My aunty had sex with a guy I like and have had sex with. Neither the guy nor my aunty know I know I don't want to do anything else with the guy, saddly I still like him, but i don't know what to do about my aunty. I am 17 the guy is 19 and my aunty is 29 or 28. I have liked the guy a LONG time and about a week after Me and him I found out about him and my aunty. I don't want to touch her or talk to her. When I see her I feel sick. She knew I liked him she has known a long time. I don't like thinking what I think about her but I can't stop being angry, What should I do? I don't feel like I can tell her I know OR him. HELP
2007-01-12 11:15:04 · 17 answers · asked by LeoJames8-1-08 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Your aunty is dead wrong especially if she knew you liked him. You should tell her that you slept with him, and just peep her response. If she sadly says she did as well then y'all should both just leave him alone. If she doesn't tell you, then you have reason to be weary of her and you should still leave him alone. You need to leave him alone altogether anyway because he sounds like someone who does not care about your feelings.
2007-01-12 11:22:17 · answer #1 · answered by Suu S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me give you this advice. Blood is thicker than water and if he had the nerve to sleep with you and then turn around and sleep with your aunt then he is no good. He does not care enough about you nor has any respect for you if he goes and sleep with your aunt. Dump him get him out of your mind and out the way. If he did it once he will do it again. Maybe he told your aunt some lies about he don't like you or something like that. I can't see your aunt sleeping with him knowing that he slept with you she could not have known. Don't think less about your aunt in anyway cause if she would of known she would of turned him away. There are far more better guys in this world and he is not one of them trust me. You may want to sit your aunt down and let her know about you and him nine times outta ten he lied and did not tell her. Guys are gonna be guys no matter how much you like them they are gonna do what they wanna do. Don't ever let a guy come between you and your family. When he get tired of sleeping with you and her he is gonna move on to the next girl that comes along. You don't need him find you a REAL MAN who will respect you and love you enough to where he knows sleeping with you aunt or anyone close to you or knows you is off limits he will only be into you and you only. Talk to your aunt and find out what he told her and you and her talk about it , after the talk you and her both kick his no good sorry buttt to the curve you both can do way better. HE is not GODs gift to woman and he is not the only fine sexy guy that you can meet.
2007-01-12 11:27:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, it's definately wrong, but you can't continue to keep it bottled up, it will only hurt worse. You need to tell both of them what you know and how you feel. Get it off your chest. No matter how they reply, how could they possibly degrade you any further. You can be stronger and more of a person than either of them. A real man wouldn't do that to you, neither should family.
2007-01-12 11:21:36 · answer #3 · answered by confused? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah thats real wrong of your auntie she knew better than that i cant belive that family actually acts like that, i am sorry to say but you defintky need ot get over that guy and try and find a place to forgive your auntie its nit worth you having this hatered on your heart, tommorow is promised to no one and you dont want something to happen and you dont have forgivness you dont have to talk to her just forgive her:)
2007-01-12 11:34:57 · answer #4 · answered by brown_eyedgurl22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Family first. You need to talk to your Aunt and tell her that you know about her and the guy, and you need to tell her how hurt and angry you are at her.
2007-01-12 11:39:28 · answer #5 · answered by WENDY G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to let it go. Both of them knew what they were doing and it can't be changed, so try to get over it. Confronting either of them won't accomplish anything.
2007-01-12 11:21:50 · answer #6 · answered by rustybones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok u guys need to be on jerry sringer and u need to kick ur aunt's ass if u dont i could help and then dump that SOB's ass u'll get over him trust me u can always find another guy there r lots of them out there. then move on .
2007-01-12 12:09:20 · answer #7 · answered by lilac. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
REALLY NO OFFENSE OK, but you need to talk to a phsychiatrist for that. Those guys are good for stuff like that. Oh I fell sorry for you.
2007-01-12 11:20:33 · answer #8 · answered by Luke Vader 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends on alot, i mean, if you are in a town of about 500, then i would say keep him and get over it,
if you are in a city, then drop him fast, and get rid of the aunt, her function in life is to guide and support you, not to back stab you,
but i would say get rid of him and her, and move on, you are young with your whole life in front of you, live it, and live it good.
2007-01-12 11:22:51 · answer #9 · answered by Dawn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
since ur aunty gets him , leave them alone, do not like him, it s over.
2007-01-12 11:21:41 · answer #10 · answered by gentle whisper 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋