This happens to me quite often. I am at a store, or somewhere out during the day and I notice a guy looking at me (i know he is checking me me out and smiles at me) and then I look at him (I think Wow he's cute) and usually just smile and keep on walking. Should a girl smile and also say Hi or just keep minding her business until the guy approaches her with small talk and maybe then he will ask for her number??
True question is, How to meet GUYS and when to make a move..... or when not to make a move... or never make a move...
thanks!!
ps: i am not desperate just want to know if I should do more than just smile and keep on walking.
2007-01-13 16:58:16 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
start having sex on the floor
2007-01-13 17:03:05 · answer #1 · answered by Jesse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel you, girl. Keep in mind, most men are looking at you wondering what you look like without your clothes on. Go with what your heart tells you to do. If a guy passes you and smiles and you feel a connection, go for it! He maybe the one. There's no reason you can't make the first move and talk to him and exchange your # first. The man doesn't have to approach the female first, that's so old fashion. Men like it when we approach them first! Believe it or not, they're more scared of us than we are of them.Good Luck :)
2007-01-14 01:08:03 · answer #2 · answered by rspheart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just put your hand up a little, to give the air of daintiness, guys like it (its like a damsel in distress). Also mouth Hi or Hello (never hey, hookers say hey), don't vocalize.
If he gives the effort to say hi back, he will talk more. And then he's worth it,
If he does nothing then you didn't want him anyway.
Now if you are constantly seeing him looking at you inthe store, find an object close by both of you and comment on it.
Hey you may not even think he is cute after he talks :) Good luck
2007-01-14 01:06:04 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel Lee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile sweetly and make eye contact for a few seconds, then give him a minute or two. If there is no approach from him, offer him eye contact once more and wait another minute as you noticibly begin to move away. Another smile over your shoulder and off you go!
It either wasn't meant to be or he wasn't brave enough!
Just enjoy the fact that ya still got it and walk on to greener pastures!
2007-01-14 01:07:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We're in a new world today....women approach men all the time. Go for it....as long as you don't come up with a lame pick up line. It doesn't hurt to say Hi and see if you can make some small talk. You never know where it could lead.
2007-01-14 01:05:25 · answer #5 · answered by cheri_anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be yourself. if a guys smiles at you, smile back, it's okay. say hi and keep on going. if he is interested after that then he will approach you and start a conversation. there is nothing wrong with a woman making the first move, just go for it. good luck. if you have any other questions, just hit me up.
2007-01-14 01:03:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guy(checks to make sure he still is) i have to tell you that if you keep on walking then you are walkin AWAY... we dont understand and are just as confused as you are :)... so if you really want to meet someone smile and say hi otherwise ..keep on walkin..(oh lifting your tee is a good sign by the way :) so is waving a 20 dollar bill!!
2007-01-14 01:07:48 · answer #7 · answered by Konny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its an obvious answer.
You want them to talk to you, yet you just keep smiling and walking away.
Why would they talk to you if thats your response?
You're telling them, thanks for the attention, but no thanks.
Hold eye contact, keep smiling, face your body towards them.
Wave even, or best case scenario, walk over and say hey whats up?
Guys require a minimum of 3 body language cues (more is definately helpful) in order to acknowledge that she does want his attention.
Initiate and help the rest of the world and yourself out.
2007-01-14 01:08:36 · answer #8 · answered by Xldremz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys have just as much anxiety about approching a girl as a girl has about approching a guy! Im a guy I admit it! Its all in the vibe if you feel that by not talking to them you'll be missing something then talk to them! If not more then likely they just were not worth it and you just had a lustfull moment! Peace
2007-01-14 01:03:11 · answer #9 · answered by B C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a good ?ion. you could try the whole walking by and see what he says or you could say hi. i mean you wont know unless you try right? but now days guys try to keep their mouths shut to keep from saying something stupid or risk getting slapped. if you like...i mean really like..the guy go for it. whats the worse that could happen? you could realize he really isnt the one? at least youd know right?
2007-01-14 01:03:22 · answer #10 · answered by Xena83 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think he's qute & fill comfortable then by all means smile & say hi, then let nature take its true course.
2007-01-14 01:14:37 · answer #11 · answered by gordo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋