Ok I have a friend (Lauren) & she is really mad because somebody said to her that i said to her ex boyfrien he could do better then her...ME!
When I never said that, When he saked me if I thought he could do better i said "NO lauren is the prettiest" but someone made somefin up & she doesnt believe me I even showed her the chat log (as that all happened on msn) but she still doesnt. (1) How can I show her im telling the truth?
& there was a boy she liked 2 weeks ago and she made it clear that she didnt like him, & the past couple of days he has been flirting with me so I thought it was ok to do it back but then she got really angry so I told him we cant do it anymore & i have to put my girls first but he wont listen to me he still does it, so i dont relpy to his texts. (2) Am i Doing the right thing? (3) And im moving 3 hrs away in 3 or 4 weeks is there anyway i could help us be friends again? (4) Do you think I have done anything wrong?
Thanks plz answer!!! xOx
2007-01-12 11:10:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
wow that's something u should talk 2 your friend about talk over the phone and press *67 before u call so she cant c your # and she will pick up tell her what really happened
2007-01-12 11:17:09 · answer #1 · answered by vicky v 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1) to show her the truth just sit down and say: Listen, i would never say any thing like that about u because u know we are good friends (remind her of ur strong friend ship) and that i dont say things like that about u. it was a rumor. 2) i think that is the right thing to do. ignore his txts and delete them. 3) explain to her that she sed she didnt like him, and u trusted her to be telling the truth, so u were flirting back. tell her that if u would have known she liked him, then u wouldnt have flirted. (but had the rite to). 4) i think ur doing the rite thing just make sure the flirting stops, and set the rumor straight. be the bigger person and talk it out. if she is stubborn and wont beleive u or cooperate, just tell her u tried to explain, but she wouldnt listen. give her a few days and maybe she'll come around. if not, there is nothing else u can do.
2007-01-12 11:25:17 · answer #2 · answered by jennalovesryan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you have done nothing wrong. Please your friend Lauren may be pretty on the outside but her insides are shinning through. She cannot make a guy like her no matter what she does and even if she did more with the boys than other girls do that does not make them really love you. yes you will be popular but that is the wrong kind of popular. You will most likely be a very sad person as you grow up. Be honest with your friends and if they don't believe you than it is their loss not yours and if this boy likes you and you like him than don't let her stand in your way. You say your moving in a few weeks just move on with your life if she is not willing to listen to you, believe in you and put your friendship first. Good Luck!
2007-01-12 11:22:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ive been in that situation....kind of but this is the number one thing u need to remember and keep wit u always. is never ever let any boy/gurl get in between u and ur friends its not smart thats just being retarded. ok jus tell ur friend that wy wud "u" do this to since u guys are friends and if she was a true friend then she would of trusted u over anything anyone says she shouldnt be believeing wut other pplz be saying she should of came to u first before starting to believe the rumors and who ever is tlkn smack bout u like that behind ur back dont have the balls to say it to ur face....dont worry bout it u dint do anything wrong a guy chooses who he likes and who he flirts wit in ur case he chose u and dont worry bout ur friend if u just like sit her down and tlk to her and tell her she's being dumb for being mad at u for a guy who she probably just met and had a lil crush on just say how long have u guys been friends and stuff like that
2007-01-12 11:22:21 · answer #4 · answered by jimmy N 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your friend is wrong, cuz if you were really true friends she should believe you, and understand that you are telling the truth. if she doesn't want to believe you then that means she is not a true friend, right? and if she says she doesn't like a guy why can't you flirt with him. it doesn't make sense. she just wants all the men for her. she should be happy for you sometimes. i don't know how good friends you are, but she doesn't sound too nice.
2007-01-12 11:18:27 · answer #5 · answered by Hayla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should get a new friend that isn't angry at you all the time and one that trusts you
2007-01-12 11:29:11 · answer #6 · answered by Mandy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋