Family & Relationships - 6 January 2007

Getting kicked in the balls or laying on the floor and having your balls stomped on.

2007-01-06 09:39:04 · 3 answers · asked by Batson D. Belfrey 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 09:37:53 · 7 answers · asked by what why where when 1 in Singles & Dating

we a have 21 months together, I was studing in the US and then I came back to my country and she came with me. Now she have to go back to the US to continue with her life, she's 23 and I'm 28.
We want to be together but its impossible, and a long distance relationship wont work because I'm not planning to move to the US (the inmigration thing is the mayor problem) and she doesn't want to stay here in my country (Peru)
It is very sad and I dont know if it's better for me to get closer to her or to be separate and pretend she already left. Please
I need advise

2007-01-06 09:37:28 · 17 answers · asked by V+ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am 17yrs8mo old and my boyfriend is turning 19 next week. We got engaged today. We had been 'unspokenly engaged' for a while but today he got me a ring and finalized it. I am leaving to college in August and he will be moving out of state with me. We are not planning to get married until I finish at least a bachelor's degree, we don't have any kids and are not planning on any because I have been declared sterile by the doctor. I am planning to go to law school, I am an A an B student. I believe to have a certain maturity, but has our decision been too early or immature? I have received both positive and negative feedback from friends. I believe in what I am doing but I will like to hear your opinions and personal stories.

2007-01-06 09:36:53 · 18 answers · asked by twigounette 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive really fancied my work colleague for ages.And i`ve kept quiet knowing he was married.Anyway recently i`ve really found it difficult to keep my feelings to myself and have been discreetly grabbing his bum or bending over in a provocative way where he can see.And last week i followed him to his house just so i could see where he lives and the following day i sent him a bunch of roses(sweet i think).Anyway today as a surprise i borrowed his car keys and put on some sexy underwear and high heels,wrote "take me" in red lipstick across my tummy and laid in the back of the car.Next thing i was being dragged out of the car and being called all sorts of hurtful names and his silly wife was ripping my hair out!!The fat bint should`ve been grateful dont you think... i mean if hes got a bit on the side she can carry on not putting any effort into herself.Some women are just so sensitive and unappreciative of the efforts us wannabe mistresses put into their needy husbands.

2007-01-06 09:36:13 · 45 answers · asked by Nellynoo 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-06 09:35:58 · 4 answers · asked by arsenalsalam 2 in Singles & Dating

If you're still with your wife, but feel that you no longer love her, what can she do to soften your heart? Women are often in the dark on this one, so shed some light, guys.

2007-01-06 09:35:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hey im in love with this woman whose married she feels the same.,we had an affair which i lost my girlfriend over,its her husband thats stopping her he threatens to take the kids what do i do ?

2007-01-06 09:35:04 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 09:35:01 · 23 answers · asked by neha 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

okay, this is kinda peronal, but I'm really currious. When I have sex, my biggest turn on is when my guy calls me mean names, and pulls my hair really hard. But in real life I would be offended if he (or anyone) called me thoes names, does anyone else like this? Is it normal for someone to like to be put down durring sex?

2007-01-06 09:34:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok so there's this guy that ive been really good friends with for a while, like since about this time two years ago. over the summer we got even closer and i liked him and i was convinced that he liked me. i didnt ask him out cuz there's really nothing to do on a date here and so we would just tell people that we're going out. then just before christmas this girl who is a complete slut and who onle talked to him about twice before asked him out and he said yes. now he doesnt talk to me when he sees me around, he only texts me about twice and says he has to go, that type of thing. Earlier this week he promised to come to a party with me and then at the last moment he said he couldnt go with the lame excuse that he had to sleep because he has a tournament today. He has split off from our group of friends and is hanging out with the sluts and wrestlers now and he just isnt himself anymore. What do you think he's trying to do? Is he just a jerk? what should I do?

2007-01-06 09:34:31 · 4 answers · asked by Who, Me?? ...I'm Lost... 4 in Singles & Dating

Any methods besides going up to them and saying it

2007-01-06 09:34:10 · 2 answers · asked by The Ponderer 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a woman, and a strong one at that, and I never let anyone treat me as less of a human being because of my sex. I can do anything a man can do, and all you women should feel the same!

So I was wondering -- how do you feel about the woman being the one to propose?

2007-01-06 09:32:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

is he putting his hand in his trousers, when you watch tv in the sofa, or while talking ? My gf often make me notice that lol; like AL BUNDY does. It has nothing sexual, I just feel comfortable to put my hand there.

2007-01-06 09:32:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this girl in school lied to us more than i can count and when we gave her another chance she lied agin and now she wont leave us alone what do i do

2007-01-06 09:32:13 · 2 answers · asked by andi 2 in Friends

My Aunt Took My Freind Out To The Movies And Shopping And Didn't Bring Me???

2007-01-06 09:30:00 · 5 answers · asked by prittyamy101 1 in Friends

HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-06 09:29:44 · 6 answers · asked by daniellecandypops 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 09:29:14 · 20 answers · asked by ITS OK 1 in Marriage & Divorce

how should i tell this guy that im totally in love considers me as a freind, with that i love him more than i ever have loved any one and do I?

2007-01-06 09:28:49 · 2 answers · asked by Majsen 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-06 09:27:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i'm a 19 year old student, i left home last summer because i no longer get on with my grandparents and their son, my uncle is someone who i feel has many issues for example he gave his brother a wound which required stitches for drinking out of HIS cup, over the summer he threw me on the floor for sitting in HIS chair, he has never had a girlfriend and freaks out at the mention of sex, he once hung up on my ex deliberately because "i dont speak to your gf"yet we've caught him watching porn in the living room, anyway my grandparents constantly support him despite the fact he threatens violence recent examples include threatening me with the police for using my own video player which gave me and taking it to uni, and to beat me up for using HIS shower time and moving HIS toothbrush, and he insults myself and my mother and all of this is driving me mad its making me feel ill i stay up all night to be alone, when i sleep i don't get any rest i wake up feeling just the same i'm going nuts

2007-01-06 09:27:46 · 27 answers · asked by Mike C 1 in Family

Ok i know i might be old fashioned cuz i think the guy should ask the girl out but today a lot of girls are asking the guys out which way do you think it should be?

2007-01-06 09:27:21 · 18 answers · asked by amber 2 in Singles & Dating

i put a note in the backpack of my crush yesterday morning and i have not gotten a reply. We are aquaitences, and talk a little everyday, in 2nd hour. I really like him, but im not sure if he likes me. the note basically said that i think he was a cool guy and i would like to hang out sometime (#). i dont want to be embarassed by this, but will he ever bring it up or is he shy owhat?

2007-01-06 09:27:17 · 12 answers · asked by kat 3 in Singles & Dating

she can come across intimidated, unconfident or intense - even if she agrees to go out on a date with him. How can he get her to really relax and be herself? I met up with a woman for some afternoon coffee but she seemed really shy and nervous at all times. However, she really enjoyed my company as we ended up going to an exhibition nearby and even had dinner together at a restaurant when the plan was only to have coffee. It was frustrating that she couldn't really open up so I had to do a lot of the talking. I have sinced moved on but am wondering, what do I do in the future if I come across a similar situation with another woman?

2007-01-06 09:26:05 · 13 answers · asked by The boy from London 6 in Singles & Dating

We have been on and off again for 2 years. We have been doing very well for a few months and have lived together for 11 months. Now all of a sudden he ran into finance problems he wents to leave, move in with a friend becuase he feels that this is his problem and not mine. I love him dearly and feel that this is "our" problem. We have some bills seperate and some bills together. Just a few weeks ago we were planing our wedding and now he feels like he shouldn't be with me (just because of finances). What I really want to say is - MARRY ME or just forget us forever! I say this because he wants to leave but still see each other, but I feel by him leaving that he is just thinking about himself and not "US". ARG!!!!!!!!!!!!!! What do I do?????? HELP???!
PS I have a 17 year old that lives with us

2007-01-06 09:25:26 · 7 answers · asked by Rosie 4 in Singles & Dating

One of my friends told his list of girls he liked. He told that this girl was 1st and I was 2nd. He was going to ask her out, but then found out that she was going to play him. So, he doesn't like her anymore, which means I'm 1st. He hasn't asked me out, but he has been flirting with me A LOT! I not sure if I like him or I just think I do because he likes me. What Do I Do?

2007-01-06 09:25:20 · 5 answers · asked by Hayley P 2 in Friends

Some people seem to have an almost unquinchable need for sex and it seems to be the doom of many a relationship. I've read that people have to find their match sexually to be happy. But I wonder why there are people that need so much sex that it interfears with a relationship. The socalled sexperts today seem to accept all this as natural and normal and promote this lifestyle but I wonder if people weren't pushed by popular culture into an attitude that 'Sex Is Everything' they might be different. Does this have something to do with biology or is it culture based?

2007-01-06 09:25:13 · 4 answers · asked by InvicibleStar 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm 18, i mine myself (meaning i support myself financially) and i live with my father, i got a bf about 3 months ago, and i started sleeping out by him, my father does not appriciate that , which is understandable but, i don't see why not, now i live in the caribbean, so things an 18 yr old can do in the USA etc, we 18yr olds cant do down here, but i finish school and going back to get higher level ed, i don't see why i cant sleep out! And now he's not talkin to me.

2007-01-06 09:25:10 · 5 answers · asked by ducky 2 in Family

I have a friend I met online. We talk online everyday and we write to eachother too. He is so much fun, handsome and we get along just great, according to him. Well Ive had a major crush on him since the day I saw him, honest to goodness, cliche I know. He seemed really happy that I told him and he said he really liked me too. One day we were talking and all of a sudden, he said he loved me, which I just shrugged off and told him not to say something he didnt really mean. Problem is that I have realized that I love him too. But he lives so far away. I live in Nebraska and he lives in Gerogia. And also, ever since I told him not to say that to me he seems kinda different. I know it was mean and maybe stupid of me, but understand that at the time I wasnt sure. But now that I know I do love him, Im scared of what might happen next. Maybe hes forgotten about me? Maybe he doesnt care for me anymore?? Either way I need to let him know, please any advice on the whole thing? Thank you so much♥

2007-01-06 09:24:34 · 8 answers · asked by Anna Nemyss 2 in Singles & Dating

my online friend who i'm so attracted to said his weekend was a bit hectic and if we could go out on monday night instead. i know for a fact he's not in a relationship. so i said yes to monday night.

2007-01-06 09:23:32 · 12 answers · asked by noname 4 in Singles & Dating