Family & Relationships - 13 January 2007

Hi,

I am 14 years old and have a problem. I have alot of friends who are males, but not to many that are females. I think that i am shy around girls in some way. That makes me say things that are....artificial. Like when i am with guys i am funny, and i have a good time. But when girls are there, i am mellow, laid back and think to much. I say things that i think about befor, wich is artificial i think. I want to be able to feel just as comfortable with girls as with boys. For another example, i get this feeling when i wrestle, everyone is watching and i am up, 1 on 1 againtst this other guy, i lose in front of everyone. Then when i challenged him at the practice room, i won. Like i said i think to much. Any suggestions?

2007-01-13 17:13:28 · 2 answers · asked by Bsilvs 1 in Friends

dating him again to find out after all the talking and spending time together he's still lying and messing around but you love him so much it really hurts to let go. We've got passed alot of things but now my kids are telling me along with their girlfriends that he's seeing other women and their saying that he's their boyfriend. And i don't usually put up with crap like this but i've loved him for a long time and it's really hard to just walk away. But he was there when my kids were very small and now he's dating girls their age. He's in his early 30's and the girls are 17-19. I'm so hurt now i don't know what to do and i know that i need to just dump him but how do you get over someone that you have deep emotional ties to. I really don't want to depend on medicine to get me through life but i am so depressed until i feel like that's what i need to do just to keep myself together and i've answered plenty questions like this but now i really don't have the answer for myself. Please help

2007-01-13 17:12:22 · 9 answers · asked by 2sweet4u 4 in Singles & Dating

ok my boyfriend is not answering his e-mails or his phone. i really want to talk to him. how can i get him to answer me. i really really want to talk to him please help me. im starting to worry about him now. any ideas on how i can talk to him. thank you all so very much.

2007-01-13 17:11:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok my best friend for 1 year is kianna. ive been thinking really mean things about her and i feel so cruel inside. the story is: i made friends with kianna (kia) early in 2006 when i started high school. we were good friends but had little in common. i was new in the school and we were both loners and hung in the library everyday for a couple months. i made new friends with this girl called meghan (meg) in my drama class and i made friends with her best friend, emma. emma, meg and kia are in the same class and meg and emma really dont like kia. i started hanging out with meg and emma because (im a bit overweigh) they were funny, made me feel confident and were really great friends. i started to ditch kia, i kno it was mean. and because emma and meg dont like kia, we were telling secrets (mean things) about her and laughed about her (she is very overweight) and i kno it was wrong but i was under pressuer. they were my only cool friends and i sisnt want to lose them (STORY CONTINUES)

2007-01-13 17:11:56 · 11 answers · asked by Alana 1 in Friends

2007-01-13 17:11:50 · 9 answers · asked by Rachel Lee 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-13 17:10:09 · 7 answers · asked by kaysar_alayadi 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-13 17:10:00 · 4 answers · asked by perplebunny 2 in Singles & Dating

MY friend and I have tried alot of stuff. I talked to my mom about smoking and she admmited she does it but yet she still hides it from me!!! WHY?????????
I've tried talking but she just says that She'll quit but doesnt do it. PLEASE
anyone have ANY IDEAS. I KNOW THIS CAN CHANGE HER LIFE. thanks

2007-01-13 17:09:42 · 2 answers · asked by Marley 1 in Family

We don't argue or fight and get along, but there is no fun between us at all - both in the bed and in general. I still see the person in her that I married, but I feel that what I want has changed. What to do?

2007-01-13 17:09:40 · 16 answers · asked by redwhiskers_67 1 in Marriage & Divorce

got to know...

2007-01-13 17:09:23 · 10 answers · asked by hil 2 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriends sister is a b**ch. She has done several messed up things to me. Ive gotten in a fist fight with her a couple times, but that didnt make the family too happy. Today, she called (remember, shes crazy) she asked for her father, i said "he's not home right now." and she yells like a freakin beast, "F*#$ YOU!!!!" and hangs up, then she comes over crying, and i stare her down like shes crazy. what can i do to get back at her without her family looking at me like im a bit*&?

2007-01-13 17:09:18 · 8 answers · asked by atlantasedeno 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

would the chicks dig me?

2007-01-13 17:06:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If youre a hotaling please provide me with as much family history as possible, and who knows maybe were realted!

2007-01-13 17:06:50 · 1 answers · asked by Paul H 3 in Family

If you do not...run and hide if he comes up to you in a bar.
If you do write your story here...I know you have one if you know him.

2007-01-13 17:06:39 · 3 answers · asked by jeeccentricx2 5 in Friends

her achieve an orgasem because I 'am simply to small for her any ideas seriously.

2007-01-13 17:06:37 · 21 answers · asked by baljit2005masterblaster 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-13 17:06:23 · 6 answers · asked by Julie32 1 in Singles & Dating

He's "broken up" with me 3 times in the past 4 years we've been dating. The last time was this past week, and I told him it was over, but he begged me not to and said we could go to counseling to work things out. So I decided to take him back.
Now I don't feel like I'm really in love with him... I suspect that I no longer can trust him to NOT leave me because he's done is numerous times, so if I'm not in love with him and he leaves me again, I won't be upset. It's so strange because when we broke up I was thinking about how much I loved him and I didn't know how I'd go on without him.. now it's like I've gotten over him even though we're dating. Anyone felt like this before? How do I know if I am truly in love with him or if I'm pushing those feelings away just to save myself from future pain?

2007-01-13 17:04:30 · 10 answers · asked by Idaho 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey everybody you still know Justin is high...please make him feel at home by awnsering this lame question...

2007-01-13 17:04:16 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend came to stay at my house for a visit for a few weeks and we were really excited and so was she. But when she arrived the first few days were fine but then she started to complain about everything including why would I want to be in a committed relationship to the colour of sand at the beach, it wasnt the same colour as in her state. Then she just stopped talking to me and my b-friend and that really pissed us off, cause we would come home from work and she would just go into her room and shut the door, anyway this lasted for a few days and everytime I asked her what was wrong she would say nothing that was just how she was. In the end we had had enough and I comfronted her again and she turned around and said "thats who I am if you don't like too bad", so I turned around and told well she can leave then!
She looked horrified but didn't care cause she left leaving stuff i had bought for her behind. We had been pals 4 nearly 10 years. What do you think was her problem.

2007-01-13 17:03:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

But this girl I like does what should I do

2007-01-13 17:02:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am totally in love with this guy, but he is from a different state. I plan to go visit him in a few months, when I get the money, but he'll probably be coming to my state in the next 2 cause he has a friend whose dad lives here.
He's a city boy, coming from Cali but now living in suburban Colorado. I'm a country tomboy turned Southern Belle from the backwoods of East Texas. We share common interest in things such as weaponry, fighting, skateboarding and I've always wanted to surf while he already rode a few waves. But outside the guy stuff, we also love romance, kissing, cuddling and the like too.
He'll be showing me all his city stuff when I'm there, the types of things he knows. But while he's here, I want to show him the stuff I grew up doing.
So my question is, does my ideal date seem really weird? Or is it kinda cool considering I'm a country girl?

2007-01-13 17:02:36 · 14 answers · asked by Shel K 3 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy a couple nights ago he is a friend of a friend..we hit it off pretty well and now we have been texting back and forth and what not...He kind of gives me a creepy vibe sometimes though Im not really sure what he is looking for..my friend says he is a nice guy and he talked to him about me for hours so should i go with my gut instinct or trust my friends judgement..he wants to go out just the two of us this week any suggestions as to what a type of date we should go on that will not be too awkward...thank you

2007-01-13 17:02:22 · 6 answers · asked by Colie 2 in Singles & Dating

When some one sends you a email and they put B.O.B. what dose it mean

2007-01-13 17:02:05 · 3 answers · asked by $$$$$$$$ice man$$$$$$$$ 3 in Singles & Dating

i think about him alot,i go to his myspace page alot,just to see his picture,i always talk about him,i turn down other guys,cuz he is the 1 i want.i listen to love songs,and think of him.i have NEVER been in love,so is it love,or a big crush?

2007-01-13 17:01:55 · 9 answers · asked by ? 2 in Friends

2007-01-13 17:00:21 · 3 answers · asked by yogi_some 1 in Friends

a hot guy that you have been crushing on or your guy friend who you acually talk to and know stuff about? im confused!!! wich would you pick?!

2007-01-13 17:00:07 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm not an english speaker. i want it's meaning (not a dictionary one) and it's usage I mean how do we do that?!!!

2007-01-13 16:59:19 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend is under 18, so we are going to go to Massachussetts to get married because you dont' need parental consent. The place where you apply to get a license said that all we need is a waiver from the court. Does anyone know how easy it is to get a waiver from the court?

2007-01-13 16:59:10 · 10 answers · asked by wdunn27 1 in Marriage & Divorce

they're everywhere, the mexican and the caucasian races are intertwining more and more everyday. i myself am a product of that exact circumstance. i am hispanic but you would not be able to tell me apart from any other white guy. was i blessed? or cursed?

2007-01-13 16:58:29 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This happens to me quite often. I am at a store, or somewhere out during the day and I notice a guy looking at me (i know he is checking me me out and smiles at me) and then I look at him (I think Wow he's cute) and usually just smile and keep on walking. Should a girl smile and also say Hi or just keep minding her business until the guy approaches her with small talk and maybe then he will ask for her number??
True question is, How to meet GUYS and when to make a move..... or when not to make a move... or never make a move...
thanks!!

ps: i am not desperate just want to know if I should do more than just smile and keep on walking.

2007-01-13 16:58:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating