Family & Relationships - 12 January 2007

girls act slutty? i know alot of sluts and everyone likes them. i dont know how they can like them! why do you like it?

2007-01-12 11:22:31 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Being in love or being single? How come?

2007-01-12 11:22:04 · 18 answers · asked by laedeb 3 in Singles & Dating

well we have never dated but i want to and i dont know how to ask her we have kissed but then we got in to a big fight about 7weeks ago and we just started talking again so should i still ask her out cuz i still really like her

2007-01-12 11:21:47 · 8 answers · asked by boblikesto69 1 in Singles & Dating

I found out that my gf doesnt even like m from her bf. i asked her bout it. she said lets talk bout it. she didnt talk to me n hooked up with 1 of my bfs. every1 in the class including them especially felt bad. my gf and bf wanted it 2 b a secret. they found out that i knew n felt really bad. they tried 2 talk 2 m, ... but i left class. they keep trying 2 n r texting m. on the school day i cant avoid em, wut shud i do.

2007-01-12 11:21:39 · 8 answers · asked by calvin j 2 in Singles & Dating

she just got speakers for her Zune and she blasting im to sexy by right said fred. the song drives me nuts. and ya.... i love her but its killing me.

2007-01-12 11:19:50 · 35 answers · asked by Kate 5 in Family

2007-01-12 11:19:18 · 15 answers · asked by Basket-santa 6 in Singles & Dating

if a man loves someone so much that he gives up everything(house,wife,child,religion) to be with her.tells everyone he meets how happy he is with her,spends tons of money on her,spends all his free time with her(mostly)and thier sex life is the best he ever had.so tell me why after only 3 mons of dating her hes cheating with not one women but 2 on the side but has told them both he will never leave her for them because he loves her.can u cheat on someone u love?

2007-01-12 11:19:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like him a lot and every time he sees me he smiles and he was in one of my classes once and we had so much fun he sat next 2 me we laughed so hard but i dont know if he likes me. how can i get him 2 ask me out?

2007-01-12 11:19:13 · 12 answers · asked by x_sports_chick_o 2 in Singles & Dating

Seriously, I have HUGE difficulties getting over my ex.
He clearly does not give a damn about me, and never did! I feel like an idiot, but I just can't stop thinking about him.
Please, please, please, do you have any good strategies how to put this to an end, I am desperate! It is just like the more he humiliates me and diminishes me the more I am hung up on him.
I know what I should do (just move on) but how?????
Only serious responses please....

2007-01-12 11:18:36 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 16 and every guy has one thing on his mind .. SEEXXX! its always there .. everything is turned into something kinky or sexual or relted to HJ and Bj and eating out .. WHHYY!! ? they dont care if there meant to be with someone .. they go for the skank cuz shes easy .. whyy ? ugghh

2007-01-12 11:18:19 · 27 answers · asked by Missy H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

even when ur in a happy loving relationship do u stil think about cheating?

2007-01-12 11:17:00 · 4 answers · asked by * *sUnShINe GiRl* * 1 in Singles & Dating

As a child growing up I was always known as Mike's (my popular older brother) fugly little fatso sister! Almost everyone one in school ridiculed me about my weight. I would sit in class enduring insult from every direction, feeling like crap as kids through paper balls at me. I would come home crying everyday after school, ashamed of what I was. Mike’s fugly little fatso sister!!! Basically I had a horrible childhood.

Anyway let me get to the point…
My brother’s best friend Jake use to come over to our house like everyday, and like any freshmen girl in my high school thought he was the hottest senior in school. So, I cut his picture out of the yearbook and paste it in my diary, writing my heart out about how I was hopelessly in love Jake Thomson. Soooo… one day I forgot my diary in the living room. And of course my brother and Jake were in the living room goofing around and watching TV. At the time I had no idea my diary was missing, and I definitely did NOT think Jake would find and read my diary!

When I finally found out he had read my diary in was too late. He went around school telling everyone what I wrote. How I was so very hopelessly in LOVE with him, and planned to merry him on day. He even told everyone how my dad would call me his “little butterball”! You know like the butterball turkey? I wanted to commit suicide everyday I was force to go to school, however I didn’t, I just end up eating more and getting ever fatter.

Jake made fun of me more then anyone in school: pushing me out of the way whenever I was around, constantly making malicious false rumors about me. He NEVER gave up an opportunity to humiliate me!

Finally my parents got sick and tired of me coming home crying everyday, from all the teasing at school. So, the next thing I knew I was off to an all girl boarding school in New York, were I over the years lost weight. No longer the FUGLY LITTLE FATSO BUTTERBALL! I became the tall, beautiful girl, who later on in life became a model.

It’s been years since high school, and I see him… Jake! At a club, the azz who made my life an absolute living nightmare! Though now he’s not so much of an azzhole anymore… and I realize even though he made me feel so bad… I like the person he is now… or appears to be. He has apologized a million times, and I do believe he is truly being honest, however my friends and family think differently. They think he’s just playing nice because of my looks. Jake has been nothing but nice to me for the pass two months since we bumped in to each other at my brother’s club. He’s constantly trying to get me to go out on a date with him, and I’m constantly telling him NO; when secretly kinda wanna go out with him to. He really seems like he has changed a lot and though I have not forgotten I forgive him. Jake treated me so badly all those years… now he treats me better then any guy has ever treated me in my life.


Should I give him a chance and go out with him or should I tell him to shove it???
Should I forgive and forget?

2007-01-12 11:16:42 · 7 answers · asked by Maria 1 in Singles & Dating

HOW SHOULD I TELL HIM

2007-01-12 11:15:54 · 45 answers · asked by Tkenya J 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My aunty had sex with a guy I like and have had sex with. Neither the guy nor my aunty know I know I don't want to do anything else with the guy, saddly I still like him, but i don't know what to do about my aunty. I am 17 the guy is 19 and my aunty is 29 or 28. I have liked the guy a LONG time and about a week after Me and him I found out about him and my aunty. I don't want to touch her or talk to her. When I see her I feel sick. She knew I liked him she has known a long time. I don't like thinking what I think about her but I can't stop being angry, What should I do? I don't feel like I can tell her I know OR him. HELP

2007-01-12 11:15:04 · 17 answers · asked by LeoJames8-1-08 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

theres this guy named nyles at my school and he thinks hes all that and he always stares at me weirdly and he is getting weird. All my friends say that i should go out with him but i dont know what to do wut should i do

2007-01-12 11:15:03 · 8 answers · asked by emma leahy 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 11:14:39 · 17 answers · asked by kay kay 1 in Friends

Well we went out to catch up on things and we kissed each other a few times and had a great conversation.

We have been broken up for about 7 months. What does this mean? shall I not really get my hopes up or anything, I'm a little confused.

2007-01-12 11:14:38 · 21 answers · asked by Almeister 5000 1 in Singles & Dating

Wouldn't it be more logical to inherit our mother's surname ? We spend the first nine months of our existence inside our mother and, after being born, most of us spend the next few years in close proximity to our mother. Many people grow up not really knowing their father: some never even meet their father. It's quite rare, on the other hand, for a person not to know his/her mother. Most of us are influenced far more by our mother's personality than by our father's personality.

2007-01-12 11:14:18 · 18 answers · asked by deedsallan 3 in Family

this guy philipe he helped me put my books in my bookbag. and i acidently droped something and he was about to help me pick it up but he had gloves on and today i was in the blood taking chair and my teacher was dimerstrating with me and he moved the arm in front of me. does he likes me or is he just being nice he has a g/f

2007-01-12 11:13:19 · 6 answers · asked by focus_e_us360 1 in Singles & Dating

its this new kid in the neighborhood. i've been wanting to talk to him for a while but i get nervous. we go to the same high school and we ride the same bus. and one of my bestfriends told everyone on the bus that i liked him. i had just found out that he likes me too and that he thinks im cute. so n~e~ways i get on the bus today and everyone is like trying to make us talk. i put my head down and started looking out the window! (lol) and when the boy got of the bus he say smiling so hard! and today at lunch we were just staring at each other! i still havent talked to him! what should i do♥

2007-01-12 11:13:12 · 17 answers · asked by ♥la chica♥ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

so if you have answered my other questions about my boy problem the update is he is thinking about asking me..well that is what my friends are telling me, and we have never hung out and im really excited...but idk if its true or not..should i get my hopes up?

2007-01-12 11:12:39 · 3 answers · asked by DaisyGurl10 1 in Singles & Dating

He has a new practice and has requested that I not have access to that in the event I file for divorce for any reason other than infadelity. In turn if he files for divorce for any reason other than infidelity my interest in the firm would be community property as indicated by state law. We both have children from previous marriages but that is not a factor. His business is only 1 year old but will prove to be worth a large sum of money. I just graduated from college and am at an impass in my career as I had to leave my position in order to be with HIM. We have different experiences from divorce and this is his motivating factor for asking for such. My answer is yes. I'll sign, I don't care about the firm or money I love him. But for some reason I feel terribly hurt and alone. I can't talk to anyone with any sense of perspective or that wouldn't have negative feelings about him. I agree with the practicality of it yet the concept actually makes me feel betrayed. How do I get over it?

2007-01-12 11:12:30 · 11 answers · asked by mel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when a man gets down on his knees and ask a the women to merry nhim , why all of the sudden does he think its ok for him to cheat?
now ya see, not all men are like that but some are. If ur going to ask a woman to marrie you , and you tell her ur want to spen the rest of your life with her dont be expecting to be together after she find out ur cheatin on her with another woman. and wats even scarrier is when she find ouut that ur cheating on her with another MAN then thing start to get violent. Come on men if you dont love the women any more then just tell her, it would more heart breakin to her to have to go through the pain knowing that her man is cheatin on her.

2007-01-12 11:11:53 · 7 answers · asked by amanda s 1 in Singles & Dating

and moved a couple states away and you were thinking about going back and seeing some friends would you visit your ex(even if you really miss them)

2007-01-12 11:11:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do i flirt with a guy without being to obvious

2007-01-12 11:11:05 · 27 answers · asked by unknown_4532 1 in Singles & Dating

Every day when my husband gets home he is so stressed out that he yells at my son, and is in a really bad mood. I know he doesn't mean it but he turns a good day bad really quick. He works very hard and is extremely tired so I try to make things go as easy as possible. He is not abusive and is a really good husband and dad. Any ideas on how I can make evening time a little less miserable?

2007-01-12 11:11:01 · 11 answers · asked by giamc 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I have a friend (Lauren) & she is really mad because somebody said to her that i said to her ex boyfrien he could do better then her...ME!
When I never said that, When he saked me if I thought he could do better i said "NO lauren is the prettiest" but someone made somefin up & she doesnt believe me I even showed her the chat log (as that all happened on msn) but she still doesnt. (1) How can I show her im telling the truth?

& there was a boy she liked 2 weeks ago and she made it clear that she didnt like him, & the past couple of days he has been flirting with me so I thought it was ok to do it back but then she got really angry so I told him we cant do it anymore & i have to put my girls first but he wont listen to me he still does it, so i dont relpy to his texts. (2) Am i Doing the right thing? (3) And im moving 3 hrs away in 3 or 4 weeks is there anyway i could help us be friends again? (4) Do you think I have done anything wrong?

Thanks plz answer!!! xOx

2007-01-12 11:10:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-12 11:10:18 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 11:10:10 · 14 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex-bf was the one who ended our relationship. We dated for one month & it never went past kissing cuz he knew I wanna save myself for marriage. Yet, even after it was over he would still say hi to me on msn. Last week he called me, (it has been almost a year since the breakup), & he asked me to go see a movie with him. I went, he picked me up, then he drove me home. On the drive home, I asked him why he wanted to see me after all this time & he said "just to see you, I wanna see u every once in awhile". Now, since we're kinda friends does this mean that I can ask him to do things too? He's in Asia now but he comes back in one month, should I ask him for coffee when he gets back? Why did he wanna see me after one year? Did he mean he only wants to see me when HE wants to, on his terms, or do u think he'll be happy if I ask him to hang out sometimes too?
By the way, is he still attracted to me if he wants to hang out, even as friends?

2007-01-12 11:10:01 · 7 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating