i put a note in the backpack of my crush yesterday morning and i have not gotten a reply. We are aquaitences, and talk a little everyday, in 2nd hour. I really like him, but im not sure if he likes me. the note basically said that i think he was a cool guy and i would like to hang out sometime (#). i dont want to be embarassed by this, but will he ever bring it up or is he shy owhat?
2007-01-06 09:27:17 · 12 answers · asked by kat 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If he won't bring it up, than you bring it up. If you were brave enough to stick the note in his bag. Than you're capable of bringing up the conversation like; "Hey did you get my note yesterday?", "Well I'd really like to hang out with you out of school." you know those kinds of things. Surely he's just shy, or if you didn't put your name, he just doesn't know who it's from. Just try talking to him, and then when the time is right. You ask him to hang out =]
2007-01-06 09:31:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just pretend like you never left the note and ask him if he wants to hang. Then he might say something about the note. But it was just yesterday when you gave the note. Hopefully you didn't say too much and scare him. Also, guys are on a different time table. I'd wait until Monday and if he doesn't say something by the end of 2nd hour, ask him if he wants to do something. Better to be up front and get an answer. Notes are kind of chicken really.
2007-01-06 17:35:59 · answer #2 · answered by cather2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear. I think that is embarrassing. My friend has done it twice, and hasn't learned her lesson; both times the guys didn't like her. If he talks to you every day, isn't that enough? You should have gone from there. Like, while you're talking just casually ask him for his number or just say, "you know my phone number right?"
He wasn't shy before because he talked to you; but if it turns out that he doesn't like you that way, things will be awkward and you're going to loose those small talks you have.
2007-01-06 17:51:24 · answer #3 · answered by luvcry247 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he hasnt gotten it yet
i would steel it like during lunch and then look to make sure it is not there or it looks like it has been opened
if you know for sure he got it and he is not responding then dont get hung up on it then just forget about it and if he ever brings it up then just say that maybe a friend put it in as a joke
2007-01-06 17:31:15 · answer #4 · answered by penman11 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl I think the best way for u to bring it up is by talking about it.. U actually get it off ur chest.. Don't be afraid of asking and if he never brings it up maybe he is shy.. Its best for u to find out or else ... if he dosent like u... he is gonna let everyone know ur dying for him when its not true just crush feelings.. but yeah my recommendation is for u to ask about it! and Never wait.. they always want u to ask
2007-01-06 17:37:26 · answer #5 · answered by peepsqueak 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probable just shy.Try saying what you wrote to him.Heck he might even think it was some kind of a joke.Be honest and talk to the guy,either way you can still be friends.
2007-01-06 17:31:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kudos to you for making the first move. I would just be patient and see if he gives you a response if he doesn't respond soon I would bring it up and ask him how he felt about your note. Maybe he was waiting on you to make the first move. Or maybe he has a girlfriend.
2007-01-06 17:30:32 · answer #7 · answered by badazz_51 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He may be just shy, or maybe he's never even seen the note. I say that you approach him and go from there. Best of luck to you.
2007-01-06 17:29:13 · answer #8 · answered by cajunrescuemedic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Next time u see him ask him if he read a note that u gave him. If he says "no" drop the subject, and later he'll try and find the note. If he says"yes" he'll probably start talking about it, and what he thinks.
Hope that helps!
2007-01-06 17:30:48 · answer #9 · answered by sttcgraves 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He might be shy, he might not have found the note yet, or he might not be interested. You'll never know unless you ask.
2007-01-06 17:29:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋