2007-01-06 09:29:14 · 20 answers · asked by ITS OK 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No way. Do not feel weird about it. I just had a baby in Sept. and I didn't start showing until I was about 7 months along...I didn't even look pregnant but my husband still acted alittle weird about having sex with me...even though I was just as horny as ever. lol
It reallly hurt my feelings and made me sad all the time that he acted that way. I realize that many guys are weirded out by it...but don't be...for your wife's sake. Pregnant sex is actually really great...it was for me anyway...I was more sensitive and could orgasm easier. Just focus on that kind of stuff...and stay turned on by her.
2007-01-06 10:42:49 · answer #1 · answered by S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah I know what you mean.
When I was pregnant my husband would ask awkward things (innocently) like are you sure I'm not going to get any milk if I...
I guess you both just have to become comfortable with the situation. Most importantly though I think, be there for her emotionally, we are a bundle of hormones and wound tight, at this point, be the best friend to her that you possibly can, lots of holding, and bonding to me at this point. But also realise that the intamacy can decrease once the baby comes if the emotional bond between you isnt there. Good luck and Congradulations
2007-01-06 09:36:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your probably feeling different about it because she's carrying the baby inside her, and your not looking at her the same way that you did before she was pregnant.
Having sex while pregnant is perfectly fine for a woman, and don't worry about hurting the baby unless your having really rough sex. But it's not uncomon for guys to feel that way.
I honestly think my wife and I had some of our best sex while she was pregnant, especially since she had all those extra hormones going through her system.
2007-01-06 09:32:13 · answer #3 · answered by Bryan M 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It is the feeling that she has a life in her and you don't know what to think about having sex with her. SO don't worry nothing bad will happen. Some Dr.s say a pregnant woman sometimes can have sex untill shes 8 months along , so enjoy and don't worry just don't go too crazy.
2007-01-06 09:33:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's only weird to you cuz you are thinking that you may injure the baby, or that you are having sex with someone's "mother".....
www.talksexwith sue.com
this site will answer all your questions.
just don't have sex during 8th month....it could bring on premature contractions if she climaxes. do have sex at 9 months, so if the baby is late, she will go into labor!
(bet you really feel weird now!)
the baby won't feel it!
YOUR wife will let you know when it's not okay to have sex.
it just feels wierd to you cuz she's gonna be a Mom, get over your Mom hang-up. And enjoy sex!!!
YOU are perfectly NORMAL.......what you are feeling most guys go thru! Be happy, live well, have fun!
2007-01-06 09:36:22 · answer #5 · answered by Lilly 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well knowing that there is a living being growing inside of your wife's womb is enough put most men off from wanting sex in the beginning of the pregnancy. Your wife will assure you that having sex is okay. Actually sex for her in pregnancy is even better. She will have better orgasms that last longer. There is no chance, as long as the doctor gives it an okay, that you will hurt the baby.
2007-01-06 09:34:49 · answer #6 · answered by witchy91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if she got pregnant by someone else. Other than that there is no reason to feel weird. making love to your wife should never be weird.
2007-01-06 09:32:59 · answer #7 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pregnant girls are sexy... but I understand how you might feel weird. From a biological standpoint, you've done your job in knocking her up... but we're human, and thinking critters... and pregnant women are sexy...
So, talk to her, and move on to having happy sex that is mutually satisfying... a lot of loser guys cheat on their partners when the lady is pregnant.
You're obviously still interested... so shows that you are a step above...
If she's interested, then enjoy...
I had the opposite experience... I was interested, but my partner was NOT... at all... sucked.
-dh
2007-01-06 09:35:41 · answer #8 · answered by delicateharmony 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Her hormones are wild right now. It aint wierd! Man go for it, just don't think your ridin' the bull at the rodeo! Take it easy and you both will enjoy it GREATLY!
2007-01-06 09:32:19 · answer #9 · answered by rtippie57 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should find her even more desirable, because she is carrying your child. You should tell her how beautiful she is, cause believe me a pregnant woman needs to hear that, when all those stretchmarks and extra pounds comes sneakin'. Be a man, not a boy!
2007-01-06 09:44:35 · answer #10 · answered by airidonde 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋