do guys really think about sex 90% of the time?

Question

im 16 and every guy has one thing on his mind .. SEEXXX! its always there .. everything is turned into something kinky or sexual or relted to HJ and Bj and eating out .. WHHYY!! ? they dont care if there meant to be with someone .. they go for the skank cuz shes easy .. whyy ? ugghh

Answer 1

ya sex will be on their minds until they're about 50

Answer 2

A lot has to do with puberty (hormones) but a lot also has to do with the fact that we live in a society of sex. But guys your age, and yes, even when we're older, will think about sex. However, at a young age, we're not very experienced with sex, or with relationships for that matter. And so we want to have sex all the time. A lot of it has to do with inexperience, and often times peer pressure.

It seems to be a pretty common notion that men think about sex more often than women, however, I think men are more aggressive in sharing their desires than women are. I hate to say this, as it seems to be such a easy way to try and explain it, but that's just sort of the way it is. Sure all men aren't pigs, and honestly, as we get older we will get over thinking and obsessing about sex. Unfortunately that just comes with time, and maturity.

I think the important thing any girl your age should understand is that you should never succumb to somebody else's wants and desires especially if you're not comfortable with it. If you're seeing some guy and he's obsessed with sex, you should be confident enough in yourself not to give in. If he's a relatively good guy, he'll still want to have sex regardless, but he will also respect your decision until you're ready. If he's with you just for sex, then he's not with you for a good enough reason.

Good luck.

Answer 3

As a man I can tell you we don't all think of sex 90% of the time, like myself a lot of us think about sex 99% of the time. It's hard to describe but you would understand if you had a P e n i s.

Answer 4

Not true.
There are only two times that guys think about sex.

When they are with a woman.
When they are not with a woman.

Hope that clears up the misconception.

Guys at your age are not looking....and really shouldn't be looking...for a long term relationship. Too much growing up to do.

But that doesn't stop them thinking about sex and so if they find a girl you call a skank....they will go out with her because she is for only one thing.....fun.

Yes I know.....not fair to everyone else.
While guys never get over thinking about sex it does get better for relationships as they get older.

Answer 5

It really depends on the age, for the above questions being asked, the age is an main point issue. Teenagers are more curious and interested in relationship. But because the age, relationship for them is more about the physical touches other than those in mind. They do much more than they think. That's probably why teenage boys think about the sex all the time.

Answer 6

I'd tend to disagree. Sex isn't on my mind 90% of the time - not even when I'm out with my gf.

It's hormones - they tell you to procreate. People can't control the feelings. Amongst teenagers (such as myself) there are fluctuating levels of testosterone being released into the system.

Answer 7

I'll tell you why...What is the one thing woman are always thinking about? Cuddling and feeling wanted. Sometimes a great back rub will suffice (not always, often we too need more :)). However, we are usually content with Snuggling and being told how loved we are. Men on the other hand honestly need sex to get the same feeling we get from snuggling. Now don't get me wrong I love sex just as much as the next woman but that is just the scientific makeup of men. Sex makes them feel wanted so they are always craving it just as cuddling makes us feel wanted as we are always craving it.
I hope this helps you!

Answer 8

No, I don't think that it is 90% of the time, not at least with older guys, you know, the ones who have jobs, and a life...

Answer 9

If you are noticing this already and it bothers you, then I’d say GOOD for you.
Guys are pigs by nature and it takes time for the smart ones to realize this, then it takes the ones with brains to over come it. It’s an unfortunate physical limitation of young men (and some older ones too).
My advise is be patient, use your power of observation and you will find a wonderful guy that knows there is more to life then looking for the brainless skanks and the easy.

Answer 10

Part of it is today's society, more girls have sex now before marriage then back in the 50's, 60's 70's. so boys now days assume that all girls will just have sex with them. do yourself a favor and save it for that special guy on your wedding night.

Answer 11

no way that's insulting. more like 95%. j/k You need to understand that your peers (teenagers) are going to developmental stages and everything is new. t.v and music exploits sex which caters to teenagers. compare the number of love songs (not love making) to those songs about booty etc. get the picture. people are bombarded with sexual images every where we go. it's part of the culture. and guys (specially young guys) have their hormones on 5th gear. not all guys are like this though. go out with the shy guy, yeah the one that wears all black, the one in art class, those are your best bet. p.s by the way guys ur age may talk about sex but they have no clue on consecuences,birth control, diseases, or what to do with the opposite sex.