We have all heard guys say I like you, I love you, you're great, but they refuse to commit.Yes we know in some situations it game, but sometimes it really isn't. Whats their problem?
2007-01-14 10:34:00 · 15 answers · asked by ya girl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
They are afraid.
2007-01-14 10:36:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quite a sexist question. Men get married every day. Men are involved with their children, and love and support their wives. Certainly, some men are low life scum, but that isn't a condition reserved only for the males of our species. Perhaps, for some reason, it's just that the men you've been involved with are poor examples of men. But, that begs the question- Why are you getting involved with men that don't want commitment? Are you attracted to "bad boys", or "pretty boys", or just guys that like to party? Usually, women that complain about guys not wanting to commit, are the same women that pick guys that aren't likely to commit.
2007-01-14 11:24:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are afraid of vicious women who use men. Women who love nothing more than to suck all the money they can out of a man and give little or nothing in return. They don't commit because they see something that could be a potential problem for them. I would rather have someone who is choosey rather than someone who isn't. I've seen more of my friends be those vicious women than not.
2007-01-14 10:38:51 · answer #3 · answered by J Somethingorother 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are afraid. Its like the last day of school when your a senior, you dont want to go out into that big world. Your afraid. Its just like that with this. Guys dont want to give up that all stuff before commiting.
2007-01-14 10:41:30 · answer #4 · answered by Kyle A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The same things that stops women from committing. (Yes, you gals do it too...)
They are afraid they might 'miss out' on other opportunities (ie, other partners). They worry that it may be the end of their social lives and that they'll have to stop hanging out with their friends. In their head, they see it a HUGE change in their lifestyle, and humans don't always deal with change well.
2007-01-14 10:49:43 · answer #5 · answered by keltarr 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your not the one for him or he would commit or he's playing you anyway.It's time to check him out.Tell him your just not satisfied with the relation you have and tell him you want to date other men.If he loves you he will commit,if not you don't need him.There's a world of men out there and ones yours.
2007-01-14 10:46:46 · answer #6 · answered by cactusjoe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some wanna play the field, some don't wanna commit, some are just plain scared of a relationship failure.
2007-01-14 10:38:18 · answer #7 · answered by Mary O 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its the change women like to take a man and make him what she wants its not good enough to have the guy you fell in love with you try to change him to make him (better).
2007-01-14 10:39:33 · answer #8 · answered by taylor2459 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some men are afraid if they commit, they will have a lot of resposibility. a lot of men are not ready for that
2007-01-14 10:41:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
the head that they have in their pants has a mind of its own and its telling the brain not to commit.
2007-01-14 10:37:30 · answer #10 · answered by Dory Ian 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Fear of the unknown... unknown opportunities that might present themselves in the future.
2007-01-14 11:15:31 · answer #11 · answered by dai_nite 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋