out of the gown during the reception. I've never been one to stay dressy tooo long! Is it ok to change after the dance, into something still nice and dressy but pants.

2007-01-14 10:37:05 · 15 answers · asked by pecarican 3 in Weddings

me and my ex just broke up two days ago

2007-01-14 10:36:54 · 24 answers · asked by Mandy 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a health, clean and discrete mature male. I just want to have good adult fun with a like minded female. How come they seem to be in such short supply. I can understand the need for care and caution in this day and age, but come on some of us guys are genuine. Is there any female out there gagging for it?

2007-01-14 10:36:09 · 45 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i had a fight with a girl...who do you think should make the first move ...me or she?
it was her fault for sure...
if she is my gf and yes and no...its a bit weird!
we havent speak for 4 days

2007-01-14 10:36:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was on my date with my boyfriend and I was about to tell him that I love him, but when I said love, I burped it out. OMG I was so embarrassed, this is so uncool.!!! Help me get through this moment please!!!

2007-01-14 10:35:58 · 12 answers · asked by Michelle Magen 1 in Singles & Dating

he knows my name and what i look like and i know the same as for him. so would anyone ever go out with someone they didnt really know that well?

2007-01-14 10:35:39 · 7 answers · asked by Elizabeth 3 in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing all of this information on "honeymoon registries." People are choosing to have their honeymoon as one of their registries, along with the normal "stuff we need" registries. Would you help a couple out on this type of registry? Also, if you have used one, how did it work for you?

2007-01-14 10:35:28 · 14 answers · asked by Esma 6 in Weddings

If you're married and the man you are with says he can't have sex because there are no sexual emotions there from a mans point of view what does that mean? If he's in his late 40's and able to have sex and your married and says he loves me wouldn't he want sex? Even if there are things that are stressing him out? For men isn't sex a stress release sometimes? How do I keep from wanting my husband when he doesn't want to have sex with me? Doesn't masterbation ruin the sexual build-up and anticipation for that special moment? For me every time he touches me I get turned on and now he doesn't want sex I just get more and more frustrated whenever he touches me. I don't want him to stop touching me because I love him but I don't want to be frustrated either. What should I do?

2007-01-14 10:35:21 · 24 answers · asked by momtilludrop 2 in Singles & Dating

This guy i like, & have known for about a year, has a g/f, but he has told me straight up that he likes me a lot & is attracted to me. His g/f lives 3 hours away. i haven't done anything wrong- no kissing, no hugging, NOTHING. Since i hang out with him frequently & enjoy spending time with him, i can see that he cares for me. Anyway-- i went and saw him at his work the other day, & as i was leaving, he asked me what i was doing that night. i told him i didn't know. Later, he called me & told me that his g/f was coming in to town, but he wanted me to come & hang out if i wanted to. i told him it would be awkward, but he insisted i come. so i stopped in for about 15 mins (there was a group of people there, not just us 3). When i left, he texted me & said that he wished i would have stayed longer & that i looked absolutely beautiful. i didn't respond, & i havent answered his phone calls all weekend. his g/f is in town til tom. why did he want us both in the same place at the same time?

2007-01-14 10:34:31 · 7 answers · asked by jvcheerio 1 in Singles & Dating

Hes cute and I'm not in my opinion.I'm scared that he wont like me back if I tell him.Hes My first crush,and I dont know how to tell him I like him.My friends said to go for it but I cant do it.Hes 2 years older than me (until march 5).So what sould I do????

2007-01-14 10:34:20 · 4 answers · asked by lonely girl 1 in Singles & Dating

We have all heard guys say I like you, I love you, you're great, but they refuse to commit.Yes we know in some situations it game, but sometimes it really isn't. Whats their problem?

2007-01-14 10:34:00 · 15 answers · asked by ya girl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Im a guy and i need to know

2007-01-14 10:33:51 · 3 answers · asked by Studd69 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 10:33:46 · 6 answers · asked by Compton,CA 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-14 10:33:45 · 10 answers · asked by Mandy 1 in Singles & Dating

He is a sick Tunisian Arab North African Bastard who got his girlfriend of five years pregnant twice! Last year he made her get an abortion and this year knowing that she is pregnant again with second child, he changed his attitude once he found out that she was pregnant again. Than he promised to marry her in 4 months, legally, because they were married through the religious islamic way (which is Bull-****) and they were engaged. However; 4 months came by and he disappeared to his country Tunis for a whole month, but called her from the airport to say goodbye see ya when I see you. As devastated as she was she remained strong for the baby's sake but cried every night and day for 8 weeks and is still crying. Why is she crying? because through investigation, she learned for sure that he is married - he was engaged for a whole year and went back to marry the whore who is after him for his money and for the dream life she thinks she's going to have in America, NEVER!!! He is a terrrorist

2007-01-14 10:33:37 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce