we a have 21 months together, I was studing in the US and then I came back to my country and she came with me. Now she have to go back to the US to continue with her life, she's 23 and I'm 28.
We want to be together but its impossible, and a long distance relationship wont work because I'm not planning to move to the US (the inmigration thing is the mayor problem) and she doesn't want to stay here in my country (Peru)
It is very sad and I dont know if it's better for me to get closer to her or to be separate and pretend she already left. Please
I need advise
2007-01-06 09:37:28 · 17 answers · asked by V+ 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
see I will marry her but we are 2 girls, and the marriage thing wont work
2007-01-06 09:44:40 · update #1
I lived in Germany so I know how hard it is to have such a love for someone but you can't move to the place they are. I am sorry you are going through this. I have a closs friend who lives in Peru now with her husband. Seems like a nice place to live. I think that you should stay in touch and see where things go. You never know.
2007-01-06 09:50:25 · answer #1 · answered by Serinity4u2find 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If neither of you are willing to move to be together, then there is nothing you can do. If you both feel you're meant for eachother you have to be willing to make sacrifices.
I wouldn't pretend she's already left, or try to get closer to her. Just be with her, you won't see her for a long time (I'm assuming). Spend time with her, make her last days in Peru memorable.
If she does move back, and you agree to end your relationship I suggest staying friends and in contact. You never, you might meet up again some day.
2007-01-06 09:42:10 · answer #2 · answered by Alison 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save a lot a of money, try to get a visa or permission to go to usa, marry her over there, get a lawyer, get the citizenship after u get married and become a citizen. Find a nice job in usa, stay there with her and be happy ever after :)
2007-01-06 09:47:10 · answer #3 · answered by kLaUDiA G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you marry an American, you will be able to get permanant residence. Consider if marriage is out of the question. It will take a while but it will be granted is about a year if you are married.
2007-01-06 09:41:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either make the long distance work and go and move to america. or find another girlfriend.
2007-01-06 09:39:29 · answer #5 · answered by travelimits 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that that you should move in with her to the us (we dont bite!!!) I bet that she will love you forever if you do that for her! or you can just try and if you dont like it move back I'm sure she would understand
2007-01-06 09:42:32 · answer #6 · answered by princessdog1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it.
It will take time but you should
there are lots of girls in the world
good luck
2007-01-06 09:39:23 · answer #7 · answered by KT 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You can always get married.
2007-01-06 09:41:18 · answer #8 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marry her.
2007-01-06 09:38:55 · answer #9 · answered by purrdy_blue_eyez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just break up with her but I'am a girl so..
2007-01-06 09:40:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋