As a child growing up I was always known as Mike's (my popular older brother) fugly little fatso sister! Almost everyone one in school ridiculed me about my weight. I would sit in class enduring insult from every direction, feeling like crap as kids through paper balls at me. I would come home crying everyday after school, ashamed of what I was. Mike’s fugly little fatso sister!!! Basically I had a horrible childhood.
Anyway let me get to the point…
My brother’s best friend Jake use to come over to our house like everyday, and like any freshmen girl in my high school thought he was the hottest senior in school. So, I cut his picture out of the yearbook and paste it in my diary, writing my heart out about how I was hopelessly in love Jake Thomson. Soooo… one day I forgot my diary in the living room. And of course my brother and Jake were in the living room goofing around and watching TV. At the time I had no idea my diary was missing, and I definitely did NOT think Jake would find and read my diary!
When I finally found out he had read my diary in was too late. He went around school telling everyone what I wrote. How I was so very hopelessly in LOVE with him, and planned to merry him on day. He even told everyone how my dad would call me his “little butterball”! You know like the butterball turkey? I wanted to commit suicide everyday I was force to go to school, however I didn’t, I just end up eating more and getting ever fatter.
Jake made fun of me more then anyone in school: pushing me out of the way whenever I was around, constantly making malicious false rumors about me. He NEVER gave up an opportunity to humiliate me!
Finally my parents got sick and tired of me coming home crying everyday, from all the teasing at school. So, the next thing I knew I was off to an all girl boarding school in New York, were I over the years lost weight. No longer the FUGLY LITTLE FATSO BUTTERBALL! I became the tall, beautiful girl, who later on in life became a model.
It’s been years since high school, and I see him… Jake! At a club, the azz who made my life an absolute living nightmare! Though now he’s not so much of an azzhole anymore… and I realize even though he made me feel so bad… I like the person he is now… or appears to be. He has apologized a million times, and I do believe he is truly being honest, however my friends and family think differently. They think he’s just playing nice because of my looks. Jake has been nothing but nice to me for the pass two months since we bumped in to each other at my brother’s club. He’s constantly trying to get me to go out on a date with him, and I’m constantly telling him NO; when secretly kinda wanna go out with him to. He really seems like he has changed a lot and though I have not forgotten I forgive him. Jake treated me so badly all those years… now he treats me better then any guy has ever treated me in my life.
Should I give him a chance and go out with him or should I tell him to shove it???
Should I forgive and forget?
2007-01-12 11:16:42 · 7 answers · asked by Maria 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
what Jake did to you was terrible, but he was only young, as people grow up they tend to mature.if you were to approach Jake and tell him what he did to you was hurtful he may apologise, then and only then would i try to forgive him.
you can always forgive a person but it doesn't mean you have to forget about it, because life is all about the problems we have to face as humans everyday. i genuinely believe that we have intuitions that guide us to the right decision that has to be made, if your heart is telling you to date him now, go ahead and give it a chance and if it doesn't work out , just remember there are plenty of other fish in the sea...good luck
2007-01-12 11:28:33 · answer #1 · answered by scarlettstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
pls follow your heart. I know he was mean then bue I do think that people change....however could this be ur chance to get back at him for all the wrong doing that he did to you (evil laugh)......no seriously, if you want to go for it. I believe everything happens for a reason. If he had never teased you would u have not went away to that school and became the good looking model that u are now? There are a lot of surrounding things u must look at...good luck.
2007-01-12 13:42:36 · answer #2 · answered by ♥Im Eric's Chic♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u know jake better than i do, so only would be able to tell if hes being real with u or hes just after ur looks and money. but if u think hes being real, then i dont see why u shouldnt give him a chance. u gotta remember, when ur young, u also do pretty stupid things and sometimes u realize they were stupid when u get older. we all make mistakes, but we all deserve a second chance also. give the poor guy a chance and see what happens, i bet if u guys went out and started talking bout high skool u guys would probably start laughing at somethings he did and somethings u did. beleive me, it will be worth it if hes really being real with u.
2007-01-12 11:26:18 · answer #3 · answered by oc 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jake is bad. Forget about Jake. He's using you, or atleast trying to. He humiliated you to make himself feel better and look better in the eyes of the kids at school. He never bothered to find out who you were, just wrote you off and made fun of you.
I had a little sister who was obese in school, and the ONE time she told me about someone picking on her about I dropped the SOB in the main hall.
So basically, Jakes a dick and so is your brother for not standing by you.
2007-01-12 11:35:12 · answer #4 · answered by mmaxx59 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋
To tel you the truth this guy saw you when you were a better looking girl and when you were little he us to make fun of you!People change but somtimed for the wrong reasons!Like you became very beautiful and he saw you and changed his mind he sounds alittle to good to be true does it not but you could try it and see what happenes and if it doesnt work it doesnt work and then dump that dude i guess you just forget about the past!! Just give it a try and see what happenes! GOOD LUCK
2007-01-12 11:25:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I would forget about Jake : Unless he really changed. But if he was like that when you were little he could still have a mean side to him that may want to make fun of you again. I know its not much of advice but I hope I helped you out.
2007-01-12 11:21:06 · answer #6 · answered by Janie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everybody do change so I say try giving him a chance. Go out with him but be careful; don't let your guard down because of his looks. Try it out but if you're still having doubts, go out with other people and see what happens. Good luck! =]
2007-01-12 11:21:48 · answer #7 · answered by michelleee♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋