I used to date this one guy and he was really into me but i broke up with him and he wants to go back out with me and i still kinda love him...what should i say?
2007-01-14 10:38:36 · 28 answers · asked by 1 confused chick 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I noticed that you said you "kinda" still love him. You either love him or you don't. It's just as simple as that. There is also the issue of WHY you broke up with him in the first place. If it was that he "dis-honered" you by cheating on you, or was abusive in one way or another...chuck this old relationship into the burn pile. There is a reason you broke up with him. Really weigh the pros and cons in that relationship you had with him. Because you seem to have some reservations about dating him again, makes me think that there are some old hurts that are still there pertaining to your relationship with him in the past.
Lemme guess...you just broke up with another boyfriend, or he broke up with you. You are lonely, and remember the "good (or not so good) old times" with someone else. That is not a good reason to open up old wounds for him or for yourself. It's hard for a lot of folks, men and women, to be "single" and having to deal with life alone. don't let this be the only reason you want to start over with this guy. Really do some soul searching. If you can say imphatically "I STILL LOVE HIM" then by all means, give it another try. But judging by how you worded your question, gives me the impression that it's a dead horse.
Hope this helps
2007-01-14 10:52:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i've been through this.just remember and ask your self why you broke up with him in the first place.was it something that really upset you or was it something silly.is it something you can deal with again.ask yourself these questions first because you dont want to start dating him again and just end up breaking up with him over the same problems you might of had with him before.make sure this man is a guy that you know you will be happy with and that he loves you just the same as you love him.remember guys will say anything so be careful and fallow your heart and listen to your instincts.best of luck to you :)
2007-01-14 11:00:38 · answer #2 · answered by pippy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the reason you broke up with him was not his fault then maybe you should go back out with him. If he cheated on you then no, but you said he was really into you so I guess he didn't cheat. You say you knida love him. You either do or you don't. You need to figure it out, unless you already know.
2007-01-14 10:45:45 · answer #3 · answered by Kreutzer 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl go for it! If you still have feelings for him it shouldn't hurt one bit. Not to many boys want to date females that broke up with them, so look at it as a second chance to do right. Get that man, girl!
2007-01-14 10:46:52 · answer #4 · answered by Mesha 3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why did you two break up in the first place? If you still love him and he didn't do anything like abuse you or cheated on you or stole from you, then I think that you should really consider going back to him. But if he did anything like what I said or worse, then no.
2007-01-14 10:46:26 · answer #5 · answered by Britney 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well first of all why did you break up with him? take the reason into consideration then decide. no matter what anyone says to you the choice is yours and yours alone. if you 2 broke up over something silly then i don't see why you shouldn't but if he cheated or whatever then i'd keep him an ex.
2007-01-14 10:42:48 · answer #6 · answered by angel h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about yes if you still like him. Also depends why you broke it off with him. Did the problem get fixed or was it over something stupid?
2007-01-14 10:42:16 · answer #7 · answered by nay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remind yourself of why you ended the relationship in the first place. If you still want to be with him after that, then go for it. Only you can decide.
2007-01-14 10:49:24 · answer #8 · answered by fickle™ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that all kinda depends on the reason u broke up in the first place.if you really still love him,give it another chance,I believe everyone deserves a second chance but that's just me.
2007-01-14 10:43:30 · answer #9 · answered by Afiya 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on why you broke up. if u can resolve your differences and look at your problems as things you learned from as opposed to things to argue about, than yes. you really have to figure out what it is you want and you guys have to be completely honest with one another. the ball's in your court
2007-01-14 11:16:47 · answer #10 · answered by Need Answers 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋